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Don't post in this thread to say "gay gamers are like everyone else, why do they have a special thread?" It is something that has been posted numerous times, and this isn't the place for that discussion.
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On November 16 2012 07:56 Troxle wrote: Oh no a philosophy major...phd at that...
reminds me of a scene from "Friends": (Phoebe on a date with some guy)
Guy: "btw, did you know i got a phd? Phoebe: "no, really?" Guy: " yeah, a Pretty Huge D...."
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On November 16 2012 07:40 neoghaleon55 wrote:Show nested quote +On November 16 2012 07:02 jyuj wrote:On November 16 2012 04:20 Drekkonis wrote:On November 16 2012 04:09 jyuj wrote:On November 15 2012 08:26 Drekkonis wrote:The only solution to combat homophobia against gay marriage is to marry their girlfriends! Problem is, there is no such thing as "Gay marriage" Marriage is the unity of man and women. Let the Gay community have something else, like civil unions I was going to write out a long complex post about how I feel you are wrong and how I would try to get you to see it from the prospective of someone who is gay and wants to get married... but I remembered this was the internet. I doubt you will get to understand what its like to be an after thought when it comes to rights and privileges or really what its like to not be able to visit a partner dying in the hospital because your marriage isn't recognized and if you don't already understand a few words on a TL thread won't change you. So I say "meh" to the whole thing and be thankful I live in Canada  -To the warning- I was not trolling. Maintaining the definition of marriage as between man and women is a legitimate position. A position that maybe some don't agree with on TL.net but just the mere mention of it is not a troll. If this is not the right place to voice that opinion, I am 100% sorry. Where on TL.net should I voice it? Because clearly this is a type of conversation about social justice that TL.net is ok with having on its forums.( Tyrannical people censors when they hear things they don't like) -To Drekkonis- Civil unions if properly constructed would give all the same rights and privileges as marriage. The problem is it is a legal quagmire with all the complication that comes forth, so in the name of simplicity most states just amend marriage to include same sex. This band-aid solution also is vexed with complication. The main issue which actually trumps the entire issue is that "States, government or any power should not have the power to police sexuality". It is unconstitutional and a terrible oppression of so many rights, for example the right to pursue happiness. Everyone should have the freedom to express "love" however they so chose, in a manner that makes them happy. BUT am I for the simple redefining what marriage means? NO! Couple of things. 1. This isn't the right place to talk about this issue. It is a sensitive issue and going in this thread....THIS THREAD, of all threads to talk about gay rights.... is about as stupid as going into Harlem to debate whether or not black people should vote. You can look up the variety of discussions already on TL about this issue here: http://www.teamliquid.net/forum/search.php?q=gay marriageuse the fucking search bar. 2. There are entire court cases going on about this, and they argue a hell of a lot better than you nor I will ever be able to articulate. Read up on this: http://metroweekly.com/poliglot/2010/08/04/Perry Trial Decision.pdf3. Stop shitting up our thread. thank you. Well what IS this thread for then? The title has "gay" and "Starcraft 2" in it and yet there is an official guideline of "dont say gay Starcraft players are just like every other Starcraft player". The "discussion" about gay marriage is all fine and well, but doesnt seem to have anything to do with the combination of gay and Starcraft. I am really confused as to what could possibly be talked about here ...
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On November 16 2012 21:00 Rabiator wrote:Show nested quote +On November 16 2012 07:40 neoghaleon55 wrote:On November 16 2012 07:02 jyuj wrote:On November 16 2012 04:20 Drekkonis wrote:On November 16 2012 04:09 jyuj wrote:On November 15 2012 08:26 Drekkonis wrote:The only solution to combat homophobia against gay marriage is to marry their girlfriends! Problem is, there is no such thing as "Gay marriage" Marriage is the unity of man and women. Let the Gay community have something else, like civil unions I was going to write out a long complex post about how I feel you are wrong and how I would try to get you to see it from the prospective of someone who is gay and wants to get married... but I remembered this was the internet. I doubt you will get to understand what its like to be an after thought when it comes to rights and privileges or really what its like to not be able to visit a partner dying in the hospital because your marriage isn't recognized and if you don't already understand a few words on a TL thread won't change you. So I say "meh" to the whole thing and be thankful I live in Canada  -To the warning- I was not trolling. Maintaining the definition of marriage as between man and women is a legitimate position. A position that maybe some don't agree with on TL.net but just the mere mention of it is not a troll. If this is not the right place to voice that opinion, I am 100% sorry. Where on TL.net should I voice it? Because clearly this is a type of conversation about social justice that TL.net is ok with having on its forums.( Tyrannical people censors when they hear things they don't like) -To Drekkonis- Civil unions if properly constructed would give all the same rights and privileges as marriage. The problem is it is a legal quagmire with all the complication that comes forth, so in the name of simplicity most states just amend marriage to include same sex. This band-aid solution also is vexed with complication. The main issue which actually trumps the entire issue is that "States, government or any power should not have the power to police sexuality". It is unconstitutional and a terrible oppression of so many rights, for example the right to pursue happiness. Everyone should have the freedom to express "love" however they so chose, in a manner that makes them happy. BUT am I for the simple redefining what marriage means? NO! Couple of things. 1. This isn't the right place to talk about this issue. It is a sensitive issue and going in this thread....THIS THREAD, of all threads to talk about gay rights.... is about as stupid as going into Harlem to debate whether or not black people should vote. You can look up the variety of discussions already on TL about this issue here: http://www.teamliquid.net/forum/search.php?q=gay marriageuse the fucking search bar. 2. There are entire court cases going on about this, and they argue a hell of a lot better than you nor I will ever be able to articulate. Read up on this: http://metroweekly.com/poliglot/2010/08/04/Perry Trial Decision.pdf3. Stop shitting up our thread. thank you. Well what IS this thread for then? The title has "gay" and "Starcraft 2" in it and yet there is an official guideline of "dont say gay Starcraft players are just like every other Starcraft player". The "discussion" about gay marriage is all fine and well, but doesnt seem to have anything to do with the combination of gay and Starcraft. I am really confused as to what could possibly be talked about here ... There are 319 pages for you to find out what can be talked about here. It's simple, really. I mean, you don't get to create SC2 vs. BW thread after thread in the SC2 forums, either..
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On November 16 2012 10:52 Lakarah wrote: Drekkonis, I have gone to the Toronto GayGamers meetup and found it really stifling because no one talks about anything e-sports related there, probably never met you as a result. Drop by the IRC sometime, I can chat all day.
AH , sweet will do.
Yeah, I usually try to get esports convos going on the facebook just to gauge who has interest in it , a few people play SC2 and LOL but its only a handful
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I am gay, I play SC2 and BW.
Iccup c- Z in Zvp Zvt, P in PvZ Diamond Zerg.
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On November 16 2012 07:02 jyuj wrote:Show nested quote +On November 16 2012 04:20 Drekkonis wrote:On November 16 2012 04:09 jyuj wrote:On November 15 2012 08:26 Drekkonis wrote:The only solution to combat homophobia against gay marriage is to marry their girlfriends! Problem is, there is no such thing as "Gay marriage" Marriage is the unity of man and women. Let the Gay community have something else, like civil unions I was going to write out a long complex post about how I feel you are wrong and how I would try to get you to see it from the prospective of someone who is gay and wants to get married... but I remembered this was the internet. I doubt you will get to understand what its like to be an after thought when it comes to rights and privileges or really what its like to not be able to visit a partner dying in the hospital because your marriage isn't recognized and if you don't already understand a few words on a TL thread won't change you. So I say "meh" to the whole thing and be thankful I live in Canada  -To the warning- I was not trolling. Maintaining the definition of marriage as between man and women is a legitimate position. A position that maybe some don't agree with on TL.net but just the mere mention of it is not a troll. If this is not the right place to voice that opinion, I am 100% sorry. Where on TL.net should I voice it? Because clearly this is a type of conversation about social justice that TL.net is ok with having on its forums.( Tyrannical people censors when they hear things they don't like) Not in the gay starcraft players thread. I'm not sure what is wrong with you that would make you think that telling a bunch of queers that we should be lesser than isn't trolling.
Also, invocations of tyranny coming from somebody who wants to uphold the current order. You must be daft.
-To Drekkonis- Civil unions if properly constructed would give all the same rights and privileges as marriage. The problem is it is a legal quagmire with all the complication that comes forth, so in the name of simplicity most states just amend marriage to include same sex. This band-aid solution also is vexed with complication. The main issue which actually trumps the entire issue is that "States, government or any power should not have the power to police sexuality". It is unconstitutional and a terrible oppression of so many rights, for example the right to pursue happiness. Everyone should have the freedom to express "love" however they so chose, in a manner that makes them happy. BUT am I for the simple redefining what marriage means? NO!
The legal problems aren't really a reason to go against it, or at the very least not a compelling reason to discount the effort altogether. Additionally, the idea that civil unions are equal is asinine. In Walker's decision (Findings of fact) over Prop 8, I think he puts it best:
52. Domestic partnerships lack the social meaning associated with marriage, and marriage is widely regarded as the definitive expression of love and commitment in the United States. a. PX0707 at RFA No 38: Proponents admit that there is a significant symbolic disparity between domestic partnership and marriage; b. PX0707 at RFA No 4: Proponents admit that the word “marriage” has a unique meaning; c. Tr. 207  -208:6 (Cott, describing the social meaning of marriage in our culture: Marriage has been the “happy ending to the romance.” Marriage “is the principal happy ending in all of our romantic tales”; the “cultural polish on marriage” is “as a destination to be gained by any couple who love one another.”); d. Tr. 208  -17 (Cott: “Q. Let me ask you this. How does the cultural value and the meaning, social meaning of marriage, in your view, compare with the social meaning of domestic partnerships and civil unions? A. I appreciate the fact that several states have extended-maybe it's many states now, have extended most of the material rights and benefits of marriage to people who have civil unions or domestic partnerships. But there really is no comparison, in my historical view, because there is nothing that is like marriage except marriage.”); e. Tr. 611:1-7 (Peplau: “I have great confidence that some of the things that come from marriage, believing that you are part of the first class kind of relationship in this country, that you are * * * in the status of relationships that this society most values, most esteems, considers the most legitimate and the most appropriate, undoubtedly has benefits that are not part of domestic partnerships.”); f. Tr. 1342:14-1343:12 (Badgett: Some same-sex couples who might marry would not register as domestic partners because they see domestic partnership as a second class status.); g. Tr. 1471:1-1472:8 (Badgett: Same-sex couples value the social recognition of marriage and believe that the alternative status conveys a message of inferiority.); h. Tr. 1963:3-8 (Tam: “If ‘domestic partner’ is defined as it is now, then we can explain to our children that, yeah, there are some same-sex person wants to have a lifetime together as committed partners, and that is called ‘domestic partner,’ but it is not ‘marriage.’ ” (as stated)).
A final word on how mindbogglingly bigoted this entire argument from you is. I'm generally not in favor of safe spaces, but having somebody come into a queer starcraft players thread and tell us to embrace something which isn't in our best interests shows the same sort of arrogance which we have to routinely deal with, living in what is functionally a hetero world. We're already assimilating to your version of the reproduction of society, what else do you really want?
EDIT: I just read that you are pursuing a graduate degree in philosophy. I can't tell you how much less I value my degree in philosophy when I read individuals forsake any sort of analytic clarity or reasoning in ethical/political discussions.
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On November 16 2012 21:00 Rabiator wrote:Show nested quote +On November 16 2012 07:40 neoghaleon55 wrote:On November 16 2012 07:02 jyuj wrote:On November 16 2012 04:20 Drekkonis wrote:On November 16 2012 04:09 jyuj wrote:On November 15 2012 08:26 Drekkonis wrote:The only solution to combat homophobia against gay marriage is to marry their girlfriends! Problem is, there is no such thing as "Gay marriage" Marriage is the unity of man and women. Let the Gay community have something else, like civil unions I was going to write out a long complex post about how I feel you are wrong and how I would try to get you to see it from the prospective of someone who is gay and wants to get married... but I remembered this was the internet. I doubt you will get to understand what its like to be an after thought when it comes to rights and privileges or really what its like to not be able to visit a partner dying in the hospital because your marriage isn't recognized and if you don't already understand a few words on a TL thread won't change you. So I say "meh" to the whole thing and be thankful I live in Canada  -To the warning- I was not trolling. Maintaining the definition of marriage as between man and women is a legitimate position. A position that maybe some don't agree with on TL.net but just the mere mention of it is not a troll. If this is not the right place to voice that opinion, I am 100% sorry. Where on TL.net should I voice it? Because clearly this is a type of conversation about social justice that TL.net is ok with having on its forums.( Tyrannical people censors when they hear things they don't like) -To Drekkonis- Civil unions if properly constructed would give all the same rights and privileges as marriage. The problem is it is a legal quagmire with all the complication that comes forth, so in the name of simplicity most states just amend marriage to include same sex. This band-aid solution also is vexed with complication. The main issue which actually trumps the entire issue is that "States, government or any power should not have the power to police sexuality". It is unconstitutional and a terrible oppression of so many rights, for example the right to pursue happiness. Everyone should have the freedom to express "love" however they so chose, in a manner that makes them happy. BUT am I for the simple redefining what marriage means? NO! Couple of things. 1. This isn't the right place to talk about this issue. It is a sensitive issue and going in this thread....THIS THREAD, of all threads to talk about gay rights.... is about as stupid as going into Harlem to debate whether or not black people should vote. You can look up the variety of discussions already on TL about this issue here: http://www.teamliquid.net/forum/search.php?q=gay marriageuse the fucking search bar. 2. There are entire court cases going on about this, and they argue a hell of a lot better than you nor I will ever be able to articulate. Read up on this: http://metroweekly.com/poliglot/2010/08/04/Perry Trial Decision.pdf3. Stop shitting up our thread. thank you. Well what IS this thread for then? The title has "gay" and "Starcraft 2" in it and yet there is an official guideline of "dont say gay Starcraft players are just like every other Starcraft player". The "discussion" about gay marriage is all fine and well, but doesnt seem to have anything to do with the combination of gay and Starcraft. I am really confused as to what could possibly be talked about here ... It is almost like we have interests beyond wanting to be equal in society. Why don't you try talking about those, instead of assuming that the only thing we'd want to talk about is marriage equality.
Better yet, there are how many hundreds of pages in this thread already? Go look through a few of them and figure it out for yourself.
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Please everyone, just let sleeping dogs lie in this case, in the interest of getting the thread back to the purpose it was originally intended for.
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On November 20 2012 12:37 p4NDemik wrote: Please everyone, just let sleeping dogs lie in this case, in the interest of getting the thread back to the purpose it was originally intended for.
Yes, let's get back to MKP and LzGaMeR talk! /daydreamin'
Someone awake me after a few hours...I'm dreamin' of my men! :D
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Even though y'all shouldn't feed the ever hungry trolls, I did find Enterprise's post very cathartic to read.
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On November 22 2012 01:45 Klondikebar wrote: Enterprise ... cathartic.
said no one
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Awesome thread, wish I had the patience to read all 319 pages but I somehow managed to read the first 6-7 and the questions/answers were really interesting. Specifically the one where you've discussed that people do not realise they're bi-sexual or gay till a certain point in their life.
I am attracted to women, but somehow, sometimes I also feel attracted to non-hairy, clean, men. I'd say I'm about 80% attracted to women, and about 20% attracted to very specific men. Guess that makes me bi-sexual, to some extent?
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On November 22 2012 08:49 Unshapely wrote: Awesome thread, wish I had the patience to read all 319 pages but I somehow managed to read the first 6-7 and the questions/answers were really interesting. Specifically the one where you've discussed that people do not realise they're bi-sexual or gay till a certain point in their life.
I am attracted to women, but somehow, sometimes I also feel attracted to non-hairy, clean, men. I'd say I'm about 80% attracted to women, and about 20% attracted to very specific men. Guess that makes me bi-sexual, to some extent?
I'm not an expert, but I can imagine that rather than everyone being clear-cut cases of Gay, straight or bi, it's more like a sliding scale, or something like that? I know of guys who are mainly attracted to guys, but can find some girls attractive in certain situations.
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On November 22 2012 09:08 RaZorwire wrote:Show nested quote +On November 22 2012 08:49 Unshapely wrote: Awesome thread, wish I had the patience to read all 319 pages but I somehow managed to read the first 6-7 and the questions/answers were really interesting. Specifically the one where you've discussed that people do not realise they're bi-sexual or gay till a certain point in their life.
I am attracted to women, but somehow, sometimes I also feel attracted to non-hairy, clean, men. I'd say I'm about 80% attracted to women, and about 20% attracted to very specific men. Guess that makes me bi-sexual, to some extent?
I'm not an expert, but I can imagine that rather than everyone being clear-cut cases of Gay, straight or bi, it's more like a sliding scale, or something like that? I know of guys who are mainly attracted to guys, but can find some girls attractive in certain situations.
I'm sure i'm not the best to talk about this, because I can't say even what the name of it is, but there is a theory out there that sexuality is a bit of a scale, that you can have people who are 99% of the way to straight or 99% of the way towards gay but have that one awkward night, and that everyone is a LITTLE straight, or a LITTLE gay.
I'll just leave that until someone who remembers the theory talks about it here instead. X3
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Here is a scale by Kinsey which may answer your question. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale
Sadly, this seems more subjective rather than objective. I am gay, but I rank myself four since I find girls like Leo from Tekken attractive.
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I'm sure i'm not the best to talk about this, because I can't say even what the name of it is, but there is a theory out there that sexuality is a bit of a scale, that you can have people who are 99% of the way to straight or 99% of the way towards gay but have that one awkward night, and that everyone is a LITTLE straight, or a LITTLE gay.
I'll just leave that until someone who remembers the theory talks about it here instead. X3 I would have to agree that there is a scale of some kind. I too am attracted to some girls on some occasions. The Kinsey scale is one scale that describes this phenomenon. I don't really think this is a very complete model, but the main idea is that there is a range of "gayness" or whatever you want to call it.
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Hi guys!!!!!! Was looking at the previous pages of this thread and you guys were posting nice pro-gamers of this community and I thought I might share my favorite progamer. He's recently beaten players in MLG like Incontrol (doesn't mean much I know, but it's a start!). Really nice kid, I hope to meet him someday hehe
I give you.. IVNJakeBake!
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