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On January 12 2010 19:22 [DUF]MethodMan wrote:Show nested quote +On January 12 2010 15:53 LxRogue wrote: So I guess I'm making a notorious TL girl problem thread...
I've got a girlfriend of 2+ years who i go to university with and it's been mostly pretty good. One thing about her - she extremely friendly. Borderline flirtatious with just about any male she meets, even if she doesn't do it consciously.
I stopped reading here. There are very few women who don't do just about everything on purpose, yours obviously isn't one of those. I hope next time you remember this.
im pretty sure if you uhh read the whole thread OP you would change your opinion quite a bit . . .
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whatever you do, don't marry her.
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Snet
United States3573 Posts
Why are you still with her?
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End it. She may even consciously want to be with you, and the logical thing would be to stay with you or whatever, but she's obviously attracted to other people too much, and she'll keep doing it.
Best case scenario: You end it now worst case scenario: you end it after 5 years of marriage.
People don't change fast when it comes to these things, nor can they DECIDE to be 'good'.
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Hint: This should be you right now.
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On January 12 2010 19:34 Sad[Panda] wrote:Show nested quote +On January 12 2010 19:22 [DUF]MethodMan wrote:On January 12 2010 15:53 LxRogue wrote: So I guess I'm making a notorious TL girl problem thread...
I've got a girlfriend of 2+ years who i go to university with and it's been mostly pretty good. One thing about her - she extremely friendly. Borderline flirtatious with just about any male she meets, even if she doesn't do it consciously.
I stopped reading here. There are very few women who don't do just about everything on purpose, yours obviously isn't one of those. I hope next time you remember this. im pretty sure if you uhh read the whole thread OP you would change your opinion quite a bit . . .
I actually did. And it didn't change my opinion, why should it?
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Tell her 1a2a3a and then leave.
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you are only 21, dump her if she is making out with some other guys yo, have some pride
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If I were in your position, I would end it. I will never ever go for a crappy relationship again. That's what I have learned Sure it hurts first, but eventually you will be so much happier.
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i swear i saw this thread in my dream. dejavu ftw
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The sooner you end it, the better. If it were her first time making out with some random while drunk, fuck it and forget about it. Everyone makes mistakes. Who hasn't done something completely fucking retarded while hammered? But it's her second time, and she WON'T change.
End it.
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On January 12 2010 20:18 ThunderGod wrote:Hint: This should be you right now.
I raise you this
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bang her get your shit and then leave rofl
seriously gotta cut ties though
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lol, this is the shittiest situation for any fucking human being, disregarding any circumstance. ditch her. she's the shittiest person on the planet from my point of view, hooking up twice with some other guy, it doesn't matter how pretty she is, or what ever bond that kept you together from the past time you caught her cheating.
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Bill307
Canada9103 Posts
On January 12 2010 18:56 {88}iNcontroL wrote: Have some fucking self respect dude.
This girl has cheated on you. You have forgiven her.
You expressed that you are uncomfortable with her texting of her ex-boyfriend (DUH, WHAT THE FUCK?) so she goes around and changes the method of communicating to him so she can sleep at night WHILE still deceiving you.
You find out she lied about cheating on you again but the lie is a semi-admittance to a problem so yet again she can sleep at night.
She has absolutely no respect for you. I know this is odd coming from a person you've never met who has simply read your blog but pretend for a second that human beings all have fairly similar experiences OR CAN experience fairly similar things.. in fact some have experienced more and have wisdom to pass on: dump her asap.
And I don't mean "hey, yeah sorry, I think we should break it off." I'm talking a "Hey, I'm coming over. Yeah it'll only be a minute." *Click* then you stone cold stare her in the face with a half smile and tell her it is over. When she trembles and asks why you snort and say, who the fuck do you think I am?
Make it burn so that maybe she can learn that in the future being a two-timing lying bitch with 0 respect but all the spineless ability to drag someone through shit doesn't pay off.
If you can't do it give me her number and I will do it for you. I have no problem telling a girl like that off. This.
And...
On January 12 2010 19:22 [DUF]MethodMan wrote:Show nested quote +On January 12 2010 15:53 LxRogue wrote: So I guess I'm making a notorious TL girl problem thread...
I've got a girlfriend of 2+ years who i go to university with and it's been mostly pretty good. One thing about her - she extremely friendly. Borderline flirtatious with just about any male she meets, even if she doesn't do it consciously.
I stopped reading here. There are very few women who don't do just about everything on purpose, yours obviously isn't one of those. I hope next time you remember this. This. (too many negatives though; took me a few reads to figure out what you were saying )
People don't flirt "subconsciously": either they like the guy/girl in that way and flirt, or they don't and don't flirt.
Thinking about it like that, you'd kind of have to expect she'd cheat on you eventually, anyway.
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On January 12 2010 17:39 Marimokkori wrote:Fuck an ultimatum. If this is the second offense you seriously need to get out now, and get out fast. The longer you stay with her the harder it will be. Show nested quote +On January 12 2010 16:10 seppolevne wrote:On January 12 2010 15:53 LxRogue wrote:
Should i just end it? Give her an ultimatum? And target your relationship, her phone number and her facebook login info. Drop the bitch. Agreed. Target everything. You don't need her anywhere in your life. Destroy all possible contact, IMO. Drop the bitch. Edit after reading more replies: Show nested quote +On January 12 2010 17:21 Biff The Understudy wrote: Don't be stupid, and don't listen stupid people.
Talk to her, and discuss it with her. Don't rage, don't feel humiliated. It just happens.
Everybody can make mistakes, believe me I know what I am talking about, and I am so thankful to my girlfriend that she forgave me. It just needs to be discussed.
And the "best advice" is not a good a advice. What will you earn in your life by saying someone you have loved for two years that she doesn't deserve any respect? Fucking hell people are so silly. Who on earth has never done a shit like that?
Forgiving is not a weakness. Shutting your mouth is, but forgiving is what people who have a brain and a heart can do. Raging and insulting your gf is just stupid dumbfuck reaction. Sorry if I offend you, but this really aggravates me. This viewpoint of cheating being mildly acceptable is part of why it seems so common. "It just happens." Did you read the op? This did not just happen. This is her SECOND offense! Cheating NEVER "just happens." It's sounds to me like you know what it's like to be the one doing the cheating and can therefore sympathize with his girlfriend who obviously treats him like trash. I think you need a morality check, to be honest. This kind of shit is not OK, should not be so easily forgiven, if forgiven at all. "Forgiving is not a weakness. Shutting your mouth is, but forgiving is what people who have a brain and a heart can do. Raging and insulting your gf is just stupid dumbfuck reaction." Having the capacity to forgive is important. So is having the ability to tell people who walk on you and use you to fuck off. Cheating is a stupid dumbfuck thing to do and not raging about it will only allow her to walk on you more. Allow me to reiterate: This is her second offense and she's been lying to you. Drop the bitch. If you really want to give her an ultimatum, demand a threesome with another girl, then leave her anyway. It does just happen. It did happen to me to fall in love with someone else and to forget everything. If it can't happen to you, good for you. It does happen to lot of people, sometimes amazing persons. Two of my best friends are a couple, and the girl cheated three time at the guy. And everytime he got hurt, and everytime it was a big shit. But they are still together and they are amazing. And they love each other.
You don't know the girl. You don't fucking have any fucking right to call her a bitch. And you don't have to judge her.
If I was OP I would slap you in the face.
Judgemental douche.
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On January 12 2010 23:57 Biff The Understudy wrote:Show nested quote +On January 12 2010 17:39 Marimokkori wrote:Fuck an ultimatum. If this is the second offense you seriously need to get out now, and get out fast. The longer you stay with her the harder it will be. On January 12 2010 16:10 seppolevne wrote:On January 12 2010 15:53 LxRogue wrote:
Should i just end it? Give her an ultimatum? And target your relationship, her phone number and her facebook login info. Drop the bitch. Agreed. Target everything. You don't need her anywhere in your life. Destroy all possible contact, IMO. Drop the bitch. Edit after reading more replies: On January 12 2010 17:21 Biff The Understudy wrote: Don't be stupid, and don't listen stupid people.
Talk to her, and discuss it with her. Don't rage, don't feel humiliated. It just happens.
Everybody can make mistakes, believe me I know what I am talking about, and I am so thankful to my girlfriend that she forgave me. It just needs to be discussed.
And the "best advice" is not a good a advice. What will you earn in your life by saying someone you have loved for two years that she doesn't deserve any respect? Fucking hell people are so silly. Who on earth has never done a shit like that?
Forgiving is not a weakness. Shutting your mouth is, but forgiving is what people who have a brain and a heart can do. Raging and insulting your gf is just stupid dumbfuck reaction. Sorry if I offend you, but this really aggravates me. This viewpoint of cheating being mildly acceptable is part of why it seems so common. "It just happens." Did you read the op? This did not just happen. This is her SECOND offense! Cheating NEVER "just happens." It's sounds to me like you know what it's like to be the one doing the cheating and can therefore sympathize with his girlfriend who obviously treats him like trash. I think you need a morality check, to be honest. This kind of shit is not OK, should not be so easily forgiven, if forgiven at all. "Forgiving is not a weakness. Shutting your mouth is, but forgiving is what people who have a brain and a heart can do. Raging and insulting your gf is just stupid dumbfuck reaction." Having the capacity to forgive is important. So is having the ability to tell people who walk on you and use you to fuck off. Cheating is a stupid dumbfuck thing to do and not raging about it will only allow her to walk on you more. Allow me to reiterate: This is her second offense and she's been lying to you. Drop the bitch. If you really want to give her an ultimatum, demand a threesome with another girl, then leave her anyway. It does just happen. It did happen to me to fall in love with someone else and to forget everything. If it can't happen to you, good for you. It does happen to lot of people, sometimes amazing persons. Two of my best friends are a couple, and the girl cheated three time at the guy. And everytime he got hurt, and everytime it was a big shit. But they are still together and they are amazing. And they love each other. You don't know the girl. You don't fucking have any fucking right to call her a bitch. And you don't have to judge her. If I was OP I would slap you in the face. Judgemental douche.
everything you said was just irrational, love is irrational; it's fear of never finding happiness and looking else where (in another human being) it's for the week, imo. Every human being desires happiness. this guy needs to ditch this bitch. oh, btw she is a bitch and every negative word that can describe a bitch in this situation.
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On January 13 2010 00:00 Revolt wrote:Show nested quote +On January 12 2010 23:57 Biff The Understudy wrote:On January 12 2010 17:39 Marimokkori wrote:Fuck an ultimatum. If this is the second offense you seriously need to get out now, and get out fast. The longer you stay with her the harder it will be. On January 12 2010 16:10 seppolevne wrote:On January 12 2010 15:53 LxRogue wrote:
Should i just end it? Give her an ultimatum? And target your relationship, her phone number and her facebook login info. Drop the bitch. Agreed. Target everything. You don't need her anywhere in your life. Destroy all possible contact, IMO. Drop the bitch. Edit after reading more replies: On January 12 2010 17:21 Biff The Understudy wrote: Don't be stupid, and don't listen stupid people.
Talk to her, and discuss it with her. Don't rage, don't feel humiliated. It just happens.
Everybody can make mistakes, believe me I know what I am talking about, and I am so thankful to my girlfriend that she forgave me. It just needs to be discussed.
And the "best advice" is not a good a advice. What will you earn in your life by saying someone you have loved for two years that she doesn't deserve any respect? Fucking hell people are so silly. Who on earth has never done a shit like that?
Forgiving is not a weakness. Shutting your mouth is, but forgiving is what people who have a brain and a heart can do. Raging and insulting your gf is just stupid dumbfuck reaction. Sorry if I offend you, but this really aggravates me. This viewpoint of cheating being mildly acceptable is part of why it seems so common. "It just happens." Did you read the op? This did not just happen. This is her SECOND offense! Cheating NEVER "just happens." It's sounds to me like you know what it's like to be the one doing the cheating and can therefore sympathize with his girlfriend who obviously treats him like trash. I think you need a morality check, to be honest. This kind of shit is not OK, should not be so easily forgiven, if forgiven at all. "Forgiving is not a weakness. Shutting your mouth is, but forgiving is what people who have a brain and a heart can do. Raging and insulting your gf is just stupid dumbfuck reaction." Having the capacity to forgive is important. So is having the ability to tell people who walk on you and use you to fuck off. Cheating is a stupid dumbfuck thing to do and not raging about it will only allow her to walk on you more. Allow me to reiterate: This is her second offense and she's been lying to you. Drop the bitch. If you really want to give her an ultimatum, demand a threesome with another girl, then leave her anyway. It does just happen. It did happen to me to fall in love with someone else and to forget everything. If it can't happen to you, good for you. It does happen to lot of people, sometimes amazing persons. Two of my best friends are a couple, and the girl cheated three time at the guy. And everytime he got hurt, and everytime it was a big shit. But they are still together and they are amazing. And they love each other. You don't know the girl. You don't fucking have any fucking right to call her a bitch. And you don't have to judge her. If I was OP I would slap you in the face. Judgemental douche. everything you said was just irrational, love is irrational; it's fear of never finding happiness and looking else where (in another human being) it's for the week, imo. Every human being desires happiness. this guy needs to ditch this bitch. oh, btw she is a bitch and every negative word that can describe a bitch in this situation. Buy a brain or something equivalent.
I don't like to quote the Bible but there is a good sentence:
"Let thoses who have never sinned throw the first stone".
I hope you guys are very clean, like, really, really, really clean to speak the way you do.
Incontrol talked about self respect. Self respect is not letting random fucks talk shit about your girlfriend. Whatever she did. That's self respect.
Geez.
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she also must be pretty dumb for having her facebook login saved on your comp while betraying you : (
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