Let's say your girlfriend of 8 months does heroin. How do you feel? How do you react? What do you do?
I'm pretty angry, but I'm not entirely sure if it's justified. I don't know what to really say. It's been three or four days since and I fought with her once about it. I tried to just forget about it but it keeps coming up in the back of my mind. I can't stop, and it eats away at me.
To clear a few other things up. She did it once. She smoked it, a small amount. She says she wouldn't go looking for it but if the opportunity came up she would do it again.
doesn't sound like a big deal to me... As long as she only smoked it and it was only this once... only problems w/ heroin imo are the addiction and injecting. as long as those don't arise there is no problem. imo.
This is assuming that you wouldn't have a problem w/ her smoking weed or taking a lorcet and that you find recreational use of illegal substances acceptable.
I don't mean to condone the usage of heroin, but most of the replies in this thread make it seem as if she sold her car to get the herion and then did it all and sucked the guys dick for more. She smoked it once. It's not a big deal... Herion doesn't do much more long term damage to your body than just about anything else you would smoke. What do you people really know about herion that wasn't spoon fed by a bias media? Your biggest concern should be that she doesn't get addicted, and that is all. I mean the way these people are talking if you did cocaine once you're an addict.
On August 19 2009 05:13 Ronald_McD wrote: Let's say your girlfriend of 8 months does heroin. How do you feel? How do you react? What do you do?
I'm pretty angry, but I'm not entirely sure if it's justified. I don't know what to really say. It's been three or four days since and I fought with her once about it. I tried to just forget about it but it keeps coming up in the back of my mind. I can't stop, and it eats away at me.
To clear a few other things up. She did it once. She smoked it, a small amount. She says she wouldn't go looking for it but if the opportunity came up she would do it again.
Question is how much do you love her? would you accept the fact that she's takin drugs to be with her? Do you yourself take any other drugs?
If i were you I would make her choose between you and the heroin. Tell her you gonna leave her if she continues and see how she reacts. Heroin is serious bussiness, I would think about nothing else than this if she would stand in front of me. If she leaves you because of some stupid drugs than she wasn't worth it anyway. I rather would have no GF than one that does heroin.
Get her some help and if that doesnt work then dump her. imo. You cant "make" someone quit people have to do that on their own. I wish you the best my friend.
If she keeps saying she might do it again then bite the bullet and present her with an ultimatum. Heroin is some serious shit, don't wanna get stuck with a druggie I imagine. ^____^
On August 19 2009 05:21 crucifix wrote: Holy crap. Heroin? That's fucking serious bussiness.
yea this sums it up heroin isn't something used casually and the people who are providing it are more likely to rob you then do anything else i say rethink life and find normal people to hang out with the chick is obviously an uneducated fool for touching it. basically snuff it out and move on distance yourself from that crowd and try to save the chick, but shes sounds stupid weed,even coke or ecstasy is something you mingle with but herion is as crucifix wrote. gl with that dude
On August 19 2009 05:21 crucifix wrote: Holy crap. Heroin? That's fucking serious bussiness.
yea this sums it up heroin isn't something used casually and the people who are providing it are more likely to rob you then do anything else i say rethink life and find normal people to hang out with the chick is obviously an uneducated fool for touching it. basically snuff it out and move on distance yourself from that crowd and try to save the chick, but shes sounds stupid weed,even coke or ecstasy is something you mingle with but herion is as crucifix wrote. gl with that dude
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On a more serious note...
Did fanatacist even do heroin? I didn't see any references to it in his blog... Perhaps I just missed it. That was a pretty long blog. This is serious business, and you need to do something about it by either getting her to stop or just breaking up with her.
i snorted H once. no biggy. wouldn't do it again though. i'd say 2 or 3 times wouldn't be dangerous but idk. ask her why she wants to do it again, because honestly the risk/benefit ratio for H sucks bad.