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Little-Chimp
Profile Joined February 2008
Canada949 Posts
June 24 2010 12:02 GMT
#21
Number 1 rule: Cheaters get dumped. No exceptions.
nayumi
Profile Blog Joined May 2009
Australia6499 Posts
June 24 2010 12:05 GMT
#22
She's not worth it.

Save your heart for someone better.

I know it's easier said than done. Seeing how you are right now probably means that you really care/love her. But the sooner you get over it, the better it is.

Oh btw tell your ex that TL said "fuck you whore"
Sugoi monogatari onii-chan!
Etherone
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
United States1898 Posts
June 24 2010 12:07 GMT
#23
does she know you know?
Elemenope
Profile Blog Joined March 2006
Burkina Faso1704 Posts
June 24 2010 12:08 GMT
#24
^ Don't answer - it's a trap.
In DotA you could
Cadgers
Profile Blog Joined August 2008
United States514 Posts
June 24 2010 12:09 GMT
#25
No offense but if she has been sleeping around you should get tested for STD's, etc. I got crabs once, that shit wasn't fun. They weren't Alaskan king but they felt huge.
Rekrul
Profile Blog Joined November 2002
Korea (South)17174 Posts
June 24 2010 12:09 GMT
#26
you're cheating on yourself if you don't dump this whore
why so 진지해?
Lysteria
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
France2280 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-06-24 12:16:47
June 24 2010 12:13 GMT
#27
On June 24 2010 20:52 lew wrote:
For me there are 2 groups of people: 1) people who will never cheat (even if they get the chance) and 2) people who will cheat if they get the chance. I would NEVER cheat my girlfriend, and I am 100% sure about that. Loyalty is something you have or not.


Not totally agree with you.
For me, it depends of the girlfriend I have. I never cheated some of them in years, and I cheated others one or two months after the beginning of our relationships. Maybe it's not the same thing because I don't even try to hide myself when I cheat, and I don't care when/if my gfs cheat.

Maybe I'm simply too open-minded, ah hah. :p

For the OP, in your case, I'll dump the girl, she seems to be really too unstable.
You seem to be a nice guy, but if you choose to not dump her, you'll not help her. Like someone says, she'll learn from her mistakes, and if not, she doesn't care that much about you. After that, if you really like her, you can forgive her one day (not too soon obviously), but if you forgive her right now, you could be nearly 100% sure she'll do that again.
Eben
Profile Blog Joined September 2008
United States769 Posts
June 24 2010 12:13 GMT
#28
On June 24 2010 20:38 Badjas wrote:
You ain't gonna help her out by forgiving her. Show her that her behavior has consequences, and at the same time spare yourself pain in the future.


sums it up
Equaoh
Profile Joined October 2008
Canada427 Posts
June 24 2010 12:17 GMT
#29
Deaden yourself inside. Fuck her one last time.
/brought to you by couragewolf
Lysteria
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
France2280 Posts
June 24 2010 12:21 GMT
#30
On June 24 2010 21:17 Equaoh wrote:
Deaden yourself inside. Fuck her one last time.
/brought to you by couragewolf


You can easily fuck those kind of girls a lot even after the end of a relationship.
It's like a level one tower defence, broken girls are so easy to get when you fuck them once.
Quanticfograw
Profile Blog Joined October 2005
United States2053 Posts
June 24 2010 12:35 GMT
#31
Man, I realized that you can't force people to change and if its really been like that then you need to say hey, i tried to help you, but you obviously you need some kinda wakeup call and i'm not the person to do it. i wish yo uthe best but its over.
https://twitter.com/quanticfograw
SCC-Faust
Profile Blog Joined November 2007
United States3736 Posts
June 24 2010 12:38 GMT
#32
Leave her.
I want to fuck Soulkey with a Zelderan.
McDonalds
Profile Joined March 2010
Liechtenstein2244 Posts
June 24 2010 12:39 GMT
#33
On June 24 2010 19:43 wesleyq wrote:
the problem for me is that she's been through so much shit in her life and i wanted to try and help her


This sentence alone should pretty much reveal to you that it's time to move on.
High five :---)
Piste
Profile Blog Joined July 2006
6183 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-06-24 12:43:29
June 24 2010 12:40 GMT
#34
so she is drinking almost every day and cheats you?
Sounds like an easy decision: Dump her.

Shouldn't be that hard unless she is one of your first gfs.

edit: So you've been with her less than three months? seriously dump her, unless you wan't to make things harder.
CheAse
Profile Blog Joined July 2009
Canada919 Posts
June 24 2010 12:41 GMT
#35
On June 24 2010 21:09 Rekrul wrote:
you're cheating on yourself if you don't dump this whore


I agree with this

You deserve much better. Plus, what are the chances of it happening again? She may have her own issues, but so does everyone else. Its up to them to deal with them and not become a wrecking ball in the process.

Hope the beta comes up so you can get some valuable rebound.
SCV good to go sir
konadora *
Profile Blog Joined February 2009
Singapore66364 Posts
June 24 2010 12:44 GMT
#36
Dump now. Not worth wasting your time on.
POGGERS
TunaFishyMe
Profile Joined April 2010
Canada150 Posts
June 24 2010 12:48 GMT
#37
I used to think like that too. I could change her etc etc. It's retarded thinking though. People don't change. And if they do, you'll be so broken by the time she does, it will be hard to sustain the relationship that went through so many issues.

You have to be stronger and realize that she is no good for you. There are millions of girls out there. There are millions better than her. Don't be afraid in being alone. Just drop her and focus on other more important things.
love1another
Profile Blog Joined December 2009
United States1844 Posts
June 24 2010 12:55 GMT
#38
She'll find her way on her own And if she doesn't then you can say a few kind words at her funeral when she ODs or gets into an accident from drunk driving, or dies from AIDS.
"I'm learning more and more that TL isn't the place to go for advice outside of anything you need in college. It's like you guys just make up your own fantasy world shit and post it as if you've done it." - Chill
QuanticHawk
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
United States32157 Posts
June 24 2010 12:55 GMT
#39
On June 24 2010 19:43 wesleyq wrote:
So apparently my girlfriend who I always knew was a shit load to handle cheated on me last week and I just found out about an hour ago.

She always came off as the type that would do stupid shit when drunk and I guess I figured "ehh... i think she can calm down for me" I guess not. apparently during my 4 day vacation in hell... I had to stay in laughlin, nevada which i hated for pretty much every second... she was out having some crazy ass days and fucking some other guy apparently.

that would explain why when i came back she suddenly was all over me so often... ugh. the problem for me is that she's been through so much shit in her life and i wanted to try and help her but the moment i leave she suddenly goes back to her past and stuff. she stopped drinking for a week which is weird because the whole time i've known her she's been drunk everyday. that's 2 and a half months of her being drunk and 1 week where she wasn't. aghhh i dunno anymore. i want her to live a better life and am willing to sacrifice my well being for her but... fuck... it sucks to stay in this relationship. i mean i don't feel super hurt but it's stupid for me to stay... FUCK. i'm just alone here drinking and feel really sad. :'[ CRYFACEEE

Now I'm here trying to drown out this stupid night with the rest of my bacardi 151 (wooo) and light beers lol.

anyways... i feel like i'm getting too drunk right now and i guess i can edit this in the morning. and i don't think i'm, making sense. sorry guys lol.

basically, my gf cheated on me while i was away, she lives a crazy life and i care about her, i am drunk

edit FUCK I THREW UP


you sound like Cleveland from Family Guy when his wife cheated on him, ughhhh it's my fault

dump the ho after you've plowed her friend in the ass
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arb
Profile Blog Joined April 2008
Noobville17922 Posts
June 24 2010 12:57 GMT
#40
shes a whore and not worth it

better off without her
stupidbitch
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