Acceptance?(Girl Blog :p) - Page 2
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zenMaster
Canada761 Posts
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ImDrizzt
Norway427 Posts
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Jemesatui
Australia94 Posts
She is no longer the white angel she once was, whether you like it or not, she is now and will continue to be a dirty slut - worthless to you and your endevours for love | ||
kethers
United States719 Posts
A woman does not lose her value just because she is no longer a virgin. | ||
Jemesatui
Australia94 Posts
On November 17 2011 14:15 kethers wrote: Virginity is over-rated. I don't know why people treat women's virginity as such a sacred thing...maybe old traditions/culture? A woman does not lose her value just because she is no longer a virgin. you havnt seen memoirs of a geisha? Their value drops significantly once they are deflowered | ||
Sebby Lebby
68 Posts
I dealt with this as well. The first woman I slept with I ended up staying with her a long time, and we were both virgins. But eventually we broke up, she slept with other people, and that drove me nuts for a while. I mean, for so long I never had to even think about how I would compare to other people, but now I had to face reality that some people she likes better than me. Also after the break up I slept with other women who weren't virgins, so I had to face the risk of comparison, it felt like being a virgin again because I had to think about, hey what if I suck at this, what if they've had better, etc.? But you know what, that's all just some stupid thoughts in your head and you can skip them, they go away instantly and don't matter, but there's a small, very small point where these thoughts present themself, and you can procrastinate facing these by having your first time with someone else's first time... but whatever, you don't need it. You didn't miss out dude, don't worry. Just have a lot of sex. | ||
ImDrizzt
Norway427 Posts
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Perseverance
Japan2800 Posts
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Perseverance
Japan2800 Posts
On November 17 2011 16:08 ImDrizzt wrote: Kinda like SC, first you have your placement, then you "get put into a league" but the good thing is, your mmr keeps increasing when you learn, practice get better, so eventually you'll get into higher and higher leagues. It's all good. I lol'd | ||
KeksX
Germany3634 Posts
And I think you're not either :3 | ||
OpticalShot
Canada6330 Posts
Basically, if you're not gunna break it, someone else is going to - it's a matter of time. On this particular girl, you missed your timing window (it certainly sounds like you had a good one) and now some other dude popped the cherry before you did. Oh well, if you really liked the girl you'd still go for her (in my honest opinion the 'V-card' shouldn't change her value to you, right?) and if you didn't, oh well, find another? Although I do somewhat share your sentiments, long ago I used to put a girl on a pedestal and I was in for a huge disappointment after. One of those moments that everyone goes through at least once. | ||
TheToast
United States4808 Posts
On November 18 2011 23:00 OpticalShot wrote: On this particular girl, you missed your timing window Optical, I think he was actually attempting to employ counter timing here. While he missed the timing window, the resources he has banked should allow him to tech a bit farther and hit a stronger timing later on, by which time her defenses will not be adequate. | ||
ImDrizzt
Norway427 Posts
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unichan
United States4223 Posts
On November 17 2011 12:10 mptj wrote: Haha I fucking love you guys, seriously do. It's like I'm talking with my internet parents, cuz my parents don't really care nor could I tell them haha. Everything you guys have said I seriously appreciate it and just for the record, I plan to be her friend, just not really text her and kinda distance myself, just because I'm the person to get attached to the goldfish. I remember having my guinea pig die of cancer and like first grade and balled my eyes out R.I.P. Rose <3 haha. And for the above poster, I hadn't told her, but she's damn well aware I know because her best friend tells her everything and I told her best friend. My own crafty elusive way of telling her, but being a bitch about it. But like I said guys I'm just here to write and say how I feel more than anything, this is just like the safest place on the nets for me to do it I feel. its ok i had a pet shrimp once i ate all his friends and i cried when he was dead in his bowl of tap water the next day | ||
Servius_Fulvius
United States947 Posts
There is one positive to the situation: next time you like someone that much you'll ask them out! Worked for me, others, and it will for you! | ||
MysteryMeat1
United States3289 Posts
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OpticalShot
Canada6330 Posts
On November 19 2011 05:37 MysteryMeat1 wrote: You should hit it off with her best friend. You get along and she tells u secrets I fully support this message. That is a brilliant idea. | ||
RvB
Netherlands6185 Posts
On November 19 2011 05:38 OpticalShot wrote: I fully support this message. That is a brilliant idea. Like this you can lose your own V-card! | ||
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