[Girl Blog] Girl lies to me about being single... - Page 6

On March 27 2012 23:52 Jealous wrote:
You're getting tooled bro. Girl clearly just wants a plan B ready and waiting for her if shit turns really sour with her boyfriend, but even despite the apparent shittiness of their relationship she doesn't want to be the one to pull the trigger. That is because she is apparently afraid of being alone/dealing with the multiple suitors coming for her, and probably also because she must still like him more than you. In short, you're playing second fiddle to this dude, and she wants second best when shit goes wrong with the first. I'd take this as an insult, play along, wait until the time is right (when her other relationship fails), bang her a few times, play boyfriend/girlfriend but then tool her just like she tooled you - lie to her, deceive her, use her to satisfy my own desires/fears. Eventually when I find a girl I can truly connect with without a web of deception, I would continue to use her until that new girl is a done deal and we start going out.

Yea it's cruel, but what she is doing to you is not much different. I consider this karma, and I am the delivery man. If a person has no qualms about using me, I have no qualms about using them.

To be fair, this might be because I am not in the situation and don't know her personally, maybe she has a lot of problems or something and she can't really help it. But being complacent and letting her get away with such behavior isn't helping things either. Maybe I actually wouldn't be this vengeful, and just would cut shit off with her. That's what you should do unless you subscribe to my Babylonian approach.