[LONG GIRL BLOG] What happened to her? - Page 3

On May 23 2013 11:39 QuanticHawk wrote:

op you will infinitely more about yourself, women, and how to be a decent human by trying and fucking up on your own accord than you will taking the advice of a guy eats up pop psych bullshit from a hack that panders to desperate losers that would wade through shit for the chance to talk to a girl

just know you will fuck up, be man enough to recognize and learn from it and use those experiences to forge solid principles that you adhere to for life

On May 24 2013 15:00 krndandaman wrote:


i don't see anything good coming out of this.

On May 21 2013 17:28 FFGenerations wrote:
go watch some david d'angelo videos/tapes

On May 22 2013 06:20 Luepert wrote:
I recently had a high school crush, and I really liked her, and she gave me good signals. But then a friend of hers said that she actually wouldn't date me and I got really sad. I still talked to her and told her how I felt and made her actually tell me. I felt that helped me get over it. And If I hadn't, I would always just wonder. So go ahead and just ask her, if she says no, you've lost nothing.

On May 25 2013 11:58 Frostfire wrote:


I still haven't replied. I feel like I'm over her haha.

On May 26 2013 06:27 goofyballer wrote:
Yo dawg,

Every girl that ever has and ever will exist are stupid and emotional and don't know what the fuck they want. This trend will likely continue for several years but then in college you'll start getting laid so things will be much more awesome. Then in their mid 20s girls figure shit out and they're a lot of fun to hang out with. It will be easiest to get to this point with your sanity intact if you put as much effort as possible into not being emo over that which cannot be rationally understood.



NO. DO NOT DO THIS.



This is the sort of thing you need to get over doing. God knows I spent entirely too much time doing this as well in HS/college, but look at it from the perspective of how doing stuff like this affects your reputation - when you're friends with a girl, you have access to her entire social circle, but say you do something like awkwardly make a girl tell you that no she isn't into you even though you already know that's the case. That girl isn't going to then say to her friends "oh xxxx is really cool you guys would be perfect together!" she's gonna think you're kinda awkward and recommend to her friends that they not go out with you. I know in HS the propensity is to be like "ZOMG I LOVE THIS ONE GIRL AND NOBODY ELSE WILL EVER MEASURE UP" but there are in fact lots of fish in the sea and you will have the most success in life if you put yourself in a position to be able to meet as many of them as possible.

On May 26 2013 12:54 B.I.G. wrote:
A very minor and very untrue one. It's true that a lot of girls lose their raging insecurities and got over there asshole ex boyfriends and become decent people. Honestly I feel that people who are well into their twenties and keep insisting that they don't understand this or that girl because she is sending mixed signals are foolishly hoping that the girl's clear disinterest is somehow a hidden signal for 'I want you inside of me', while they actually secretly know what's going on but rather cling to a fleeting dream because they are too lazy or scared to move on and give another girl a chance.

On May 24 2013 11:13 Frostfire wrote:
She just messaged me and aplogized, saying "I'm sorry. I still like you, but I don't know. You were all fun and shit over the phone but when we hungout you were really awkward."

uh oh