EPTIf I was in a situation where I felt I needed to hit somebody their sex isn't really important to me. I don't think that would ever happen though, I can't think of a single conflict I'd resolve through violence short of being robbed or beaten severely. I've been bullied about quite a bit in my life and I've never hit someone back, I've never needed to.
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DoctorHelvetica
United States15034 Posts
If I was in a situation where I felt I needed to hit somebody their sex isn't really important to me. I don't think that would ever happen though, I can't think of a single conflict I'd resolve through violence short of being robbed or beaten severely. I've been bullied about quite a bit in my life and I've never hit someone back, I've never needed to. | ||
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Keldrath
United States449 Posts
that's how i was raised and that's how i would handle it too. you dont hit women, and people who do get beat. | ||
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koreasilver
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doktorLucifer
United States855 Posts
My reasoning is simple; I value my own life more than that of whoever is trying to harm me. | ||
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ShaperofDreams
Canada2492 Posts
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Fumi
529 Posts
On September 04 2010 05:16 ]Grey[ wrote: "It was wasn't my fault, your honour. You see, the victim told me to stab him in the chest if I had a problem with his attitude, so I did." Seriously, I don't think anyone should be starting a fight, ever. But if a guy gets assaulted by a girl, why the fuck shouldn't he fight back? Can someone give me a reason? Like a real reason? Other than, "Well, dur, she's a girl." If you don't want to get in a fight because you're a frail old woman, you shouldn't go assaulting people. Can YOU give me a reason why you'd hit someone? So if your gf slaps you for being a douche, you're just gonna go all out and break her in half? It was wrong? Yes. But I don't see a reason to respond with violence, unless she's really trying to hurt you for real. The guy literally asked for that slap. Can you give me a reason why you'd fight back? Can you explain me how this is better than backing off and calling security? I seriously don't understand. | ||
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Deleted User 55994
949 Posts
there's no reason to "teach her a lesson" when more than likely you aren't even phased by the hit and you could probably beat the girl up while sleepwalking. (don't mean to be sexist, but this is true in 99% of cases) | ||
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underscore
252 Posts
Some fat chick once was pretty rude to a friend of mine for no reason. He just spit straight in her face and kept on walking. Handled it like a pro haha. | ||
Chill
Calgary25980 Posts
On paper, in the safety of your house, yes, I agree you think you would be able to resolve a dispute through words. However, experience shows that when someone is talking huge amounts of shit to you and then suddenly places their hands on you, you may not be able to control the urge to strike back. It's basically just one of those things you need to experience. Sometimes it's just too much and you can't control yourself. | ||
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Trowabarton756
United States870 Posts
Responding in "kind" to being slapped or punched first? Well then I unfortunately gotta drop my pacifist beliefs and get down to business. Anyone regardless of any attribute we can use to "classify" ourselves as humans has no right ever to randomly start shit physically.(And to all you people saying but why can't i defend myself? Well if everyone followed the rule to begin with, you wouldn't have too, remember defensive is reactive, offensive is active.) | ||
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EoR
Ireland127 Posts
On September 04 2010 05:24 Fumi wrote: Can YOU give me a reason why you'd hit someone? So if your gf slaps you for being a douche, you're just gonna go all out and break her in half? It was wrong? Yes. But I don't see a reason to respond with violence, unless she's really trying to hurt you for real. The guy literally asked for that slap. Can you give me a reason why you'd fight back? Can you explain me how this is better than backing off and calling security? I seriously don't understand. I worded my original post weirdly, I apologise. I don't think people should be fighting. Period. There's never any excuse to start violence, regardless of if it's a slap or a punch. However, if someone does start a conflict they should expect retaliation. Regardless of their gender, size or age. | ||
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Taku
Canada2036 Posts
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Sadist
United States7242 Posts
Dont try to embarass someone in public, if you do it could be bad for everyone involved. You dont try to hurt someones pride infront of people and not expect to get into a fight. Thats how almost ALL fights start. You cant just calmly walk away. Its the heat of the moment. To top it off, if someone hits YOU first? You absolutely have to deck them. | ||
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Fumi
529 Posts
On September 04 2010 05:34 Taku wrote: Gender equality goes both ways imo. So meh, if I got really punched or something the response would be the same for me whether they dangle or not. It shouldn't be "if she hits me, I hit her back". It should be "no one should hit for stupid shit, I'm calling security, be it a man or a woman". On September 04 2010 05:30 Chill wrote: Okay kids who have never experienced real life, sit down, gather round. On paper, in the safety of your house, yes, I agree you think you would be able to resolve a dispute through words. However, experience shows that when someone is talking huge amounts of shit to you and then suddenly places their hands on you, you may not be able to control the urge to strike back. It's basically just one of those things you need to experience. Sometimes it's just too much and you can't control yourself. Do you really have to come off as the elderly wizard who knows it all in 90% of your posts? Maybe you lose your head easily and goes berserk on people in the middle of a discussion, but I'm sorry, I know plenty of people who can hold themselves pretty well. In fact, that's what the guy in this video did. His mistake was being a douche and wanting to take the discussion further. The moment he was slapped, he should have called security. Period. And even though it's understandable that some people lose their heads in the heat of an argument, you can't possibly think that this is the _right_ thing to do. | ||
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Dance.
United States389 Posts
EDIT: I wouldnt have hit the lady, but if that fucking old guy came at me, i wouldnt hold back | ||
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I_Love_Bacon
United States5765 Posts
On September 04 2010 05:42 Fumi wrote: It shouldn't be "if she hits me, I hit her back". It should be "no one should hit for stupid shit, I'm calling security, be it a man or a woman". Do you really have to come off as the elderly wizard who knows it all in 90% of your posts? Maybe you lose your head easily and goes berserk on people in the middle of a discussion, but I'm sorry, I know plenty of people who can hold themselves pretty well. In fact, that's what the guy in this video did. His mistake was being a douche and wanting to take the discussion further. The moment he was slapped, he should have called security. Period. And even though it's understandable that some people lose their heads in the heat of an argument, you can't possibly think that this is the _right_ thing to do. Did you even read Chill's post? | ||
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plated.rawr
Norway1676 Posts
At the same time though, imprinted male virtue from a time of gender division tells me to never hit a member of the weaker sex. These are also the virtues that would make me expect getting my ass kicked relentlessly by anyone around, no matter the situation. With that in mind, I have before and in this situation definately would have forcefully supressed her - grabbing her arms, holding her in place or getting her down on the floor. Aside from that though, the old guy and the chick definately are the physical initiatiors, but the guy wasn't exactly trying to solve the situation easy either. All three are stupid, but if anyone's to get reprecussions from this, it should be the two that initiated physical violence, not the guy utilizing the english language. | ||
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Malgrif
Canada1095 Posts
On September 04 2010 05:42 Fumi wrote: although i do agree that chill comes off as smug in some of his posts, i agree with him on this matter. if someone is talking shit in your face and then suddenly hits you, you just don't back down and call someone to help you out. looking back on it, it "may" be the right thing to do to avoid further conflict, but at that point he wasn't trying to avoid conflict he was defending his pride. i know when i'm in the heat of the moment, i really don't care what the right thing to do is, only what i want to do at that moment.It shouldn't be "if she hits me, I hit her back". It should be "no one should hit for stupid shit, I'm calling security, be it a man or a woman". Do you really have to come off as the elderly wizard who knows it all in 90% of your posts? Maybe you lose your head easily and goes berserk on people in the middle of a discussion, but I'm sorry, I know plenty of people who can hold themselves pretty well. In fact, that's what the guy in this video did. His mistake was being a douche and wanting to take the discussion further. The moment he was slapped, he should have called security. Period. And even though it's understandable that some people lose their heads in the heat of an argument, you can't possibly think that this is the _right_ thing to do. | ||
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Fumi
529 Posts
On September 04 2010 05:55 Malgrif wrote: although i do agree that chill comes off as smug in some of his posts, i agree with him on this matter. if someone is talking shit in your face and then suddenly hits you, you just don't back down and call someone to help you out. looking back on it, it "may" be the right thing to do to avoid further conflict, but at that point he wasn't trying to avoid conflict he was defending his pride. i know when i'm in the heat of the moment, i really don't care what the right thing to do is, only what i want to do at that moment. Yeah, like I said, some people are like that. And it's understandable. But you can't possibly think that going berserk and starting a fight is the right thing to do. If you go out of control in that situation, don't you wish you could actually be calm and just go report those two to the security? I just brought this up because a lot of people seem to be proud to be violent. | ||
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Randomaccount#77123
United States5003 Posts
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