How old are you? What sex are you? Do you live together? Anyway, it seems you already took the decision to leave her. You just need to build the courage to leave her and take her shit one last time. As a side note, broken fingers? What the fuck? Go to the police.

ComaDose

Canada10349 Posts

June 16 2011 15:25 GMT

Yup drop her.
Its not worth it and you will be happier eventually.

SigmaoctanusIV

United States3313 Posts

June 16 2011 15:25 GMT

Yeah, What Tree monkeys said. I am sorry to hear about your pain, but if your Girlfriend is causing you this about of torment. If you aren't strong enough to break it off with her, I strongly suggest getting friends/family to help support you in breaking off the relationship. You will be better for it no matter how you feel now there are so many other woman and better chances in your future. TL is behind you... end it now before it's to late

ch33psh33p

7650 Posts

June 16 2011 15:31 GMT

Breakup.

Unless you're 40 or older, in which case you may want to consult a psychologist.

TimmyMac

Canada499 Posts

June 16 2011 15:32 GMT

On June 17 2011 00:25 legaton wrote:As a side note, broken fingers? What the fuck? Go to the police.

This. That shit's not funny.

Vinski

505 Posts

June 16 2011 15:33 GMT

Dude break up with her and then go get some help from a psychologist. You won't regret it.

Djzapz

Canada10681 Posts

June 16 2011 15:39 GMT

#10

Get the fuck out of there, fast. Whatever it takes.

Treemonkeys

United States2082 Posts

June 16 2011 15:40 GMT

#11

You honestly have to be very careful about going to the police, if you do just make damn sure you have some good evidence or some really good witnesses. Without that it becomes of matter of who's story is true and there is no way to predict who will get in trouble.

bibbaly

98 Posts

June 16 2011 15:45 GMT

#12

Next time you get hit take pictures, go to the police, sue for damages, and get a restraining order.

VIB

Brazil3567 Posts

June 16 2011 15:49 GMT

#13

On June 17 2011 00:18 smacky wrote:
for starters my girlfriend is physically and mentally abusive. I have had black eyes, broken fingers, she kicked both of my knees after surgery (a year a part) and routinely hits slaps punches and torments in play. I don't like it. i feel like i'm leaving most of it out tbh and thats kinda sad.

What? Are those supposed to be bad? Most people would be envious of you? My girlfriend doesn't beat me up

Bitters

Canada303 Posts

June 16 2011 15:50 GMT

#14

Why haven't you left her? It's only a girlfriend, you're not married/etc, just walk away and kick her out of your life. If you're old enough to be living with a woman, then it's time to start acting like a grown man. Take responsibility for yourself and leave/end it with her. It doesn't matter if it's hard, or if "we don't understand the whole situation"... when someone is being this abusive, it's time to leave.

Take control of the situation, and then you can start taking back control of your life.

Maliris

Northern Ireland2557 Posts

June 16 2011 15:52 GMT

#15

This is domestic abuse... call the police.

Dub_doubt

United States86 Posts

June 16 2011 15:54 GMT

#16

Wow I read this and it struck a cord with me. My gf is pretty much the same way except she only gets physically abusive when she drinks but mentally abusive all day everyday. She tries to put my down on everything you mentioned, job, school, my hobbies, my friends. I called the cops once when she started hitting me because I tried ignoring it and she just kept on doing it. Then when I called the police she tried throwing my PS3 and headset in the sink. When the police got there they almost arrested me because they said I must of done something that I wasn't telling them to make her upset. She didn't even get anything for doing it and police gave me a warning?

Such bs.It's hard to leave someone when you're living together too. I live in AZ but I am from VA so I don't have family I can move in with, my friends don't need roommates, and getting another place would be too expensive, so I'm stuck.

Archas

United States6531 Posts

June 16 2011 15:54 GMT

#17

Why the hell are you even asking? If this broad is really doing what you say she is, then there's literally no reason to continue this relationship. You're not happy, so why continue?

I honestly don't know why you ask, when the solution is so terribly obvious.