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wussleeQ
United States3130 Posts
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CKSide
United States223 Posts
sounds like she's not the type for a serious relationship. | ||
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dyren
United States260 Posts
Cheers | ||
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-Kato-
Spain1146 Posts
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Ftrunkz
Australia2474 Posts
edit FUCK I THREW UP lol  Seriously, as kato said, you're 19, she doesnt care about you enough to not cheat on you, get rid of her, you dont owe her anything... | ||
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Snaiil
Sweden312 Posts
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omninmo
2349 Posts
On June 24 2010 19:54 -Kato- wrote: You're 19, don't get into a relationship with a girl who cheats you've been for 2 1/2 months. Dump. rofl, i was gonna say 17. anyway OP cry and vomit some more. everyone gets their heart broken once... it probably woulnt and ought to not happen again in the future. just get call your bros and funnel some beers maybe | ||
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polarwolf
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ggrrg
Bulgaria2716 Posts
Dunno if you should dump her. Sounds like it is a very complicated relationship but you have to know better than me. | ||
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Servius_Fulvius
United States947 Posts
2). In my last relationship I thought being with the girl would motivate her to straiten her problems out. Instead, she used me as an emotional venting post. You can't wait around for her to do something for herself, she has to do it on her own time. 3). It sounds like she's an alcoholic. Do you really want that stress. My advice is to break up with her over the unfaithfulness. And don't drink so much you vomit  | ||
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OhThatDang
United States4685 Posts
You've dated for 2 1/2 months (nice) She's always drunk except once (wtf???) She cheats on you while you're away (wtfff????) What if she's done it more than once while she was drunk and during those 2 months. Better yet how about I bet this scenario happens again in the future :p Its tough cause you really wanna help her but ask yourself this, are you staying for her benefit of you staying or are you staying because you truly believe it will work out? I would dump and be friends (ha friends) | ||
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St3MoR
Spain3256 Posts
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Badjas
Netherlands2038 Posts
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Fen
Australia1848 Posts
On June 24 2010 20:01 Snaiil wrote: you should probably consider dumping her. Consider? He should dump her and let her know how much of a dirty slut she is. Post nude pictures of her on the net, hijack her facebook page whatever. Any girl who would cheat on her boyfriend is trash and you can definitely do better than her OP. Its nice that you say you want to help her. But you shouldnt allow yourself to be dragged down by someone who cant get their shit together. I donno what she's been through, but trust me, there are many who've been through worse and the way she's acting is an indication of her personality, not just a reaction to what shes been through. | ||
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wussleeQ
United States3130 Posts
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Licmyobelisk
Philippines3682 Posts
also, it's not healthy being in the relationship if she treats you like trash, you better think about yourself as well. here man, take some advice from juggernaut himself. | ||
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Ryps
Romania2740 Posts
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lew
Belgium205 Posts
For me there are 2 groups of people: 1) people who will never cheat (even if they get the chance) and 2) people who will cheat if they get the chance. I would NEVER cheat my girlfriend, and I am 100% sure about that. Loyalty is something you have or not. She will cheat you again and again. | ||
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e.soul[gm]
Sierra Leone254 Posts
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Badjas
Netherlands2038 Posts
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Little-Chimp
Canada948 Posts
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nayumi
Australia6499 Posts
Save your heart for someone better. I know it's easier said than done. Seeing how you are right now probably means that you really care/love her. But the sooner you get over it, the better it is. Oh btw tell your ex that TL said "fuck you whore" | ||
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Etherone
United States1898 Posts
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Elemenope
Burkina Faso1704 Posts
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Cadgers
United States514 Posts
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Rekrul
Korea (South)17174 Posts
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Lysteria
France2279 Posts
On June 24 2010 20:52 lew wrote: For me there are 2 groups of people: 1) people who will never cheat (even if they get the chance) and 2) people who will cheat if they get the chance. I would NEVER cheat my girlfriend, and I am 100% sure about that. Loyalty is something you have or not. Not totally agree with you. For me, it depends of the girlfriend I have. I never cheated some of them in years, and I cheated others one or two months after the beginning of our relationships. Maybe it's not the same thing because I don't even try to hide myself when I cheat, and I don't care when/if my gfs cheat. Maybe I'm simply too open-minded, ah hah. :p For the OP, in your case, I'll dump the girl, she seems to be really too unstable. You seem to be a nice guy, but if you choose to not dump her, you'll not help her. Like someone says, she'll learn from her mistakes, and if not, she doesn't care that much about you. After that, if you really like her, you can forgive her one day (not too soon obviously), but if you forgive her right now, you could be nearly 100% sure she'll do that again. | ||
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Eben
United States769 Posts
On June 24 2010 20:38 Badjas wrote: You ain't gonna help her out by forgiving her. Show her that her behavior has consequences, and at the same time spare yourself pain in the future. sums it up | ||
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Equaoh
Canada427 Posts
/brought to you by couragewolf | ||
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Lysteria
France2279 Posts
On June 24 2010 21:17 Equaoh wrote: Deaden yourself inside. Fuck her one last time. /brought to you by couragewolf You can easily fuck those kind of girls a lot even after the end of a relationship. It's like a level one tower defence, broken girls are so easy to get when you fuck them once. | ||
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Quanticfograw
United States2053 Posts
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SCC-Faust
United States3736 Posts
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McDonalds
Liechtenstein2244 Posts
On June 24 2010 19:43 wesleyq wrote: the problem for me is that she's been through so much shit in her life and i wanted to try and help her This sentence alone should pretty much reveal to you that it's time to move on. | ||
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Piste
6174 Posts
Sounds like an easy decision: Dump her. Shouldn't be that hard unless she is one of your first gfs. edit: So you've been with her less than three months? seriously dump her, unless you wan't to make things harder. | ||
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CheAse
Canada919 Posts
On June 24 2010 21:09 Rekrul wrote: you're cheating on yourself if you don't dump this whore I agree with this You deserve much better. Plus, what are the chances of it happening again? She may have her own issues, but so does everyone else. Its up to them to deal with them and not become a wrecking ball in the process. Hope the beta comes up so you can get some valuable rebound. | ||
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konadora
Singapore66155 Posts
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TunaFishyMe
Canada150 Posts
You have to be stronger and realize that she is no good for you. There are millions of girls out there. There are millions better than her. Don't be afraid in being alone. Just drop her and focus on other more important things. | ||
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love1another
United States1844 Posts
And if she doesn't then you can say a few kind words at her funeral when she ODs or gets into an accident from drunk driving, or dies from AIDS. | ||
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QuanticHawk
United States32045 Posts
On June 24 2010 19:43 wesleyq wrote: So apparently my girlfriend who I always knew was a shit load to handle cheated on me last week and I just found out about an hour ago. She always came off as the type that would do stupid shit when drunk and I guess I figured "ehh... i think she can calm down for me" I guess not. apparently during my 4 day vacation in hell... I had to stay in laughlin, nevada which i hated for pretty much every second... she was out having some crazy ass days and fucking some other guy apparently. that would explain why when i came back she suddenly was all over me so often... ugh. the problem for me is that she's been through so much shit in her life and i wanted to try and help her but the moment i leave she suddenly goes back to her past and stuff. she stopped drinking for a week which is weird because the whole time i've known her she's been drunk everyday. that's 2 and a half months of her being drunk and 1 week where she wasn't. aghhh i dunno anymore. i want her to live a better life and am willing to sacrifice my well being for her but... fuck... it sucks to stay in this relationship. i mean i don't feel super hurt but it's stupid for me to stay... FUCK. i'm just alone here drinking and feel really sad. :'[ CRYFACEEE Now I'm here trying to drown out this stupid night with the rest of my bacardi 151 (wooo) and light beers lol. anyways... i feel like i'm getting too drunk right now and i guess i can edit this in the morning. and i don't think i'm, making sense. sorry guys lol. basically, my gf cheated on me while i was away, she lives a crazy life and i care about her, i am drunk edit FUCK I THREW UP you sound like Cleveland from Family Guy when his wife cheated on him, ughhhh it's my fault dump the ho after you've plowed her friend in the ass | ||
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arb
Noobville17921 Posts
better off without her stupidbitch | ||
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chaoser
United States5541 Posts
At least she didn't blow your dog? | ||
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GreEny K
Germany7312 Posts
On June 24 2010 19:51 CKSide wrote: screw it, just move past it if you really like her. or keep her for the sex. sounds like she's not the type for a serious relationship. Move past it? Have you ever been cheated on? Leave her, if she cheats when she is drunk then I wouldn't want anything to do with her. | ||
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KissBlade
United States5718 Posts
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Badjas
Netherlands2038 Posts
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snotboogie
Australia3550 Posts
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enzym
Germany1034 Posts
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arb
Noobville17921 Posts
On June 24 2010 22:00 chaoser wrote: You don't deserve this man. Say goodbye and move on. At least she didn't blow your dog? She was found making a blow job on his dog, it was german shepard breed LOL | ||
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ella_guru
Canada1741 Posts
That's done now move onto the next thing. Otherwise you'll be posting here in a month about how it happened again. then in a couple months about how you just want to to do the right thing, then in a year how you feel like there is no turning back.... BYE BYE BYE girly | ||
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Malgrif
Canada1095 Posts
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nosliw
United States2716 Posts
On June 24 2010 22:11 enzym wrote: when you help her out of this mess she'll dump you for a better guy. from a rational perspective you could keep her though. it doesnt matter at whom your emotional attachment is pointed as long as you have it. and all relationships will end eventually. Agree with this. After she no longer needs you, she'll not hesitate and leave you, and then what have you gained? | ||
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haduken
Australia8267 Posts
Relationship is like a contract, you can't just let shits like this slide. If you really really really like her (Who knows?), you still need to break up with her, maybe get back together when she gets her shit together. | ||
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hellobye
Canada82 Posts
not to be rude or anything, some people are not worth helping. put your time somewhere else | ||
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BloodDrunK
Bangladesh2767 Posts
i have always been rejected when asking out a girl and the only time i succeeded, i got cheated on later. | ||
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niteReloaded
Croatia5281 Posts
Dump this one, and find the girl who has the good sides of this girl but isn't a drunk fucktard. It's easier than you think. | ||
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dyren
United States260 Posts
On June 24 2010 21:09 Rekrul wrote: you're cheating on yourself if you don't dump this whore /thread | ||
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Tazza
Korea (South)1678 Posts
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Scorch
Austria3371 Posts
+ Show Spoiler + Leave her. The girl sounds like trouble. It's probably only a matter of time until some other shit comes up. She's not good for you. | ||
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GunSec
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TheAntZ
Israel6248 Posts
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Zapperkhan
United States436 Posts
More than likely there is someone who has close enough values to you to not go through this kinda bs. A lot of people cheat, the reason for the cheating is much more important than cheating. It's human nature to want to fuck. It's safe to say it's part of her nature to want to as well. I'm willing to bet she'd cheat on you again if given the opportunity. Does this make her a bad person? That's an opinion only you can form for yourself. Judging by your reaction the best course of action would be breaking up. This will happen again more than likely. Good luck dude. If you decide to break up, surround yourself with friends and be active, set a few goals to be finished within a year. That'll help the pain. Hope this was useful. | ||
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Volshok
United States349 Posts
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moon`
United States372 Posts
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krndandaman
Mozambique16569 Posts
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CharlieMurphy
United States22895 Posts
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Emon_
3925 Posts
Best of luck. And let us know how it turns out or if you need some other advice/help | ||
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TelecoM
United States10668 Posts
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zOula...
United States898 Posts
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TaaiJoeng
Hong Kong164 Posts
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FraCuS
United States1072 Posts
good for nothing cheaters -__- | ||
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hellobye
Canada82 Posts
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eLiE
Canada1039 Posts
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Mickey
United States2606 Posts
On June 25 2010 00:08 SandTSquared wrote: first thing you should learn in life is to never trust a bitch, fuck her stay focused on money Are you trying to be sarcastic or something? This is terrible advice. Time heals all wounds. Try to keep yourself busy with hobbies and going out. Eventually you'll feel a lot better. | ||
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BloodDrunK
Bangladesh2767 Posts
On June 25 2010 01:18 Mickey wrote: Are you trying to be sarcastic or something? This is terrible advice. Time heals all wounds. Try to keep yourself busy with hobbies and going out. Eventually you'll feel a lot better. totally agreed.as a man who has been rejected countless number of times, i can seriously vouch for this. | ||
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DemiSe
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konadora
Singapore66155 Posts
On June 24 2010 23:33 krndandaman wrote: dude. dump her, tell her to fuck off that'll teach her to fix her ways rather than you being her bitch and forgiving her. just putting it blunt and simple, i know how you feel this happened to me before. (just that she didn't fuck, but made out with some dude and let him finger her) not ever going to happen to me again FTFY | ||
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Chef
10810 Posts
she's been through so much shit in her life and i wanted to try and help her Now's the time to learn your lesson. Smarten up. Every nerdy guy goes through a phase like this. It's called being a bleeding heart and it doesn't help anyone. Ex: If a girl is an idiot and looks like she can't stop being an idiot on her own, it's a lost cause (you have a god complex if you think you can change this). If a girl has had a shitty life but looks like she's getting back on her feet by herself, it's okay to help her get there quicker. People have to change themselves, you can't do it for them. Literally the best thing you can do for this is person is to break up with her so she can see the consequences of her lifestyle and maybe be less of a retard for the next unlucky guy. But honestly who the fuck doesn't have a messed up past? Like 1 in 100,000 people never had anything happen to them growing up. It's not an excuse to be a shitty person. It's not the reason she's a shitty person. It's just an excuse because people like you keep letting it be. | ||
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Lexpar
1813 Posts
On June 24 2010 19:43 wesleyq wrote: anyways... i feel like i'm getting too drunk right now and i guess i can edit this in the morning. and i don't think i'm, making sense. sorry guys lol. basically, my gf cheated on me while i was away, she lives a crazy life and i care about her, i am drunk edit FUCK I THREW UP  Been drunk all week. Prom with huge after party till 4 in the morning, then huge province-wide birthday party with fireworks (Quebec fighting!), and parties tonight. Least I haven't thrown up yet lol. | ||
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Ian Ian Ian
915 Posts
Do you care about her or do you care about your girlfriend. Is she really that special, if so, confront her about if you haven't already, talk it out. If not, dump her, no hard feelings, move on. edit: FUCK I THREW UP | ||
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polarwolf
924 Posts
On June 25 2010 03:00 Ian Ian Ian wrote: I love some of the responses this blog gets, some people act like cheating is literally the end of the world. God some people over-react. Everyone makes mistakes, don't pretend like you're perfect. Do you care about her or do you care about your girlfriend. Is she really that special, if so, confront her about if you haven't already, talk it out. If not, dump her, no hard feelings, move on. edit: FUCK I THREW UP It's not the end of the world, but it's the end of the relationship. I repeat: Do not stay with this tramp. If she pulls this shit and you stay with her, she'll lose all respect for you, it means she can do w/e she wants if you don't show her the consequences, because cheating already is the worst. | ||
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Comeh
United States18918 Posts
On June 25 2010 03:19 polarwolf wrote: It's not the end of the world, but it's the end of the relationship. I repeat: Do not stay with this tramp. If she pulls this shit and you stay with her, she'll lose all respect for you, it means she can do w/e she wants if you don't show her the consequences, because cheating already is the worst. Pretty much this. There are always more girls in the...sea...and some might not even cheat. Have some respect for yourself, dump her. | ||
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Infernus
Norway222 Posts
 We all fuck up sometimes in our life. The best thing for you, and your ex, is to simply end it. Hopefully she'll learn from her mistakes and get her act together. I know I sure did! (Yes I'm one of those horrible persons who cheated on my GF once T_T). Anyways, best of luck, and time heal all wounds! And a tip, don't sit by yourself in the next upcoming weeks. Go outside, do stuff with friends etc. keep yourself busy as much as possible. | ||
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XiaoJoyce-
China2908 Posts
Okay, I didn't get cheated. I think I got break up with my boyfriend is partly myfault.. And I do hope u get over it. There is 1 guy in school now keep pointing middle finger at me whenever he sees me and say bad ugly false thing about me because he like me and I don't really want to go steady with him.. How I wished he moved on and stop making my life miserable. And, girls like her is everywhere I think. I realised this sad truth only when I'm 19 | ||
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Spiffeh
United States830 Posts
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craz3d
Bulgaria856 Posts
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TossFloss
Canada606 Posts
Cheer up. You're not alone. Cheating happens all the time - and ends many relationships. It's just a fact of life. It's gonna be a tough first month. Get together with your guy pals. And fill your life with distractions. | ||
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jjun212
Canada2208 Posts
trust me. i wrote a blog about this shit too lol and u know what man? its summer time... girls in shortshorts everywhere take your pick buddy! | ||
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ATeddyBear
Canada2843 Posts
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Dance.jhu
United States292 Posts
EDIT: You should tell her parents about the stuff she does. That'll teach her. | ||
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hp.Shell
United States2527 Posts
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