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Ronald_McD
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
Canada807 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-08-18 20:27:24
August 18 2009 20:13 GMT
#1
Let's say your girlfriend of 8 months does heroin. How do you feel? How do you react? What do you do?

I'm pretty angry, but I'm not entirely sure if it's justified. I don't know what to really say. It's been three or four days since and I fought with her once about it. I tried to just forget about it but it keeps coming up in the back of my mind. I can't stop, and it eats away at me.

To clear a few other things up. She did it once. She smoked it, a small amount.
She says she wouldn't go looking for it but if the opportunity came up she would do it again.

FUCKING GAY LAGS
fusionsdf
Profile Blog Joined June 2006
Canada15390 Posts
August 18 2009 20:18 GMT
#2
find some way to get her into rehab. Otherwise its going to destroy her.
SKT_Best: "I actually chose Protoss because it was so hard for me to defeat Protoss as a Terran. When I first started Brood War, my main race was Terran."
Itachii
Profile Blog Joined April 2008
Poland12466 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-08-18 20:19:31
August 18 2009 20:19 GMT
#3
nvm~
La parole nous a été donnée pour déguiser notre pensée
739
Profile Blog Joined May 2009
Bearded Elder29903 Posts
August 18 2009 20:21 GMT
#4
Holy crap. Heroin? That's fucking serious bussiness.
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Rev0lution
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
United States1805 Posts
August 18 2009 20:22 GMT
#5
It really depends if she is an addict or has control over her drug use.

You really have three choices.

1) Accept her drug use and do it with her.
2) Accept her drug use and abstain from doing heroin.
3) Tell her it's either you or the heroin.
My dealer is my best friend, and we don't even chill.
StorrZerg
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
United States13919 Posts
August 18 2009 20:22 GMT
#6
1st i would steal her stash and sell it. Use the money to get her started in a rehab center. Get her counseling as well.
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decafchicken
Profile Blog Joined January 2005
United States20019 Posts
August 18 2009 20:24 GMT
#7
a) direct her to fanatacists blog
b) dump her
c) make her quit
how reasonable is it to eat off wood instead of your tummy?
FragKrag
Profile Blog Joined September 2007
United States11552 Posts
August 18 2009 20:25 GMT
#8
make her quit
*TL CJ Entusman #40* "like scissors does anything to paper except MAKE IT MORE NUMEROUS" -paper
fanatacist
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
10319 Posts
August 18 2009 20:26 GMT
#9
On August 19 2009 05:24 decafchicken wrote:
a) direct her to fanatacists blog
b) dump her
c) make her quit

LOL

GG

Choose 2 of the above imo
Peace~
Motiva
Profile Joined November 2007
United States1774 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-08-18 20:56:08
August 18 2009 20:29 GMT
#10
doesn't sound like a big deal to me... As long as she only smoked it and it was only this once... only problems w/ heroin imo are the addiction and injecting. as long as those don't arise there is no problem. imo.

This is assuming that you wouldn't have a problem w/ her smoking weed or taking a lorcet and that you find recreational use of illegal substances acceptable.

I don't mean to condone the usage of heroin, but most of the replies in this thread make it seem as if she sold her car to get the herion and then did it all and sucked the guys dick for more. She smoked it once. It's not a big deal... Herion doesn't do much more long term damage to your body than just about anything else you would smoke. What do you people really know about herion that wasn't spoon fed by a bias media? Your biggest concern should be that she doesn't get addicted, and that is all. I mean the way these people are talking if you did cocaine once you're an addict.
coltrane
Profile Blog Joined June 2008
Chile988 Posts
August 18 2009 20:32 GMT
#11
On August 19 2009 05:13 Ronald_McD wrote:
Let's say your girlfriend of 8 months does heroin. How do you feel? How do you react? What do you do?

I'm pretty angry, but I'm not entirely sure if it's justified. I don't know what to really say. It's been three or four days since and I fought with her once about it. I tried to just forget about it but it keeps coming up in the back of my mind. I can't stop, and it eats away at me.

To clear a few other things up. She did it once. She smoked it, a small amount.
She says she wouldn't go looking for it but if the opportunity came up she would do it again.



i would do it with her... heroin and then sex.
Jävla skit
Toolshed
Profile Blog Joined July 2009
337 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-08-18 20:34:40
August 18 2009 20:33 GMT
#12
Question is how much do you love her? would you accept the fact that she's takin drugs to be with her? Do you yourself take any other drugs?

If i were you I would make her choose between you and the heroin. Tell her you gonna leave her if she continues and see how she reacts. Heroin is serious bussiness, I would think about nothing else than this if she would stand in front of me. If she leaves you because of some stupid drugs than she wasn't worth it anyway. I rather would have no GF than one that does heroin.
ZeeTemplar
Profile Blog Joined October 2008
United States557 Posts
August 18 2009 20:33 GMT
#13
Get her some help and if that doesnt work then dump her. imo. You cant "make" someone quit people have to do that on their own. I wish you the best my friend.


on another note.


Jangbi storms!!!
andiCR
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
Costa Rica2273 Posts
August 18 2009 21:03 GMT
#14
why isnt there a Poll on the OP?

My advice-> heroin or you
Nightmare1795 wrote: I played a guy in bronze who said he was Japanese. That was the only game I ever dropped a nuke, which was purely coincidental.
Sadistx
Profile Blog Joined February 2009
Zimbabwe5568 Posts
August 18 2009 21:05 GMT
#15
If she did it once and only once, don't care. If it's a habit, I would have been able to tell WAY before 8 months.
foeffa
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
Belgium2115 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-08-18 21:06:00
August 18 2009 21:05 GMT
#16
If she keeps saying she might do it again then bite the bullet and present her with an ultimatum. Heroin is some serious shit, don't wanna get stuck with a druggie I imagine. ^____^
觀過斯知仁矣.
FredSanford
Profile Joined October 2008
United States70 Posts
August 18 2009 21:30 GMT
#17
On August 19 2009 05:21 crucifix wrote:
Holy crap. Heroin? That's fucking serious bussiness.



yea this sums it up heroin isn't something used casually and the people who are providing it are more likely to rob you then do anything else i say rethink life and find normal people to hang out with the chick is obviously an uneducated fool for touching it. basically snuff it out and move on distance yourself from that crowd and try to save the chick, but shes sounds stupid weed,even coke or ecstasy is something you mingle with but herion is as crucifix wrote. gl with that dude
Fontong
Profile Blog Joined December 2007
United States6454 Posts
August 18 2009 21:32 GMT
#18
On August 19 2009 06:30 FredSanford wrote:
Show nested quote +
On August 19 2009 05:21 crucifix wrote:
Holy crap. Heroin? That's fucking serious bussiness.



yea this sums it up heroin isn't something used casually and the people who are providing it are more likely to rob you then do anything else i say rethink life and find normal people to hang out with the chick is obviously an uneducated fool for touching it. basically snuff it out and move on distance yourself from that crowd and try to save the chick, but shes sounds stupid weed,even coke or ecstasy is something you mingle with but herion is as crucifix wrote. gl with that dude

izzycraft #2?

:D

On a more serious note...

Did fanatacist even do heroin? I didn't see any references to it in his blog... Perhaps I just missed it. That was a pretty long blog. This is serious business, and you need to do something about it by either getting her to stop or just breaking up with her.
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Patriot.dlk
Profile Blog Joined October 2004
Sweden5462 Posts
August 18 2009 21:42 GMT
#19
If i can't picture her nursing my babies in the future then I would start looking for something better. I can't take stuff like that at all
REDBLUEGREEN
Profile Blog Joined June 2008
Germany1903 Posts
August 19 2009 01:42 GMT
#20
i snorted H once. no biggy. wouldn't do it again though. i'd say 2 or 3 times wouldn't be dangerous but idk. ask her why she wants to do it again, because honestly the risk/benefit ratio for H sucks bad.
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