EPTI guess what I'm asking is, what is generally the right thing to say and when should I ask a girl out and how?
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nimysa
United States383 Posts
I guess what I'm asking is, what is generally the right thing to say and when should I ask a girl out and how? | ||
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sexsexpussyhair
Canada133 Posts
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iSCOUT4u
United States327 Posts
something simple never hurts though....just start some casual conversation...start talking about the topic...then slip in the ? "Hey i was just wondering if u might want to go see a movie this weekend? observe and report looks hella funny..." btw the movie was ok...i give it a 7/10 edit: leave out the "hella" if outside of cali | ||
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ilistis
United States828 Posts
Dude, the internet has everything, pretty awesome. Ask a girl out Ask a girl out at school more tips | ||
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cunninglinguists
United States925 Posts
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FreeDoM[YA]
Canada855 Posts
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nemY
United States3119 Posts
On April 16 2009 11:05 iSCOUT4u wrote: Well how well do u know her? is she a friend already...or did u just meet her? something simple never hurts though....just start some casual conversation...start talking about the topic...then slip in the ? "Hey i was just wondering if u might want to go see a movie this weekend? observe and report looks hella funny..." btw the movie was ok...i give it a 7/10 edit: leave out the "hella" if outside of cali Outside of norcal you mean | ||
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ThE_OsToJiY
Canada1167 Posts
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BuGzlToOnl
United States5918 Posts
I would avoid, "would you like to go out with me" phrase if your older than say 12.  | ||
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BuGzlToOnl
United States5918 Posts
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Fontong
United States6454 Posts
No, using hella is ok if you are a norcal person going to school in socal. Although you might get called out for using it on occasion, it's usually alright. hella Edit: if its a sunny day and you live by the beach, go to the damn beach | ||
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iSCOUT4u
United States327 Posts
yes sorry lol..where are u from? | ||
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thunk
United States6233 Posts
One of my first post on TL I said hella and all everyone outside of California quoted me were were like, "wtf" and everyone inside of California was either like "NorCal holler!" or "Norcal Trash". NorCal4Ever. Socal sucks. | ||
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thunk
United States6233 Posts
Probably from Southern California. They acknowledge the word exists but they don't acknowledge that it should be added to daily lexicon. | ||
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iSCOUT4u
United States327 Posts
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Cloud
Sexico5880 Posts
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YPang
United States4024 Posts
On April 16 2009 11:24 ThE_OsToJiY wrote: the utilization of daterape drugs is extremely effective. Offer her a "drink" then put her in your trunk, drive to wherever you want to, and then go from there. this | ||
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iSCOUT4u
United States327 Posts
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Fontong
United States6454 Posts
On April 16 2009 12:31 iSCOUT4u wrote: u know...i dont really see the problem with date rape drugs...its just speads up the process....u could spend a few hours getting her drunk legally....then go to town on her....but come on...slip her the drug and spead it up...idk...it gets my approval. ye...ah i re...ally ag...reee wi...th...this sta....te....me...nt u....k...n....o...? ed...it: ... | ||
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Raithed
China7078 Posts
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omfghi2u2
United States831 Posts
On April 16 2009 12:05 thunk wrote: One of my first post on TL I said hella and all everyone outside of California quoted me were were like, "wtf" and everyone inside of California was either like "NorCal holler!" or "Norcal Trash". NorCal4Ever. Socal sucks. You are "hella" joking. NorCAL sucks. Sorry. Socal ftw. | ||
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rushz0rz
Canada5300 Posts
On April 16 2009 10:58 nimysa wrote: Of asking a girl out to any event whether its asking her out to a specific location or an event or to just hanging out and walking with her? I guess what I'm asking is, what is generally the right thing to say and when should I ask a girl out and how? "Hey wanna go get some coffee and hang out?" I'm not quite sure what you mean... If you're asking her to a concert or something just substitute "get some coffee and hang out" to "to a concert with me?" or "Hey, want to go to *local diner* and get some lunch?" I don't think the way you ask means anything, it's how you ask and your demeanor. You need confidence when you do this. | ||
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HeavOnEarth
United States7087 Posts
AKA do the opposite of what your mind tells you to do you should be fine | ||
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GGQ
Canada2653 Posts
On April 16 2009 14:17 HeavOnEarth wrote: by feeling the need to not make this thread AKA do the opposite of what your mind tells you to do you should be fine exactly. don't overthink | ||
cgrinker
United States3824 Posts
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PH
United States6173 Posts
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ibutoss
Australia341 Posts
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gzealot
Singapore238 Posts
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omninmo
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On April 16 2009 13:12 Raithed wrote: smack her butt. yea! or just be like, "hey, wanna get a corndog?" or whatever food you know she likes. | ||
CaucasianAsian
Korea (South)11585 Posts
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Zapdos_Smithh
Canada2620 Posts
On April 16 2009 14:21 cgrinker wrote: Practice on your mom that made me lol | ||
FakeSteve[TPR]
Valhalla18444 Posts
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nimysa
United States383 Posts
I have talked with several people that know her and they say I have a 49% chance of getting her and she will most likely say "no" but she might say "yes" if I think do or say something really creative or impress somehow. I don't know how to approach her and where I should approach her and when, and I'm asking her tomorrow so I really need some ideas fast. | ||
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FakeSteve[TPR]
Valhalla18444 Posts
just ask her out. have a specific place to go and a specific time, like dinner at whatever at x:xx, or something to do grand gestures are meaningless at this point, you are not trying to trick this girl into dating you | ||
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DrTJEckleburg
United States1080 Posts
On April 17 2009 07:01 nimysa wrote: Ok so I know the girl through my English class, we have only talked small talk and worked together on some things. She is usually very friendly to me and says hi to me when I see her elsewhere or somewhere in the halls. However she recently stopped being that way and I think she's starting to think i'm weird and creepy for some unknown reason (I don't know why). I admit I'm sort of weird and but I don't know why she would suddenly feel uninterested or creeped out, if I did something I don't know what it is. I have talked with several people that know her and they say I have a 49% chance of getting her and she will most likely say "no" but she might say "yes" if I think do or say something really creative or impress somehow. I don't know how to approach her and where I should approach her and when, and I'm asking her tomorrow so I really need some ideas fast. I can almost say for certain she does not think you are creepy, you are probably over-analyzing little things WAY too much. Try to remember that 99% of the time, everybody else around you is not thinking the same thing you are, so just ask, if she says no, brush it off and act like you aren't effected, even if you are. Getting rejected a few times is actually invaluable experience. You'll stay in her mind and most likely she'll go back to the way she was and you'll get another opportunity, if not, well, fuck her and find someone else, approach/hang out with 10 other girls and you'll get over your one-itis. edit - cen cal for life(I live in shithole fresno, only 2nd to merced for the worst city in california). | ||
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nimysa
United States383 Posts
Here's the dialogue: Me: Hi ***** are you by anyway chance free this afternoon Girl: errrrr noooo Me: It's pefectly fine, I was thinking about hanging out somewhere , do you want hang out sometime later? Girl: I can't come in this friday and I can't come this weekend maybe someday later *Girl walks away without saying anything* Me: *Red with embarrasement* | ||
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