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On July 20 2009 09:24 clazziquai wrote: I don't believe love at first sight. So I voted weeks+
What does love have to do with attraction in this context?
Two totally different things.
Furthermore what does attraction actually entail here? Just like their company? Sex? Long Term?
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On July 20 2009 10:03 Ozarugold wrote: I once saw a girl fit an entire banana in her mouth without gagging.
Instant yo~
I would go bananas for her.
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Hmm.. for me its hard to explain. With my last gf I had known her since 7th grade (so for like 4 years) but I didn't like her until we actually hung out by ourselves for a few times and just had fun
The term 'like' is also hard to explain though. I mean there's plenty of girls around me I deem attractive but I don't 'like' any of them, I guess I kinda have to hang out with the person and get to know them before getting the feeling of 'liking' them
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It just depends. A lot of girls I "like" based on the second I see them because I'm just physically attracted to them. My girlfriend right now wasn't like that as much and it wasn't until I talked with her and got to know her that I became interested so it just depends I guess.
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like as in: want to have sex? instantly like as in relationship?: days/weeks
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Spenguin
Australia3316 Posts
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i have had one girl that i insta liked and it was a huge wtf moment for me. other than that it takes quite a while.
i guess it depends on the girl
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This OP fails, If you mean looks or even a specific personality, its right away of course.
If it's not the typical look or personality I like, then it can obviously take a few days or weeks to be attracted. And its just like that dumb Harry met Sally movie, men and women are not good at being friends, the sex/attraction thing always gets in the way.
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the current girl i'm dating took 23 months to realize i liked her
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Sexually attracted or Mentally attracted? For the former as soon as I've seen both sides of them and the latter as long as it takes to get to know them.
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On July 20 2009 12:02 CharlieMurphy wrote: This OP fails, If you mean looks or even a specific personality, its right away of course.
If it's not the typical look or personality I like, then it can obviously take a few days or weeks to be attracted. And its just like that dumb Harry met Sally movie, men and women are not good at being friends, the sex/attraction thing always gets in the way.
The fact that you even attempt to troll shows how pathetically you probably live your life in a run down trailer home. 10 years from now, you'll still be posting every single movie you've ever watched, baiting people to reply.
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On July 20 2009 13:36 kdog3683 wrote:Show nested quote +On July 20 2009 12:02 CharlieMurphy wrote: This OP fails, If you mean looks or even a specific personality, its right away of course.
If it's not the typical look or personality I like, then it can obviously take a few days or weeks to be attracted. And its just like that dumb Harry met Sally movie, men and women are not good at being friends, the sex/attraction thing always gets in the way. The fact that you even attempt to troll shows how pathetically you probably live your life in a run down trailer home. 10 years from now, you'll still be posting every single movie you've ever watched, baiting people to reply.
Lol.........
your reaction is just funny. Just because he points out a valid mistake in your OP (which really sux because it can be interpetted in multiple ways) you decide to bash him.
Maybe you should look up what a troll is before you call someone it.
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On July 21 2009 00:40 Marradron wrote:Show nested quote +On July 20 2009 13:36 kdog3683 wrote:On July 20 2009 12:02 CharlieMurphy wrote: This OP fails, If you mean looks or even a specific personality, its right away of course.
If it's not the typical look or personality I like, then it can obviously take a few days or weeks to be attracted. And its just like that dumb Harry met Sally movie, men and women are not good at being friends, the sex/attraction thing always gets in the way. The fact that you even attempt to troll shows how pathetically you probably live your life in a run down trailer home. 10 years from now, you'll still be posting every single movie you've ever watched, baiting people to reply. Lol......... your reaction is just funny. Just because he points out a valid mistake in your OP (which really sux because it can be interpetted in multiple ways) you decide to bash him. Maybe you should look up what a troll is before you call someone it.
maybe you should look up what charliemurphy is before you say anything i dont think you been around long enough to even use Lol.......
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On July 20 2009 10:56 Jayme wrote:Show nested quote +On July 20 2009 09:24 clazziquai wrote: I don't believe love at first sight. So I voted weeks+ What does love have to do with attraction in this context? Two totally different things. Furthermore what does attraction actually entail here? Just like their company? Sex? Long Term?
Whoops, I misread the OP lol
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
i know everything about everyone i meet within 1 minute usually
though, with girls sometimes it takes a long time for me to start liking them
because it takes time to drink enough alccy to get beer goggles LOL
but nah, i know instantly if i can like the girl, though the way she talks or her personality can obviously ruin it so i guess i never know till 5 mins like what kennigit said
though there has recently been an occasion where i was only semi attracted to a girl then i didnt see her for a year then after that year i saw her again and i was insanely attracted to her
kinda weird, maybe its cuz she started dressing sexy w/e
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
but yeah wtf do you even mean 'i wanna fuck' like?
or be my cuddle poo bear 'like' ? ???
wtf
LOL
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For me, interest is something that comes instantly or never. Once the interest is there then it takes a few days/weeks to find out if I like her; depending on how often we can see each other.
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I can being attracted to a girl at first glance, obviously, but I think I know if I'll "like her" within' an hour of talking to her.
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It really depends. For some, in an instant.. others I start off as friends then after a few weeks I realize that I like her
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