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il0seonpurpose
Korea (South)5638 Posts
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.kaz
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XCetron
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il0seonpurpose
Korea (South)5638 Posts
On September 10 2008 12:22 .kaz wrote: Concentrate on the things about her you dislike. Imagine all the cute things about her as being annoying, like things she says and does. Start fights about those guys for no reason like you're paranoid and it will make her push away from you, and then you can end it. Hmm thats actually good advice, except the fighting. I've been trying to ignore her more and just not respond but man its hard. Thanks | ||
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kpcrew
Korea (South)1071 Posts
20 guys? if she likes u go for it if not, then dont it doesnt matter who else likes her if she likes u | ||
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il0seonpurpose
Korea (South)5638 Posts
It's also crap how I think its all going good like when we talk and stuff, flirt alittle but then she talks to other guys and I know definetly some are interestd in her. CRAP CRAPP CRAP | ||
Arrian
United States889 Posts
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ThePhan2m
Norway2750 Posts
I remember just focusing on the stuff that made her bad. The bitchy stuff, how she would touch her BF in the ass publicly. After awhile just got a totall turn off, tho she is hot, but Im not attracted to her anymore in the same way after that "discovery". We like them clean and ours only, rite? ^^ Basically focus on the bad things about her, look on it realisticly, and ask yourself how well you know her. | ||
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il0seonpurpose
Korea (South)5638 Posts
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Tekin
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nA.Inky
United States794 Posts
How to move on? I'm not sure there is a shortcut. Just feel the feelings, but don't give in to her if you feel sure she isn't really into you. Just be firm with her and don't flirt, and otherwise go through whatever you have to go through. | ||
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Phyre
United States1288 Posts
A) She's been turning all those guys down and they're just really persistent. or B) None of them has gathered up the courage to ask her out. Ask her out, straight up. If she says yes, jackpot. You win. If she says no, then it's cemented in your mind that she's not interested and you can move on easily. So many guys are kept away because they are afraid of rejection but really, you've got nothing to lose. Man up and do what so many of us, myself included, failed to do and thus missed a potential opportunity. Oh yeah, with regards to getting her a nice present and stuff... I wouldn't worry about that. Seriously, what do you expect to come of that? Do you think she's going to ask you out or something? Most you can gain from that with regards to a romantic relationship is that she'll flirt with you more in a best case scenario. A present is nice, but don't crack the bank on one yet. You're not dating, you're just friends right now. Save your cash for when you actually have a girlfriend. | ||
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Phyre
United States1288 Posts
On September 10 2008 12:44 nA.Inky wrote: Yeah, this kind of thing has happened to me plenty of times. You find a nice (usually very attractive also) girl that you think likes you, nice energy, flirtation happening, maybe you even make out and mess around a bit, but then you realize it means basically nothing to her. Or they treat you good one day and ignore you the next. Things are always according to their time table and what they want. It sucks dude. You're right to not put up with it. Some people (men and women) just play lots of games, and usually those games are fun for them and not for you, so best to just move on to someone who won't do you like that. And there are really good women out there who will treat you great, appreciate you, and make you feel wonderful - and hopefully you'll do the same for them. Just be patient. How to move on? I'm not sure there is a shortcut. Just feel the feelings, but don't give in to her if you feel sure she isn't really into you. Just be firm with her and don't flirt, and otherwise go through whatever you have to go through. If the girl is dictating all the time tables then she's in control. If one is to believe all the "girls dig the alpha male type" then you'd want to take control. Giving into what she wants when she wants gives you the "nice guy" label but ultimately that seems to come with the "spineless pussy" label as well these days. Sad state of affairs, but that's the way it seems to be. In my experience, being the confident, cocky, or even arrogant type gets the girl. You keep the girl by slowly switching back to your inner nice guy demeanor as the relationship progresses. Which is basically how I got my girlfriend of almost 4 years now. I went to college thinking "Fuck this, I don't need girls. They just mess with my head and make me feel like shit." Confidence goes up, neediness goes down, happiness goes up along with general outlook on life. 2 years later, my girlfriend approaches me. | ||
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Steelflight-Rx
United States1389 Posts
On September 10 2008 12:29 Arrian wrote: Distracted myself with Broodwar. | ||
lilsusie
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Nitrogen
United States5345 Posts
On September 10 2008 13:08 lilsusie wrote: ... You're 16. (17?) You'll find someone else. Fuck her. (not literally. unless you *could* then you should do that and then leave her) Girls like to play mindgames and especially girls at that age have no idea what they want. They just like the attention. She likes that you like her and that you get upset over other men. You want to focus on everything she does and find it annoying - just understand that she's using you, you're nothing to her, don't spend your money on her, she's got plenty of other shmucks to dote on her. Don't be one of them. hahahahahaha | ||
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il0seonpurpose
Korea (South)5638 Posts
So another thing I've been doing is talking about other girls in front of her, not direcly though, like I talk about hot girls on tv shows, like the hills and she's just like 아이고.. to make her mad. muhahahahaha I'm also thinking about getting a huge poster of wondergirls, even though only like 2 of them are hot and putting it in my room so maybe if she comes over she can see it. It will have to be a very sexual picture though, | ||
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ilovezil
United States4143 Posts
Do you seriously think there's any other legit method to getting over a girl? You grow some balls, ask her out, and face the verdict. | ||
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8Pylon
United States223 Posts
every blog you write is so insightful lol. Glad you're with teamliquid  ![[image loading]](http://i56.photobucket.com/albums/g185/theaim/lul.gif) | ||
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kdog3683
United States916 Posts
On the bus ride home from a XC meet, we were discussing our captain's (a senior) girlfriend. Turns out this girlfriend is the girl I liked. I was happy and sad t.t. | ||
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