EPTI hate my life and I am unable to make a decision - Page 3
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Souljah
United States423 Posts
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igotmyown
United States4291 Posts
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Stratos
Czech Republic6104 Posts
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Treemonkeys
United States2082 Posts
On June 17 2011 00:54 Dub_doubt wrote: Wow I read this and it struck a cord with me. My gf is pretty much the same way except she only gets physically abusive when she drinks but mentally abusive all day everyday. She tries to put my down on everything you mentioned, job, school, my hobbies, my friends. I called the cops once when she started hitting me because I tried ignoring it and she just kept on doing it. Then when I called the police she tried throwing my PS3 and headset in the sink. When the police got there they almost arrested me because they said I must of done something that I wasn't telling them to make her upset. She didn't even get anything for doing it and police gave me a warning? Such bs.It's hard to leave someone when you're living together too. I live in AZ but I am from VA so I don't have family I can move in with, my friends don't need roommates, and getting another place would be too expensive, so I'm stuck. No, this. The police should not be used lightly, if it is at all possible, just get her the fuck out of your life and never look back. There is nothing to gain from using the police if you are able to get away from her without them, and PLENTY to potentially lose. Notice most people suggesting to use them are not from the USA. Different police. | ||
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obesechicken13
United States10467 Posts
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SpoR
United States1542 Posts
Sex Cons: Everything else Make a decision | ||
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Diks
Belgium1880 Posts
I've been with a girl for 4 years, broke up with her one month ago. I've suffered a lot of mental abuses but I never noticed. The thing is that I always blamed myself for everything that happened wrong. It's very difficult to say "the person i love the most is hurting me on purpose". My mind couldn't even conceive it. I followed her in her country and I also suffered from the fact that i had no support around me. Now I have to move on, but you know what bro ? I'm glad. I can move on and do my life without having to feel bad about it. I used to have a bad esteem of myself, but it's slowly getting better. Hang on, man. This episode of your live will make you stronger, you will never get caught twice in this situation again. Think about how the future is gonna improve when you'll leave her. | ||
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QooQ
United States96 Posts
Evaluate yourself, what are all the good things about you. Don't even bother considering negatives as they equate to nothing. If your a good man with morals, patience, intelligence, compassion and care, etc.. Then you're very well a candidate for an amazing girlfriend and future wife. She is not her. You had no gain in that relationship, so leaving it also means no loss. It is her loss that she will be losing a valuable man in her life because of her stupidity. Let that be her cross to bear, not yours. The past never equals the present. Think of all the people you know in your life that has changed, whether good or bad. Living a fantasy in your head of what you want your relationship to be is just that. A fantasy. Reality overrules that fantasy. There are many women out there who will treat you like the king you deserve to be, who will cater to your needs and just the thought of making you happy will satisfy them. That is your future wife. Not someone who blatantly disrespects you with no shame. I'm saying this because I feel for you. I have not been in a physically abusive relationship, but I have broken up with a girlfriend of a few years whom I loved more than anything but did not appreciate me. She would also talk down on my career path, about my character and my flaws, would constantly get nasty attitudes with me for no real reason, constantly do things to intentionally get me mad etc. Eventually I had enough of it and I dumped her. And then even so, a few months after that I was already trying to take her back, but suddenly she felt as if she were too good for me. Then every now and then I would move on and she would finally tell me how she missed me so much etc. Of course, until I show interest again and she changes her mind. I think she was on a power trip or something... After about a year of beating myself up over leaving her, I finally realized what I just told you. You deserve better. | ||
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Svartstol
Sweden171 Posts
"Don't hit women its wrong qq" THIS IS NOT A WOMAN, IT'S A FUCKING MONSTER. It's easy for me to sit here typing that you should hit back when I'm not in your position obviously but what's holding you back? The woman has broken your fingers and messed up your knees and your life, why are you taking that shit? If you go to jail at least you will get away from her.. I'm so tired of this taboo of hitting back.. Dude, act now before you fucking kills you! If for some reason you don't want to get back at her, rig some cameras up and record everything. Then go to the police and send her sorry ass to jail. | ||
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