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So I know that talking about anything regarding evolution in this thread is the equivalent of sticking your hand into a stack of hot sharp rusted jagged poison dripping nails to find a piece of hay, but what if homosexuality was a biological or ecological method meant for the human race to not overproduce itself? Homosexuals are more likely to adopt aren't they?(though there are other methods) I mean if one couple out of 10 in the whole world was dedicated to either not adding more children to the stack or even raising an orphaned child instead wouldn't that allow humans to more easily keep there society at a perfect population and societal peak?
Yeah i know it sounds stupid 100 percent stupid, but wouldn't it be funny if it turned out that the recent hard fought acceptance of homosexuality in society was a totally natural and even favourable change? Now I say the acceptance of homosexuals, because there have been gays throughout time, it really sucks for them because they had to pretty much wait an eternity for humanity to somewhat do away with its prejudices, but maybe thats just it! Perhaps the acceptance has only come along now I imagine because we have come to a point where we are a) socially advanced enough to accept different life styles, b) large enough a spieces to require some degree of population control.
In the animal kingdom there are factors that begin to limit spieces at the hight of their power(like the cold of winter or a lack of food) these things aren't so much built into animals but more so just an inevitable result of their rise in power, then the cycle begins anew when they spieces has fallen low enough to begin rising again. Maybe were the same, perhaps the acceptance of homosexuals(or even acceptance in general) is an inevitability in any society that continues to develop. Only thing is this factor of acceptance would probably help our civilization remain at its constant peak rather than cause a significant drop in population.
It would almost be as if acceptance of homosexuality would be a bench mark of a society that has reached a new horizon.
So do i win the crackpot theory award for this thread now?
(If any of this has been said already I apologize for being a broken record, also I if I have cause anyone offence I am truly truly sorry, people are people, if we love a person enough to share ourselves with them what does gender matter? Also am I spelling spieces wrong?)
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On September 06 2011 08:16 gumshoe wrote: It would almost be as if acceptance of homosexuality would be a bench mark of a society that has reached a new horizon. Without approving or negating your theory, I do believe it is. Proof is, we haven't reached it yet In my point of view, it's similar to the acceptance of black people... But I hope our society is better than a few centuries ago, so that it will be faster and, foremost, smoother. Also I think it's spelled "species"
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On September 06 2011 08:37 Nasradime wrote:Show nested quote +On September 06 2011 08:16 gumshoe wrote: It would almost be as if acceptance of homosexuality would be a bench mark of a society that has reached a new horizon. Without approving or negating your theory, I do believe it is. Proof is, we haven't reached it yet  In my point of view, it's similar to the acceptance of black people... But I hope our society is better than a few centuries ago, so that it will be faster and, foremost, smoother. Also I think it's spelled "species" 
Thanks for spell info! To confirm the theory is as crazy as crazy gets, I just like the potential irony of Homosexuality being not only natural a change but also a beneficial inevitability. It would make humanity look like the stupid kid that wont take its rainbow flavoured medicine.
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On September 06 2011 07:55 TotalNightmare wrote: Well a question that always cracked me up but I never really found somone who I could ask is now breaking out: Do really that many girls tend to have a crush on a gay guy rather than on a straight guy?
Sometimes girlfriends of gay men (faghags) will have an infatuation with their gay friend. It will usually be a specific aspect of them that they find exciting .e.g. maybe he is very witty and funny. In a sense of a man and a woman walking into a bar and her hitting on him without knowing he is gay - there would be no point to him perusing, so I don't imagine any such crushes getting very far.
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On September 06 2011 08:43 gumshoe wrote:It would make humanity look like the stupid kid that wont take its rainbow flavoured medicine.
Nice one :D
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Quick question for the gay/bisexual guys on here about going to the gym.
I'm moving away from home and eager to join a gym in doing so but really I'm nervous about going. Mainly because with all the sweaty, young ( it is a University Gym ) naked guys showering, I'm worried I'd get "excited" if you know what I mean. Especially since I'm moving away from my girlfriend and won't be getting any action : / Getting a boner whilst in my gym shorts would be really awkward in a room full of naked straight guys. The thing is, sporty guys is like my biggest turn on, along with women in yoga pants so the gym doesn't seem like a good place for me to be xD
I'd just "go and see what happens" but I'm so worried.
Any advice or experiences dealing with this?
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I am not gay but I'veve seen sexy young guys working at Nofrills here in Toronto, and, if i could i would sleep with them. I mean if the situation were right.
however, i cant imagine the situation where i would come into contact with some cute guys that arent very masculine and that are gay at the same time. ill say this tho, i think a lot of men are not against gay flings when they feel like it, like me, but cant imagine going thru life with that as my identity!
sometimes i daydream about sucking a guy off and drinking his hot stuff, then him doing the same for me, and it gets me really hard. but those are only dreams that no one will ever know about IRL.
My friends family and evryone would not like it and its not an option because of the backlash that i would get. so yah, flingz good, lifestyle no
to the guy above me, dont go to the gym! ive had so many brow raising moments with only guys around and i got a huge boner in my paants sticking out liek a banana. I cant imagine what it would be liek in the shower!
on second thought, anyone up for a fling?
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Wear a thong under boxerbriefs. I danced with hot guys on the team and my inevitable hard ons were barely noticeable.
And a fling sounds pretty good right now
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On September 06 2011 09:51 drshdwpuppet wrote: Wear a thong under boxerbriefs.
Crazy advice xD Might choose something else other than a thong but I guess the principle is cool. Guess I should just totally avoid the showers > . >.
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On September 06 2011 09:18 Kh0nsu wrote: Quick question for the gay/bisexual guys on here about going to the gym.
I'm moving away from home and eager to join a gym in doing so but really I'm nervous about going. Mainly because with all the sweaty, young ( it is a University Gym ) naked guys showering, I'm worried I'd get "excited" if you know what I mean. Especially since I'm moving away from my girlfriend and won't be getting any action : / Getting a boner whilst in my gym shorts would be really awkward in a room full of naked straight guys. The thing is, sporty guys is like my biggest turn on, along with women in yoga pants so the gym doesn't seem like a good place for me to be xD
I'd just "go and see what happens" but I'm so worried.
Any advice or experiences dealing with this? whats awkward in a room full of naked straight guys is if youre the only one wearing shorts?
learn to control your boners, brah!
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On September 06 2011 09:18 Kh0nsu wrote: Quick question for the gay/bisexual guys on here about going to the gym.
I'm moving away from home and eager to join a gym in doing so but really I'm nervous about going. Mainly because with all the sweaty, young ( it is a University Gym ) naked guys showering, I'm worried I'd get "excited" if you know what I mean. Especially since I'm moving away from my girlfriend and won't be getting any action : / Getting a boner whilst in my gym shorts would be really awkward in a room full of naked straight guys. The thing is, sporty guys is like my biggest turn on, along with women in yoga pants so the gym doesn't seem like a good place for me to be xD
I'd just "go and see what happens" but I'm so worried.
Any advice or experiences dealing with this?
Just think about other stuff and don't look at anybody. Are you going to be in a situation where you have to shower there? You can also go off-hours when there will be fewer people there .
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On September 06 2011 09:22 ene13 wrote:I am not gay but I'veve seen sexy young guys working at Nofrills here in Toronto, and, if i could i would sleep with them. I mean if the situation were right. however, i cant imagine the situation where i would come into contact with some cute guys that arent very masculine and that are gay at the same time. ill say this tho, i think a lot of men are not against gay flings when they feel like it, like me, but cant imagine going thru life with that as my identity! sometimes i daydream about sucking a guy off and drinking his hot stuff, then him doing the same for me, and it gets me really hard. but those are only dreams that no one will ever know about IRL. My friends family and evryone would not like it and its not an option because of the backlash that i would get. so yah, flingz good, lifestyle no to the guy above me, dont go to the gym! ive had so many brow raising moments with only guys around and i got a huge boner in my paants sticking out liek a banana. I cant imagine what it would be liek in the shower! on second thought, anyone up for a fling?  Haha, I feel the same way, but I am gay. For some reason, I really like girls with both masculine and feminine features. Sadly, they are usually lesbian.
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On September 06 2011 09:18 Kh0nsu wrote: Quick question for the gay/bisexual guys on here about going to the gym.
I'm moving away from home and eager to join a gym in doing so but really I'm nervous about going. Mainly because with all the sweaty, young ( it is a University Gym ) naked guys showering, I'm worried I'd get "excited" if you know what I mean. Especially since I'm moving away from my girlfriend and won't be getting any action : / Getting a boner whilst in my gym shorts would be really awkward in a room full of naked straight guys. The thing is, sporty guys is like my biggest turn on, along with women in yoga pants so the gym doesn't seem like a good place for me to be xD
I'd just "go and see what happens" but I'm so worried.
Any advice or experiences dealing with this?
My gym has crazy hot guys but when I shower there I am usually so exhausted that sex is the last thing on my mind heh. When i first get there tho... hoo boy lol.
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Thanks a lot for the advice guys. I'll just go in late at night, avoid the showers, focus on exercising and see how it goes.
TL so awesome, can't believe I told a bunch of strangers my biggest secret over the internet and didn't even care. Only ever had the balls to tell my girlfriend in real life.
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I dont usually like the guys in the gym unless theyre slim... something about a man stronger than me that turns me off... i would like to dominate a slim blond cutie guy from behind while strokin him at the same time and kissing his neck softly. ' you know what? that is my dream.....
sad how sometimes dreams are so far away
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On September 06 2011 11:44 ene13 wrote:I dont usually like the guys in the gym unless theyre slim... something about a man stronger than me that turns me off... i would like to dominate a slim blond cutie guy from behind while strokin him at the same time and kissing his neck softly. ' you know what? that is my dream..... sad how sometimes dreams are so far away 
Just go for it man. Life is for living.
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ROFL, this thread always gives me good laffs!
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On September 06 2011 10:29 Kh0nsu wrote:Show nested quote +On September 06 2011 09:51 drshdwpuppet wrote: Wear a thong under boxerbriefs. Crazy advice xD Might choose something else other than a thong but I guess the principle is cool. Guess I should just totally avoid the showers > . >.
the thong is the important part, keeps everything in place and no one will see it unless you completely disrobe.
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Sometimes, I wonder if I'm weird. I have no experience with dating, or sexual encounters, and only a little bit of harmless flirting (which I'm generally oblivious too till later). Spontaneous arousal has never been something I have experienced. I generally just look at someone and go 'wow, he is really cute' and so far that has been the end of it. Sometimes I'll get them stuck in my head for a couple of days (like this Asian guy who sold me jeans at Guess - I was so embarrassed/shy I didn't even notice how loose they are till the next day) but that is it.
I chalk it up to still being only 18, and really only figuring things out still. When I am around really good looking guys though I generally just drop all my self-confidence on the ground, and my mind goes all scrambled and I just end up smiling a lot. I use to wonder if I am actually gay, which has been my biggest hurdle so far, because I don't always get that little tickle down there but in the end guys are the apple of my eye. I don't look for girls, I look for the cutest guy (generally Asian) in the room.
So I guess I'll ask a question, am I odd for looking at a guy and not being, I guess, 'horny'. I'm attracted, but I'm not aroused to say the least. Even in some condemning situations (including partial nudity).
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On September 06 2011 14:05 GDR wrote: Sometimes, I wonder if I'm weird. I have no experience with dating, or sexual encounters, and only a little bit of harmless flirting (which I'm generally oblivious too till later). Spontaneous arousal has never been something I have experienced. I generally just look at someone and go 'wow, he is really cute' and so far that has been the end of it. Sometimes I'll get them stuck in my head for a couple of days (like this Asian guy who sold me jeans at Guess - I was so embarrassed/shy I didn't even notice how loose they are till the next day) but that is it.
I chalk it up to still being only 18, and really only figuring things out still. When I am around really good looking guys though I generally just drop all my self-confidence on the ground, and my mind goes all scrambled and I just end up smiling a lot. I use to wonder if I am actually gay, which has been my biggest hurdle so far, because I don't always get that little tickle down there but in the end guys are the apple of my eye. I don't look for girls, I look for the cutest guy (generally Asian) in the room.
So I guess I'll ask a question, am I odd for looking at a guy and not being, I guess, 'horny'. I'm attracted, but I'm not aroused to say the least. Even in some condemning situations (including partial nudity).
No, you're just not like the typical gays who drool over the thought of sex. Consider yourself a special snow flake!
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