I'm sincerely sorry man, and I can fully relate (not currently.) But what I wanted to point out is people do stupid shit when they're drunk and rarely take responsibility for their actions. They often give the excuse "I was drunk." I, personally, never accept this excuse. I even tell people, if the situation arises, that I will hold them responsible for their actions even while intoxicated. It's bullshit to make that excuse. It's also bullshit to cheat on someone who cares about you (as you obviously do for this girl.) And it's bullshit if she denies responsibility for her actions. Concise advice: Get over it as quick as possible - avoid thoughts like "why?" or "what did i do to deserve this?" or "what did __ have that i didnt?" Chances are the answers to those questions will either not make sense or upset you even more. Don't forget to appreciate the positive experiences you shared and this is what you should hold on to in the long run.

Cheers

-Kato-

Spain1146 Posts

June 24 2010 10:54 GMT

You're 19, don't get into a relationship with a girl who cheats you've been for 2 1/2 months. Dump.

Ftrunkz

Australia2474 Posts

June 24 2010 11:00 GMT

edit FUCK I THREW UP

lol

Seriously, as kato said, you're 19, she doesnt care about you enough to not cheat on you, get rid of her, you dont owe her anything...

Snaiil

Sweden312 Posts

June 24 2010 11:01 GMT

Did she tell you? If so, she's probably regretful and realized how lucky she is to have you, and she doesn't want to screw up your relationship by you finding it out later. If you found out some other way, you should probably consider dumping her.

omninmo

2349 Posts

June 24 2010 11:01 GMT

On June 24 2010 19:54 -Kato- wrote:
You're 19, don't get into a relationship with a girl who cheats you've been for 2 1/2 months. Dump.

rofl, i was gonna say 17. anyway OP cry and vomit some more. everyone gets their heart broken once... it probably woulnt and ought to not happen again in the future. just get call your bros and funnel some beers maybe

polarwolf

924 Posts

June 24 2010 11:06 GMT

get rid of her ASAP.

ggrrg

Bulgaria2715 Posts

June 24 2010 11:09 GMT

edit makes this a 5 star blog.

Dunno if you should dump her. Sounds like it is a very complicated relationship but you have to know better than me.

Servius_Fulvius

United States947 Posts

June 24 2010 11:11 GMT

#10

1). I learned years ago that you can't save someone. They have to save themselves. If they're not ready for it, you're only going to cause yourself grief.

2). In my last relationship I thought being with the girl would motivate her to straiten her problems out. Instead, she used me as an emotional venting post. You can't wait around for her to do something for herself, she has to do it on her own time.

3). It sounds like she's an alcoholic. Do you really want that stress.

My advice is to break up with her over the unfaithfulness. And don't drink so much you vomit

OhThatDang

United States4685 Posts

June 24 2010 11:17 GMT

#11

You wanna help her (nice)
You've dated for 2 1/2 months (nice)
She's always drunk except once (wtf???)
She cheats on you while you're away (wtfff????)

What if she's done it more than once while she was drunk and during those 2 months. Better yet how about I bet this scenario happens again in the future :p Its tough cause you really wanna help her but ask yourself this, are you staying for her benefit of you staying or are you staying because you truly believe it will work out?

I would dump and be friends (ha friends)

St3MoR

Spain3256 Posts

June 24 2010 11:32 GMT

#12

dump that bitch, i could write longer but that sums up my thoughts

Badjas

Netherlands2038 Posts

June 24 2010 11:38 GMT

#13

You ain't gonna help her out by forgiving her. Show her that her behavior has consequences, and at the same time spare yourself pain in the future.

Fen

Australia1848 Posts

June 24 2010 11:45 GMT

#14

On June 24 2010 20:01 Snaiil wrote:
you should probably consider dumping her.

Consider?

He should dump her and let her know how much of a dirty slut she is. Post nude pictures of her on the net, hijack her facebook page whatever.

Any girl who would cheat on her boyfriend is trash and you can definitely do better than her OP.

Its nice that you say you want to help her. But you shouldnt allow yourself to be dragged down by someone who cant get their shit together. I donno what she's been through, but trust me, there are many who've been through worse and the way she's acting is an indication of her personality, not just a reaction to what shes been through.

wussleeQ

United States3130 Posts

June 24 2010 11:47 GMT

#15

I Love you TL <3# <# ,#,<# <3 i'm having trouble wiht 3's rightn ow hahaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Licmyobelisk

Philippines3682 Posts

June 24 2010 11:49 GMT

#16

you should probably stop dating her, life's kinda mysterious but she will straighten out by herself in the future.

also, it's not healthy being in the relationship if she treats you like trash, you better think about yourself as well.

here man, take some advice from juggernaut himself.

Ryps

Romania2740 Posts

June 24 2010 11:52 GMT

#17

a cheater always cheats, dump her.

lew

Belgium205 Posts

June 24 2010 11:52 GMT

#18

I am sure that a lot of people will not agree with me, but I always say: once a cheater, always a cheater. I heard about so many cheaters who just do it again and again and again. Their partner forgives them but they just keep on doing it. I NEVER heard a cheater cheating once and then never cheating again.

For me there are 2 groups of people: 1) people who will never cheat (even if they get the chance) and 2) people who will cheat if they get the chance. I would NEVER cheat my girlfriend, and I am 100% sure about that. Loyalty is something you have or not.

She will cheat you again and again.

e.soul[gm]

Sierra Leone254 Posts

June 24 2010 11:54 GMT

#19

shit suxx dude, i'm paranoid every girl will cheat on me, and they sometimes do. it's not the end of the world, it feels bad. you'll get over it.