*Cryface* I got cheated on T_T - Page 2
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Little-Chimp
Canada948 Posts
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nayumi
Australia6499 Posts
Save your heart for someone better. I know it's easier said than done. Seeing how you are right now probably means that you really care/love her. But the sooner you get over it, the better it is. Oh btw tell your ex that TL said "fuck you whore" | ||
Etherone
United States1898 Posts
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Elemenope
Burkina Faso1704 Posts
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Cadgers
United States514 Posts
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Rekrul
Korea (South)17174 Posts
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Lysteria
France2279 Posts
On June 24 2010 20:52 lew wrote: For me there are 2 groups of people: 1) people who will never cheat (even if they get the chance) and 2) people who will cheat if they get the chance. I would NEVER cheat my girlfriend, and I am 100% sure about that. Loyalty is something you have or not. Not totally agree with you. For me, it depends of the girlfriend I have. I never cheated some of them in years, and I cheated others one or two months after the beginning of our relationships. Maybe it's not the same thing because I don't even try to hide myself when I cheat, and I don't care when/if my gfs cheat. Maybe I'm simply too open-minded, ah hah. :p For the OP, in your case, I'll dump the girl, she seems to be really too unstable. You seem to be a nice guy, but if you choose to not dump her, you'll not help her. Like someone says, she'll learn from her mistakes, and if not, she doesn't care that much about you. After that, if you really like her, you can forgive her one day (not too soon obviously), but if you forgive her right now, you could be nearly 100% sure she'll do that again. | ||
Eben
United States769 Posts
On June 24 2010 20:38 Badjas wrote: You ain't gonna help her out by forgiving her. Show her that her behavior has consequences, and at the same time spare yourself pain in the future. sums it up | ||
Equaoh
Canada427 Posts
/brought to you by couragewolf | ||
Lysteria
France2279 Posts
On June 24 2010 21:17 Equaoh wrote: Deaden yourself inside. Fuck her one last time. /brought to you by couragewolf You can easily fuck those kind of girls a lot even after the end of a relationship. It's like a level one tower defence, broken girls are so easy to get when you fuck them once. | ||
Quanticfograw
United States2053 Posts
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SCC-Faust
United States3736 Posts
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McDonalds
Liechtenstein2244 Posts
On June 24 2010 19:43 wesleyq wrote: the problem for me is that she's been through so much shit in her life and i wanted to try and help her This sentence alone should pretty much reveal to you that it's time to move on. | ||
Piste
6162 Posts
Sounds like an easy decision: Dump her. Shouldn't be that hard unless she is one of your first gfs. edit: So you've been with her less than three months? seriously dump her, unless you wan't to make things harder. | ||
CheAse
Canada919 Posts
On June 24 2010 21:09 Rekrul wrote: you're cheating on yourself if you don't dump this whore I agree with this You deserve much better. Plus, what are the chances of it happening again? She may have her own issues, but so does everyone else. Its up to them to deal with them and not become a wrecking ball in the process. Hope the beta comes up so you can get some valuable rebound. | ||
konadora
Singapore66063 Posts
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TunaFishyMe
Canada150 Posts
You have to be stronger and realize that she is no good for you. There are millions of girls out there. There are millions better than her. Don't be afraid in being alone. Just drop her and focus on other more important things. | ||
love1another
United States1844 Posts
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QuanticHawk
United States32025 Posts
On June 24 2010 19:43 wesleyq wrote: So apparently my girlfriend who I always knew was a shit load to handle cheated on me last week and I just found out about an hour ago. She always came off as the type that would do stupid shit when drunk and I guess I figured "ehh... i think she can calm down for me" I guess not. apparently during my 4 day vacation in hell... I had to stay in laughlin, nevada which i hated for pretty much every second... she was out having some crazy ass days and fucking some other guy apparently. that would explain why when i came back she suddenly was all over me so often... ugh. the problem for me is that she's been through so much shit in her life and i wanted to try and help her but the moment i leave she suddenly goes back to her past and stuff. she stopped drinking for a week which is weird because the whole time i've known her she's been drunk everyday. that's 2 and a half months of her being drunk and 1 week where she wasn't. aghhh i dunno anymore. i want her to live a better life and am willing to sacrifice my well being for her but... fuck... it sucks to stay in this relationship. i mean i don't feel super hurt but it's stupid for me to stay... FUCK. i'm just alone here drinking and feel really sad. :'[ CRYFACEEE Now I'm here trying to drown out this stupid night with the rest of my bacardi 151 (wooo) and light beers lol. anyways... i feel like i'm getting too drunk right now and i guess i can edit this in the morning. and i don't think i'm, making sense. sorry guys lol. basically, my gf cheated on me while i was away, she lives a crazy life and i care about her, i am drunk edit FUCK I THREW UP you sound like Cleveland from Family Guy when his wife cheated on him, ughhhh it's my fault dump the ho after you've plowed her friend in the ass | ||
arb
Noobville17919 Posts
better off without her stupidbitch | ||
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