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On May 21 2013 19:09 r.Evo wrote:Show nested quote +On May 21 2013 17:28 FFGenerations wrote:
you couldn't have acted more needy and unattractive if you tried.
go watch some david d'angelo videos/tapes and save yourself the agony of not understanding what the fuck is going on the next 40 years of your life Please. He's fucking 15, keep this pickup crap away from him. At that age he has all the time in the world to just have fun and figure out things on his own. tl;dr: Don't worry about it, to understand what might have happened try putting yourself in her shoes. Sometimes you just really don't wanna talk to people, do you think that will improve if they're messaging you again and again and again? Give people space around you and they gladly come back in most cases. =)
david d'angelo isn't "pickup", you would know if you actually listened to his tapes.
he explains what is "needy" and "unattractive" behaviour, why men do it, why they don't realise they're doing it, why it makes them unattractive, and why women hate it.
not a single thing about "pickup". david d'angelo is purely about male/female psychology interaction, the differences between the way men and women experience attraction, etc
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On May 21 2013 14:13 hoot00 wrote:
edit: this is completely unrelated, but I'm gonna give some advice. DON'T WATCH PORN, IT'S BAD FOR YOU. go to yourbrainonporn.com and educate yourself. trust me man don't do it
what? Where did this come from?
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On May 21 2013 22:24 LML wrote:Show nested quote +On May 21 2013 14:13 hoot00 wrote:
edit: this is completely unrelated, but I'm gonna give some advice. DON'T WATCH PORN, IT'S BAD FOR YOU. go to yourbrainonporn.com and educate yourself. trust me man don't do it what? Where did this come from?
It's this bullshit theory about how not jerking off makes you more alpha with girls and more sharp in general. I guess it is not very good to be a total porn fiend but you can't convince me that emptying the sack every once in a while is a bad thing...
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On May 21 2013 23:25 B.I.G. wrote:Show nested quote +On May 21 2013 22:24 LML wrote:On May 21 2013 14:13 hoot00 wrote:
edit: this is completely unrelated, but I'm gonna give some advice. DON'T WATCH PORN, IT'S BAD FOR YOU. go to yourbrainonporn.com and educate yourself. trust me man don't do it what? Where did this come from? It's this bullshit theory about how not jerking off makes you more alpha with girls and more sharp in general. I guess it is not very good to be a total porn fiend but you can't convince me that emptying the sack every once in a while is a bad thing...
If anything, it'll make you more aware in bed (as long as you don't over-do it)
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On May 22 2013 00:16 Starcraft 2 wrote:Show nested quote +On May 21 2013 23:25 B.I.G. wrote:On May 21 2013 22:24 LML wrote:On May 21 2013 14:13 hoot00 wrote:
edit: this is completely unrelated, but I'm gonna give some advice. DON'T WATCH PORN, IT'S BAD FOR YOU. go to yourbrainonporn.com and educate yourself. trust me man don't do it what? Where did this come from? It's this bullshit theory about how not jerking off makes you more alpha with girls and more sharp in general. I guess it is not very good to be a total porn fiend but you can't convince me that emptying the sack every once in a while is a bad thing... If anything, it'll make you more aware in bed (as long as you don't over-do it)
Actually it's also a cancer preventing measure. Honestly. And if anything watching porn and talking openly to girls about it made me more manly and cool in high school!
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Yeah, you were really clingy on this one. Move on, act less innocent. Seriously, the girl isn't the one that is going to keep making all the moves if you don't show interest yourself. What TDL said was the right advice, also yeah, in general I would suggest getting more experience with girls in this situation, like asking them out on a date an such, you need to be making the first move, or girls will pass you by.
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On May 21 2013 19:53 Frostfire wrote:
Thanks guys. I've read all the comments. Looking back, I wouldnt have ever asked "are you ignoring me?" or the "bye". I currently feel like the only thing that was wrong was what I was making wrong by acting like that.
Pretty much - I used to do the same when I was younger, so don't feel bad.
I did a lot of the "WHY ISNT SHE REPLYING IN 5 MINUTES T_________T" but you'll grow out of it once you're a little less shy and needy (no offense meant here!)
It's pretty clear she told your friend you are just friends so good luck, chin up and you'll find someone new. Sometimes it just doesn't work out!
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I recently had a high school crush, and I really liked her, and she gave me good signals. But then a friend of hers said that she actually wouldn't date me and I got really sad. I still talked to her and told her how I felt and made her actually tell me. I felt that helped me get over it. And If I hadn't, I would always just wonder. So go ahead and just ask her, if she says no, you've lost nothing.
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You were too eager man, don't worry most guys do this the first time, it just scares girls off. Does it seem stupid and illogical? Yes ofcourse, but that's the way girls are, definitely don't blame yourself, you did fine for the first time.
Next time don't overanalyze things when a chick doesn't immediately answer you, just wait and don't keep sending texts, she will eventually. And don't be too eager with all the facebook stuff and all, just play it cool and try to be patient. Make her earn your affection, try not to care too much too soon, even if you want to.
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She added me back on facebook today. So confused, rofl. Should I accept the request?
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On May 22 2013 08:48 Frostfire wrote:
She added me back on facebook today. So confused, rofl. Should I accept the request?
No real reason not to. Either she has something to say to you, and you listen, or she doesn't, and you both just go your separate ways.
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On May 22 2013 09:37 Luepert wrote:Show nested quote +On May 22 2013 08:48 Frostfire wrote:
She added me back on facebook today. So confused, rofl. Should I accept the request? No real reason not to. Either she has something to say to you, and you listen, or she doesn't, and you both just go your separate ways.
Pretty much this. Accept the request and let her make the move if she intends to. Otherwise just let it be.
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I did. That was about 3 hours ago. Nothing has been said. I'm not gonna initiate any conversation as I think I've already displayed that I still have feelings for her, but I'm not clingy enough to try to hang on to something like this.
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Why did you add her back? Lol. She's obviously very confusing for you to be around. Just be done with it.
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On May 22 2013 11:55 obesechicken13 wrote:
Why did you add her back? Lol. She's obviously very confusing for you to be around. Just be done with it.
I was thinking maybe she had changed her mind or something. I'm not going to initiate any conversation, or show any interest. She knows how I feel, and if she wants to communicate, it's her decision. :D
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On May 23 2013 05:10 Frostfire wrote:Show nested quote +On May 22 2013 11:55 obesechicken13 wrote:
Why did you add her back? Lol. She's obviously very confusing for you to be around. Just be done with it. I was thinking maybe she had changed her mind or something. I'm not going to initiate any conversation, or show any interest. She knows how I feel, and if she wants to communicate, it's her decision. :D
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On May 23 2013 05:12 MysteryMeat1 wrote:Show nested quote +On May 23 2013 05:10 Frostfire wrote:On May 22 2013 11:55 obesechicken13 wrote:
Why did you add her back? Lol. She's obviously very confusing for you to be around. Just be done with it. I was thinking maybe she had changed her mind or something. I'm not going to initiate any conversation, or show any interest. She knows how I feel, and if she wants to communicate, it's her decision. :D
What's wrong with that? It makes perfect sense if you ask me. No need to unnecessarily close doors.
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On May 21 2013 20:26 FFGenerations wrote:Show nested quote +On May 21 2013 19:09 r.Evo wrote:On May 21 2013 17:28 FFGenerations wrote:
you couldn't have acted more needy and unattractive if you tried.
go watch some david d'angelo videos/tapes and save yourself the agony of not understanding what the fuck is going on the next 40 years of your life Please. He's fucking 15, keep this pickup crap away from him. At that age he has all the time in the world to just have fun and figure out things on his own. tl;dr: Don't worry about it, to understand what might have happened try putting yourself in her shoes. Sometimes you just really don't wanna talk to people, do you think that will improve if they're messaging you again and again and again? Give people space around you and they gladly come back in most cases. =) david d'angelo isn't "pickup", you would know if you actually listened to his tapes. he explains what is "needy" and "unattractive" behaviour, why men do it, why they don't realise they're doing it, why it makes them unattractive, and why women hate it. not a single thing about "pickup". david d'angelo is purely about male/female psychology interaction, the differences between the way men and women experience attraction, etc
op you will infinitely more about yourself, women, and how to be a decent human by trying and fucking up on your own accord than you will taking the advice of a guy eats up pop psych bullshit from a hack that panders to desperate losers that would wade through shit for the chance to talk to a girl
just know you will fuck up, be man enough to recognize and learn from it and use those experiences to forge solid principles that you adhere to for life
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oh and your first free tip is to not fuck your ex and move on, doofus
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You shouldn't have added her back. This is obviously one hormonal skank that doesn't know what she wants. All you achieved is that now you'll get confronted by her pics of hanging out with other guys and confusing messages. I'd say delete her on Facebook and delete her number. She still has yours so she can send you a message if she wants. Don't validate here weird behavior and don't allow yourself to become one of her "options". Put your foot down and be a man. Trust me, even if you end up dating her you'll be glad you showed her you don't take this shit.
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