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Ronald_McD
Canada807 Posts
I'm pretty angry, but I'm not entirely sure if it's justified. I don't know what to really say. It's been three or four days since and I fought with her once about it. I tried to just forget about it but it keeps coming up in the back of my mind. I can't stop, and it eats away at me. To clear a few other things up. She did it once. She smoked it, a small amount. She says she wouldn't go looking for it but if the opportunity came up she would do it again.  | ||
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fusionsdf
Canada15390 Posts
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Itachii
Poland12466 Posts
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Bearded Elder29903 Posts
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Rev0lution
United States1805 Posts
You really have three choices. 1) Accept her drug use and do it with her. 2) Accept her drug use and abstain from doing heroin. 3) Tell her it's either you or the heroin. | ||
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StorrZerg
United States13919 Posts
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decafchicken
United States20019 Posts
b) dump her c) make her quit | ||
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FragKrag
United States11552 Posts
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fanatacist
10319 Posts
On August 19 2009 05:24 decafchicken wrote: a) direct her to fanatacists blog b) dump her c) make her quit LOL GG Choose 2 of the above imo | ||
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Motiva
United States1774 Posts
This is assuming that you wouldn't have a problem w/ her smoking weed or taking a lorcet and that you find recreational use of illegal substances acceptable. I don't mean to condone the usage of heroin, but most of the replies in this thread make it seem as if she sold her car to get the herion and then did it all and sucked the guys dick for more. She smoked it once. It's not a big deal... Herion doesn't do much more long term damage to your body than just about anything else you would smoke. What do you people really know about herion that wasn't spoon fed by a bias media? Your biggest concern should be that she doesn't get addicted, and that is all. I mean the way these people are talking if you did cocaine once you're an addict. | ||
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coltrane
Chile988 Posts
On August 19 2009 05:13 Ronald_McD wrote: Let's say your girlfriend of 8 months does heroin. How do you feel? How do you react? What do you do? I'm pretty angry, but I'm not entirely sure if it's justified. I don't know what to really say. It's been three or four days since and I fought with her once about it. I tried to just forget about it but it keeps coming up in the back of my mind. I can't stop, and it eats away at me. To clear a few other things up. She did it once. She smoked it, a small amount. She says she wouldn't go looking for it but if the opportunity came up she would do it again. i would do it with her... heroin and then sex. | ||
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Toolshed
337 Posts
If i were you I would make her choose between you and the heroin. Tell her you gonna leave her if she continues and see how she reacts. Heroin is serious bussiness, I would think about nothing else than this if she would stand in front of me. If she leaves you because of some stupid drugs than she wasn't worth it anyway. I rather would have no GF than one that does heroin. | ||
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ZeeTemplar
United States557 Posts
on another note. | ||
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andiCR
Costa Rica2273 Posts
My advice-> heroin or you | ||
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Sadistx
Zimbabwe5568 Posts
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foeffa
Belgium2115 Posts
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FredSanford
United States70 Posts
On August 19 2009 05:21 crucifix wrote: Holy crap. Heroin? That's fucking serious bussiness. yea this sums it up heroin isn't something used casually and the people who are providing it are more likely to rob you then do anything else i say rethink life and find normal people to hang out with the chick is obviously an uneducated fool for touching it. basically snuff it out and move on distance yourself from that crowd and try to save the chick, but shes sounds stupid weed,even coke or ecstasy is something you mingle with but herion is as crucifix wrote. gl with that dude | ||
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Fontong
United States6454 Posts
On August 19 2009 06:30 FredSanford wrote: yea this sums it up heroin isn't something used casually and the people who are providing it are more likely to rob you then do anything else i say rethink life and find normal people to hang out with the chick is obviously an uneducated fool for touching it. basically snuff it out and move on distance yourself from that crowd and try to save the chick, but shes sounds stupid weed,even coke or ecstasy is something you mingle with but herion is as crucifix wrote. gl with that dude izzycraft #2? :D On a more serious note... Did fanatacist even do heroin? I didn't see any references to it in his blog... Perhaps I just missed it. That was a pretty long blog. This is serious business, and you need to do something about it by either getting her to stop or just breaking up with her. | ||
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Patriot.dlk
Sweden5462 Posts
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REDBLUEGREEN
Germany1903 Posts
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MountainDewJunkie
United States10341 Posts
What's my point? Get out before you get hurt. If you think she's only done it once, then you, and her, are just full of shit. Plenty of fish in the sea. Heroin is serious business. EDIT: I'm not blaming a drug for our breakup; just pointing out that heroin addicts are unstable and certainly unfit for meaningful relationships. | ||
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CharlieMurphy
United States22895 Posts
If I were you I'd tell her it's not cool and giver her an ultimatum. Also, if you ever catch her high on it just slap her around, don't worry, she won't feel it. | ||
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SCC-Faust
United States3736 Posts
On August 19 2009 05:13 Ronald_McD wrote: She says she wouldn't go looking for it but if the opportunity came up she would do it again. I can't tell if that is just loving honesty or her trying to get you on your toes. Either way you should take a plank of wood and give her a good old face plant back into reality. | ||
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WeSt
Portugal918 Posts
On August 19 2009 20:30 CharlieMurphy wrote: isn't for the first time you do heroin you feel like shit and puke? Even morphiene (sic) in your IV drip sucker punches your bread basket so fast you almost wanna vomit. but yea, it is fuckin relaxing. Trying it is one thing, but if you do it more that is a really bad habit. If I were you I'd tell her it's not cool and giver her an ultimatum. Also, if you ever catch her high on it just slap her around, don't worry, she won't feel it. Yes that's pretty much true. I call it bullshit by her. First times you have heroin (smoked) you will feel sick and vomit etc, so I guess that was not her first time. If she was injecting herself you would have noticed yea. H is really really dangerous, it's the most addictive shit in the world, and the most lethal. Try to keep her away from that shit... get some weed and smoke with her to make her feel away from that shit. Total abstinence doesn't work with H users, you have to go step by step. If you totally deny drug use to an H user believe me she will try to find more. I had some problems with a friend doing heroin and we helped him by hanging around with him more. Smoked some weed and went partying getting drunk, girls etc and he eventually forgot about heroin. It was really hard believe me. Don't let her start a bad habit. gl | ||
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Leath
Canada1724 Posts
On August 19 2009 05:13 Ronald_McD wrote: Let's say your girlfriend of 8 months does heroin. How do you feel? How do you react? What do you do? I'm pretty angry, but I'm not entirely sure if it's justified. I don't know what to really say. It's been three or four days since and I fought with her once about it. I tried to just forget about it but it keeps coming up in the back of my mind. I can't stop, and it eats away at me. To clear a few other things up. She did it once. She smoked it, a small amount. She says she wouldn't go looking for it but if the opportunity came up she would do it again. Isnt heroin something you inject in yourself? Can you smoke it too? o.o | ||
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Killy
United States39 Posts
I live in Detroit, and this shit is everywhere around here. Extremely dirt cheap, oftentimes cheaper than weed. I can tell you from personal experience, everyone i know who has chosen that path, are now DEAD. Including my best friends form high school, one of them even had 2 kids! Current death count is 6, and there are a couple more i'm expecting phone calls for anyday. Very sad stories, but they all started out similar to yours, usually with perscription pain killers. Some of my friends didn't start doing it until they were in their 30's. Shit goes downhill VERY fast. | ||
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Slaughter
United States20254 Posts
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Licmyobelisk
Philippines3682 Posts
 For me on my opinion about it is read west's post since I think he have already dealt with it. Like jam with her using weed and party until she forget's it, and also check out for signs if she is still using H. Also, give her the ultimatum like the others have told you, she should never ever use it again if that fails well harden your balls like adamantium then dump her. last opinion sounds really cruel but you got to accept that it will be meaningless shit to be with her if she keeps using H. (since your going down with her) | ||
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food
United States1951 Posts
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MC9876
Netherlands82 Posts
So I should decide to help her or leave her be and just get away from that stuff. | ||
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Astray
Canada59 Posts
If she gets addicted to it, it will screw up both you and her life. | ||
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stroggos
New Zealand1543 Posts
On August 19 2009 05:13 Ronald_McD wrote: Let's say your girlfriend of 8 months does heroin. How do you feel? How do you react? What do you do? I'm pretty angry, but I'm not entirely sure if it's justified. I don't know what to really say. It's been three or four days since and I fought with her once about it. I tried to just forget about it but it keeps coming up in the back of my mind. I can't stop, and it eats away at me. To clear a few other things up. She did it once. She smoked it, a small amount. She says she wouldn't go looking for it but if the opportunity came up she would do it again. well, from what it sounds your girlfriend is far from addiction although heroin is the 2nd most addictive drug(after normal smokes), anyway point is you can still save her! Anyways i think she needs a good beating, also tell her parents. I wouldn't leave her, would probably increase the chance of her doing it again. on the otherhand if she did heroin behind your back there's a good chance shes cheating on you. Hope this helps. | ||
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GeneralStan
United States4789 Posts
Just let her know that you aren't ready to be in a relationship with a heroin user. If she ignores that to start using it, then you break up with her. | ||
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p4ge
Canada160 Posts
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