Korean Music Discussion - Page 3156

Warning: people not interested in reading my answer to the previous questions regarding me (the ones I quoted below) should skip this post entirely. Have a nice day.



Interesting. I like the way you think.



My answers will be assuming that she keeps the same body maybe with the addition of a penis but no other physical changes. Though the possibilities of further changes might also be explored in a way...



Well this is both quite disturbing and interesting at the same time.

As a background to this question, I am obviously hetero-sexual. I have never once questioned my sexuality nor ever considered anything out of it.

Now In order to answer said question, I think I must first take some time to examine my current situation/feelings towards Nicole as I know her to be. Female...

The other day, I met a fellow KPop enthusiast on Last.FM, upon seeing the 4 GIFs of Nicole on my profile page as well as KARA ranked being second as my all time most played artists he asked me if I liked Nicole (we have a detective on our hands). I said yes that I quite liked her. Her asked why did I like her ? I proceeded to give a brief yet accurate description of why and he came back to me telling me that that sounded more like lust than actual love.

Since then, I've been questioning wether what I feel for her is lust or love. I don't know. Maybe it's because I don't master the English language and don't have much experience with the word lust and it's signification (there's really nothing like it in french). But I do not know.

I naturally brought up the Wikipedia definition of both lust and love.

Lust:


Ok so yes, I strongly desire her body, that's pretty much a given. I also seem to "lust for knowledge" because I'd really like to get to know her on a personal level and in a way that's knowledge. An intense want is pretty accurate.

Before reading that description of lust I always pictured that word and emotion as purely sexual/physical. What I feel for Nicole is more than that and therefore I did not consider it lust before. Now I'm unsure.

Love:


Ok, well... I do have a strong affection and personal attachment....

As previously stated, I used to think lust was a purely sexual thing and therefore, something that would be impossible for me to feel with someone of the same sex. (Or at least something that I have not yet experienced in my life.)

So for now, I guess I'll go with love to describe this one way relationship.

Now I believe that if someone was to love someone (feel for that person in ways more than just sexual and physical) of what's believed to be the opposite sex to later find out that the person is of the same sex that the love would remain. The lust pr physical attraction might deteriorate but the love for the person and that person's personality or character will remain.

Therefore is Nicole was somehow to be a man, based on what I just said, I think my opinion of her wouldn't change at all, I'd still love her and desire her.

Would I actually have a sex change in order to fulfill her (or his?) fictional requirements in that case ? I don't know, that would depend on the situation. I'm not a doctor so first up I'd have to know if a sex change is something that can be undone or done again in order to go back to the original sex and everything that it implies physically. The context would also be very important, for example, if I was to be in a relationship with Nicole, as a regular couple and one day she'd tell me that she'd like me to change sex to appeal to her more and be more pleasurable to her I would consider it a lot more seriously than just doing that operation just to have a shot with her. You know. The answer to the "just to have a shot" scenario would probably be no.

Not that I mind a sex change I mean why not, could be fun, could be a cool experience (especially if I'm able to go back after). But the consequences of it, I'm still heterosexual (outside of if Nicole turns out to be a man... Wait a second, that no longer makes me heterosexual does it ? hhhmmmm)... But if I don't score Nicole than finding a nice lesbian that'd be interested in the now hybrid that I would be would be quite the challenge. Note that however, it could allow me to score a reality TV deal or something and make some money the easy way, lol.

And the "if I already was with Nicole scenario" would 100% be an immediate yes if I can later on go back and have the operation undone or done again. If I can't go back to being a male, I think I'd still might do it for her but it would require a lot more thoughts and discussions with her so it would probably go down to 70% chance possibility of happening.

I hope I've given you a satisfactory answer.



Nope, I'm very introspective somewhat anti-social individual, I would never actually "scream" at her or any KARA members nor would I follow them as previously stated during a previous discussion on this matter.