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Don't post in this thread to say "gay gamers are like everyone else, why do they have a special thread?" It is something that has been posted numerous times, and this isn't the place for that discussion.
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On September 06 2011 06:26 Roe wrote:Show nested quote +On September 06 2011 06:23 dementrio wrote: When I was a teenager I worked for several summers in an agricultural business. Cows, sheeps and goats all mount each other when they are ovulating. My boss explained to me what that behaviour meant and one of my tasks was to look out for it (it helps to plan fertilizations and to detect pregnancies). Obviously he also had a very strong opinion on how unnatural homosexuality is. I don't get the point of this post...Why do we care about some farmer you worked for?
It's just proof that its unnatural!! BOOYAH!!
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Just a thought on the drug debate:
while I do agree that feelings of exclusion and the like do tend themselves towards drugs, it may also be true that as we've broken one norm/taboo (sexuality) we find it easier to break another (drugs).
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I'm sorry how dose this even have to do with anything do you really need to make a form like this, i don't get it
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On September 06 2011 06:31 drshdwpuppet wrote:Show nested quote +On September 06 2011 06:03 yarkO wrote: Are you saying I'm wrong?
As much as being homosexual is a lifestyle choice, it is undeniably unnatural. If it was meant to be that way, there would be some kind of benefit to the species (beyond satisfying emotional needs to the person).
While I am personally against it, I treat homosexuality the same way as I do religion: Do what you want in private, but don't put it out there in my face. (edit) There are plenty of normal looking people who are regular parts of society, and you'd never know that they are gay. Taking on a fake intonation to your voice, and acting like a prissy little girl, wearing girl clothes and acting "fab" are completely unnescessary. If you want to prove to homosexuals that they can succeed and be normal, then show them that you don't need to act all flamboyant and show-boaty about their sexual preference. (/edit)
People seek acceptance in almost all facets of (social) life, of course you want to find like-minded people who can share and understand with you. I just think it's messed up (on many levels) that you have to form these posses of social abstracts in order to feel that you belong. Intolerance levels have reached critical captain, troll feeding urge almost insatiable. yes, you are wrong, read backwards for why. as for the rest of your post, you imply that homosexuals are not normal people, you present heteronormative behavior as the only acceptable behavior. Homosexuals have proven they can succeed and if not being myself, if not enjoying life and accepting myself for who I am is normal, I want nothing to do with it at all. I view ignorance and homophobia the same way I do as religion. Do what you want, think what you want in private, but don't ask me to understand or sit by and take baseless insults born of hatred, inbred intolerance and centuries old stupidity.
Sorry dude, I read backwards and none of the posts did anything to make me feel like I was wrong about that. Gay lions don't make more lions, so it's safe to assume that they wouldn't be the top of the food chain for very long if they can't reproduce.
Homosexuals CAN be normal people is what I'm saying. You're ultra-defensive stance on the subject is almost as 'intolerable' as those who blindly hate. I have gay friends, for what it's worth, and none of them make me feel uncomfortable about it.
I don't like to see two straight people being overly affectionate in public, so it's not like this is just homophobia. You can be a normal, functional member of society WITHOUT painting yourself up as some over-the-top personality BECAUSE you are gay.
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On September 06 2011 06:40 yarkO wrote:Show nested quote +On September 06 2011 06:31 drshdwpuppet wrote:On September 06 2011 06:03 yarkO wrote: Are you saying I'm wrong?
As much as being homosexual is a lifestyle choice, it is undeniably unnatural. If it was meant to be that way, there would be some kind of benefit to the species (beyond satisfying emotional needs to the person).
While I am personally against it, I treat homosexuality the same way as I do religion: Do what you want in private, but don't put it out there in my face. (edit) There are plenty of normal looking people who are regular parts of society, and you'd never know that they are gay. Taking on a fake intonation to your voice, and acting like a prissy little girl, wearing girl clothes and acting "fab" are completely unnescessary. If you want to prove to homosexuals that they can succeed and be normal, then show them that you don't need to act all flamboyant and show-boaty about their sexual preference. (/edit)
People seek acceptance in almost all facets of (social) life, of course you want to find like-minded people who can share and understand with you. I just think it's messed up (on many levels) that you have to form these posses of social abstracts in order to feel that you belong. Intolerance levels have reached critical captain, troll feeding urge almost insatiable. yes, you are wrong, read backwards for why. as for the rest of your post, you imply that homosexuals are not normal people, you present heteronormative behavior as the only acceptable behavior. Homosexuals have proven they can succeed and if not being myself, if not enjoying life and accepting myself for who I am is normal, I want nothing to do with it at all. I view ignorance and homophobia the same way I do as religion. Do what you want, think what you want in private, but don't ask me to understand or sit by and take baseless insults born of hatred, inbred intolerance and centuries old stupidity. Sorry dude, I read backwards and none of the posts did anything to make me feel like I was wrong about that. Gay lions don't make more lions, so it's safe to assume that they wouldn't be the top of the food chain for very long if they can't reproduce.
But wht point are you trying to make, there are enough hetro people along with gay people or lions for that matter to keep the species going.
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On September 06 2011 06:42 Zaros wrote:Show nested quote +On September 06 2011 06:40 yarkO wrote:On September 06 2011 06:31 drshdwpuppet wrote:On September 06 2011 06:03 yarkO wrote: Are you saying I'm wrong?
As much as being homosexual is a lifestyle choice, it is undeniably unnatural. If it was meant to be that way, there would be some kind of benefit to the species (beyond satisfying emotional needs to the person).
While I am personally against it, I treat homosexuality the same way as I do religion: Do what you want in private, but don't put it out there in my face. (edit) There are plenty of normal looking people who are regular parts of society, and you'd never know that they are gay. Taking on a fake intonation to your voice, and acting like a prissy little girl, wearing girl clothes and acting "fab" are completely unnescessary. If you want to prove to homosexuals that they can succeed and be normal, then show them that you don't need to act all flamboyant and show-boaty about their sexual preference. (/edit)
People seek acceptance in almost all facets of (social) life, of course you want to find like-minded people who can share and understand with you. I just think it's messed up (on many levels) that you have to form these posses of social abstracts in order to feel that you belong. Intolerance levels have reached critical captain, troll feeding urge almost insatiable. yes, you are wrong, read backwards for why. as for the rest of your post, you imply that homosexuals are not normal people, you present heteronormative behavior as the only acceptable behavior. Homosexuals have proven they can succeed and if not being myself, if not enjoying life and accepting myself for who I am is normal, I want nothing to do with it at all. I view ignorance and homophobia the same way I do as religion. Do what you want, think what you want in private, but don't ask me to understand or sit by and take baseless insults born of hatred, inbred intolerance and centuries old stupidity. Sorry dude, I read backwards and none of the posts did anything to make me feel like I was wrong about that. Gay lions don't make more lions, so it's safe to assume that they wouldn't be the top of the food chain for very long if they can't reproduce. But wht point are you trying to make, there are enough hetro people along with gay people or lions for that matter to keep the species going.
Apparently he is stuck in the paradigm: Natural sex is reproductive sex. Dolphins are known to have gay sex, which obviously isn't reproductive but definitely "natural" (yeah, natural is derived from the word nature)
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On September 06 2011 06:40 yarkO wrote:Show nested quote +On September 06 2011 06:31 drshdwpuppet wrote:On September 06 2011 06:03 yarkO wrote: Are you saying I'm wrong?
As much as being homosexual is a lifestyle choice, it is undeniably unnatural. If it was meant to be that way, there would be some kind of benefit to the species (beyond satisfying emotional needs to the person).
While I am personally against it, I treat homosexuality the same way as I do religion: Do what you want in private, but don't put it out there in my face. (edit) There are plenty of normal looking people who are regular parts of society, and you'd never know that they are gay. Taking on a fake intonation to your voice, and acting like a prissy little girl, wearing girl clothes and acting "fab" are completely unnescessary. If you want to prove to homosexuals that they can succeed and be normal, then show them that you don't need to act all flamboyant and show-boaty about their sexual preference. (/edit)
People seek acceptance in almost all facets of (social) life, of course you want to find like-minded people who can share and understand with you. I just think it's messed up (on many levels) that you have to form these posses of social abstracts in order to feel that you belong. Intolerance levels have reached critical captain, troll feeding urge almost insatiable. yes, you are wrong, read backwards for why. as for the rest of your post, you imply that homosexuals are not normal people, you present heteronormative behavior as the only acceptable behavior. Homosexuals have proven they can succeed and if not being myself, if not enjoying life and accepting myself for who I am is normal, I want nothing to do with it at all. I view ignorance and homophobia the same way I do as religion. Do what you want, think what you want in private, but don't ask me to understand or sit by and take baseless insults born of hatred, inbred intolerance and centuries old stupidity. Sorry dude, I read backwards and none of the posts did anything to make me feel like I was wrong about that. Gay lions don't make more lions, so it's safe to assume that they wouldn't be the top of the food chain for very long if they can't reproduce. Homosexuals CAN be normal people is what I'm saying. You're ultra-defensive stance on the subject is almost as 'intolerable' as those who blindly hate. I have gay friends, for what it's worth, and none of them make me feel uncomfortable about it. I don't like to see two straight people being overly affectionate in public, so it's not like this is just homophobia. You can be a normal, functional member of society WITHOUT painting yourself up as some over-the-top personality BECAUSE you are gay.
First, the reading backwards part. And these are just /my/ posts on the topic, there are plenty of other great ones.
On July 13 2011 06:09 drshdwpuppet wrote: There are really a couple different evolutionary theories that I have heard and seem to have any sort of grounding to them scientifically, but they are at the end of the day mostly speculation. Homosexuality seems to be directly poor for evolutionary advantages, at least if you only have a cursory, high school biology knowledge of evolution (a complex and interesting field of study where you could learn something new about it every day all the way to a phd if you wanted). Other things that prevent an individual to reproduce (rapid onset illnesses that destroy ability to reproduce or that kill early) such as cystic fibrosis are extremely rare. Cystic fibrosis is my example because it is so common, effecting about 1 in 2000 births in Caucasian populations. Compare this to the 5-10% estimate of homosexuality (and the fact that human sexuality appears to be in a spectrum rather than a black and white ordeal) and the only logical, evolutionary conclusion is that homosexuality must positively improve the population's total chance of reproductive success or it would have been selected against a long time ago. (anything affecting 1 in 20 male births is extremely common biologically and so cannot really be hand waved away with 'evolution takes time'. it has had time.)
There are a couple good ways to explain how this might be possible. My personal favorite is the "grandmother theory" that states that gay males increase kin selection (competitive selection of your family) by offering more adults to care for children. In a world where death came all too early, an extra adult increased the chances of living and taking care of the young.
There is also evidence in animal species that male homosexuality causes a mating male shortage, allowing for females to mate with several different males and raise the young with their "gay best friend" as it were.
Another theory (that I feel doesn't adequately explain the spectrum of human sexuality well) is that the same genes that cause male homosexuality may increase fertility in women or offer a similar evolutionary advantage. You see this happen with certain genetic diseases like sickle-cell anaemia (which reduces the severity of malaria, which is more likely to kill faster than anaemia, allowing reproduction).
There are a lot of ways that homosexuality might be advantageous, but those are all I remember because my biology tutor was too cute for me to focus.
and of course, what I consider to be the best post on this topic in the thread
+ Show Spoiler +On July 14 2011 12:28 Masamune wrote:+ Show Spoiler +On July 13 2011 06:52 Savern101 wrote:Show nested quote +On July 13 2011 06:09 drshdwpuppet wrote:On July 13 2011 05:34 Savern101 wrote:On July 13 2011 04:57 Bengui wrote: To the genetics crowd : has anyone ever heard of a study investigating the possibility of homosexuality being a natural mechanism to increase the ratio of parents to children ? Because the humans as a specie focus on having a low number of children and having all of them reaching puberty (as opposed to some species of fishes by example, who lay thousands of eggs hoping that a couple of them will reach adult state), and because it takes so long for human children to mature, it might be logical to think that having a little more adults taking care of a little less children could be an evolutionary advantage in the long run. Unfortunately its difficult to describe homosexuality positively in evolutionary terms as its basically an evolutionary cul-de-sac. If the entire human race were to become gay, it would end pretty quickly. Unless we evolved asexual reproduction or some other form of procreation. There are a lot of ways that homosexuality might be advantageous, but those are all I remember because my biology tutor was too cute for me to focus. I'm not hugely convinced by those arguments. (I'm replying to your whole post btw, it was just pretty big) The evolutionary reason for sexuality is to encourage reproduction, therefore preserving the species/genome. If you code for a sexual preference that prevents reproduction, as I said before, its a dead end for that person's genes (in general). Its very difficult to compare something like CF (with a very well understood genetic aetiology (mutation in the CFTR protein) to homosexuality which has the murkiest of genetic basis. A major argument against a genetic basis to homosexuality is of course, the vastly reduced chance of reproduction, thus obliteration of genetic continuity to pass on any "Gay" gene. Thats simplifying allele expression and such though. Prevalence of Homosexuality is an near impossible statistic to calculate accurately due to all the confounders. In the UK, the office of National Statistics has a figure of 1.5%. Who knows? I personally feel 5-10% is quite a large overestimate. Also I'm not particularly sold by the "Grandmother" argument. In the rest of the world, in species with high infant mortality, you see increased reproductive rates as a protective measure. In our own race, places like Africa (I've been to Uganda myself to talked to people about this subject) You have people having large numbers of children (10+ is not unusual). Why? For their own preservation. The children will work at a young age, help support them, and look after the parents and their other siblings. This is similar to the Grandmother model, but I fail to see the need for an extra adult to be gay to help look after the children. The idea that genes associated with homosexuality might offer an evolutionary advantage is difficult to support with basic evolutionary theory. If anything, as someone mentioned before, traits/genes associated with homosexuality should be weaknesses, disadvantages etc. as they would have a much reduced chance of transmission to the next generation. Against this is the fact that there are examples to the opposite. Huntingdon's in women is suggested to increase libido/fecundity, making it more likely for the genes to be passed on before the disease is symptomatic. Not really an advantage. CF is a great example of a horrific disease self-limiting by reducing fertility in its sufferers. This is just looking at it from a purely evolutionary/genetic standpoint. When it comes to sexuality there is a myriad of psychological/sociological factors that complicate it pretty heavily. Are you a medic/doctor btw? Your quote suggests so. I'm a medical student myself, 3rd year. I fucking hate genetics in general though. Yes, I’d hate genetics as well if I couldn’t grasp it... First of all, his quote doesn’t suggest him being a medic/doctor at all; it was just an excuse for you to state that you were in medical school, as if stamping a seal of authority on your post...which is actually quite embarrassing because if my doctor pretended to be so informed on a subject like genetics and evolution (so integral to the field of biology) when he really had no inkling on the subject, I’d probably find myself second guessing his medical advise as well. Then again, many doctors are clueless about these fields because it’s not essential to the practice of medicine (even though medicine is heavily based upon it) so I guess another one bites the dust. Anyway, let’s break down your post and point out the many flaws in it. Show nested quote + The evolutionary reason for sexuality is to encourage reproduction, therefore preserving the species/genome. . Actually, it’s still somewhat debateable as to why many organisms switched from asexuality to sexuality, factoring in all the costs associated with the latter, but the strongest theory as to why it occurred was definitely not to encourage reproduction; it was most likely to increase genetic variation in a dynamic and changing environment (which many multicellular organisms occur in), allowing evolution to work faster on these sexual organisms. Furthermore, if you think about it for a second, you would realize that sexuality would go against preserving one’s own genome as it causes you to pass on only half of it to your progeny... Show nested quote +If you code for a sexual preference that prevents reproduction, as I said before, its a dead end for that person's genes (in general). You may use the “in general” part of this quote as a cop-out for your misunderstanding, but given the nature of your post, I’d imagine you wouldn’t know how so. An organism being incapable of reproduction in no way means that their genes have reached a “dead end”. The answer lies in Hamilton’s Inclusive Fitness Theory (which Darwinian evolution is a subset of). To put it in layman terms, if I happened to die in a freak accident today, all my genes could theoretically still be passed on to the next generation due to having biological siblings who share DNA (and therefore genes) with me. This concept is the basis of eusociality in insects, common among many species of the order Hymenoptera. For those who are scratching their head at this last sentence, many of you have probably seen a wasp hive before of which it is inhabited by usually one queen and workers/soldiers. Well, it so happens that the workers in a colony are generally sterile (extreme but common), forgoing their own reproduction in favour of the gyne who in most cases is their mother. Like homosexuality, this behaviour remained elusive for many biologists prior to Hamilton’s ground breaking work (including Darwin, who considered eusociality as being fatal to his theory of evolution by natural selection) because why would an organism give up its own reproductive success in favour of its sibling? To make this short, many eusocial species (though not all) are generally haplodiploid, so sister workers are more related to each other than they would be to their own son or daughter (0.75 vs. 0.5), thus making sense why they would help take care of their supersisters in favour of their own offspring (the genetics behind this would take another two paragraphs to read so if you’re interested pm me, but I’m losing readers at this point so just take my word for it). Thus, like kin selection can be attributed to eusocial species, it can also be used to explain homosexuality in humans (I’ll get to that later). Show nested quote +Its very difficult to compare something like CF (with a very well understood genetic aetiology (mutation in the CFTR protein) to homosexuality which has the murkiest of genetic basis. A major argument against a genetic basis to homosexuality is of course, the vastly reduced chance of reproduction, thus obliteration of genetic continuity to pass on any "Gay" gene. Thats simplifying allele expression and such though. I’m not sure if you realize this but CF is a mendelian inherited trait while homosexuality most likely is a quantitative trait so of course the former would be much easier to detect and understand. Furthermore, if the genetic basis of homosexuality is murky, so is that of intelligence as both are complex inherited traits that have not had a gene identified for either. The theory behind their existence is there but the technology (lack of resolution in detecting biological factors associated with aforementioned traits) is still lagging behind. But we don’t question the idea that smarter parents will tend to have smarter children, despite the lack of proof for the existence of a gene for intelligence so why the fuss with homosexuality? Both traits and twin studies already prove the underling biological component in both (if requested I’ll search them up and post the abstracts here) so perhaps people should revise their perspective on the situation. And I have no idea why you would even mention allele expression when right before that you mention homosexuality being linked to a “vastly reduced chance of reproduction”. If you were right and there were no continuity in a gay gene’s lineage, why even mention allele expression to begin with? Do you even know what allele expression entails? Show nested quote +Prevalence of Homosexuality is an near impossible statistic to calculate accurately due to all the confounders. In the UK, the office of National Statistics has a figure of 1.5%. Who knows? I personally feel 5-10% is quite a large overestimate. Recent studies generally suggest a prevalence rate of between 2-5% in modern Western populations, but as you have conceded, there are many factors that can confound an accurate statistic. For every gay that is open and out, how many are closeted? In some countries you can receive the death penalty for being gay and Western society—although a lot more tolerant nowadays—still has a far way to go before gays even have a neutral portrayal. With that in mind, these recent estimates can at best tell you only a conservative estimate of the prevalence of homosexuality in humans, which cannot be explained by spontaneous mutation rates, but must persist due to biological factors conferring some kind of potential fitness benefit. Show nested quote + Also I'm not particularly sold by the "Grandmother" argument. In the rest of the world, in species with high infant mortality, you see increased reproductive rates as a protective measure. In our own race, places like Africa (I've been to Uganda myself to talked to people about this subject) You have people having large numbers of children (10+ is not unusual). Why? For their own preservation. The children will work at a young age, help support them, and look after the parents and their other siblings. This is similar to the Grandmother model, but I fail to see the need for an extra adult to be gay to help look after the children. Having more adults per children leads to greater survivorship of the latter and if these children harbour a gay gene that is not “active”, can further lead to a larger propagation of the gene. Remember (not sure if it’s even in your memory to begin with...) but the unit of selection is the gene, not the individual or the group. Show nested quote +The idea that genes associated with homosexuality might offer an evolutionary advantage is difficult to support with basic evolutionary theory. If anything, as someone mentioned before, traits/genes associated with homosexuality should be weaknesses, disadvantages etc. as they would have a much reduced chance of transmission to the next generation. Against this is the fact that there are examples to the opposite. Huntingdon's in women is suggested to increase libido/fecundity, making it more likely for the genes to be passed on before the disease is symptomatic. Not really an advantage. CF is a great example of a horrific disease self-limiting by reducing fertility in its sufferers. Once again, you demonstrate your complete lack of understanding of evolution and genetics with this excerpt. Although one’s direct fitness would be greatly reduced due to homosexuality, the same fate would not necessarily apply to their indirect fitness, and the scientific literature supports this perspective. Your example of Huntington’s disease and its effect of an increased libido/fecundity in females actually parallels what is thought to occur with homosexuality—and this is an advantage from the perspective of the gene for these traits. You need to realize that that’s all that really matters when it comes to evolution. A gene doesn’t care about its bearer but about itself only. If it can increase its propagation at the expense of other genes, then such a scenario is likely to occur. In either case, evolution can explain these examples that you list. With Huntington’s disease, if I’m not mistaken, the age of onset is generally in adulthood and is a recessive disorder. Thus, people still tend to have kids without knowing they could be carriers of the disease. Furthermore, recessive mutations are hard to weed out of populations because they can hide in heterozygotes, and if it confers an increase in libido/fecundity, could also be classified as a balanced polymorphism (provided that the effect is still present in heteros). With Cystic Fibrosis, it may be detrimental to be homozygous for the disorder-causing alleles but if you are heterozygous for them, then you can generally live a normal life and also be generally immune from cholera and other diarrheal illnesses. Thus, balanced polymorphism can also explain this disorder's prevalence in the population. With regards to homosexuality, I found this post in my history (didn’t even realize it was within this same thread as well...I know there are more in other threads scattered on the forum but I guess this proves you didn’t at least read through this one) which explains the evolutionary reason behind homosexuality: Show nested quote +On August 30 2010 07:56 Masamune wrote:On August 30 2010 07:00 Apexplayer wrote:On August 30 2010 06:29 Danger_Duck wrote:On August 30 2010 06:24 Apexplayer wrote: This is just an arbitrary thought that I was kinda curious about.
Let's assume that being gay is genetic.
If that is true then isn't it a "disorder"(in the reproductive sense) that is worse than having a mental illness or most other genetic diseases?
The more open people are about being gay, the faster the whole idea of being gay will be a thing of the past and in some obscure section of the history book. Simply because it's something that cannot be passed on to the next generation because of the lack of a next generation.
Before you talk about genetics, study genetics first. There's something called recessive traits. That's not to say it's definitely genetic, it's just that such an argument is invalid. The only thing you could say is that the gene (if there is one) is not dominant I have studied genetics, thanks for the needless flame. If you studied genetics you would know that there isn't only recessive and dominant genes. The majority of gay people will tell you that they believe their sexuality is genetic, and people are finding evidence for this constantly. Maybe you have heard of the choice vs genes controversy? Aside from the flame. It is, reproductively, and unwanted trait which does cause the % of the trait in the population to diminish over time, recessive, dominant, co-dominant or not. If you have studied genetics, it wasn't very well. Anyone who studies genetics seriously will know that evolution goes hand-in-hand with it (and everything else in biology) and that's where your post is flawed. I'm guessing you believe it's a choice or else it would have dwindled away by now? Well make sure to read my post because I'm starting to sound like a broken record. Like I mentioned earlier, just because you can't directly reproduce does not mean that your genes are forever barred from the next generation--your relatives can pass on your genes for you as well. Homosexuality can be seen as an alternate mechanism to evolution (albeit less frequent) in that it adheres to kin selection. From the wikipedia entry on it: Kin selection refers to apparent strategies in evolution that favor the reproductive success of an organism's relatives, even at a cost to their own survival and/or reproduction. The classic example is a eusocial insect colony, in which sterile females act as workers to assist their mother in the production of additional offspring. Switch sterile females for voluntarily sterile brothers and mother to sisters in that last sentence and voila! The case of homosexuality makes a little more sense. If I had to classify homosexuality, I'd say that it acts similarly to an outlaw gene in that it jeopardizes the reproduction of other genes in favour of itself. I say this because there have been studies done where they have found that female relatives of gay males tend to be more fecund than females not known to have any gay relatives. If I had to make a guess, I'd say that under the right environmental conditions, males with the gay gene have a great chance of becoming homosexual, whereas this same gene in their female relatives makes them hornier (who knows, but they tend to have more children than average). With the brother having no children of his own, he works to ensure the survival and replication of his nieces and nephews, which in turn share his genes as well. So it benefits the sister's genes, while fucking over some of the brother's genes. It would also help his brothers who may not be expressing the homosexual trait but whom have the "gene" anyway Now the environment probably does have a bit to do with homosexuality, but I'd wager my life on their being a genetic precursor. I'd imagine that their could be some possible epigenetic factors involved or maybe even the way a certain portion of mRNA is spliced or something. Who knows, but there is something biological going on and the environmental component of it definitely wouldn't be a choice someone makes. I'm not so sure about the genetic processes of lesbians, but it leads me to believe that their may be alternative modes of inheritance of homosexuality, be it genes themselves or other biological factors. Show nested quote + This is just looking at it from a purely evolutionary/genetic standpoint. When it comes to sexuality there is a myriad of psychological/sociological factors that complicate it pretty heavily. I’m sure (I hope) that you’ve heard the phrase that sociology is a subset of psychology which is a subset of biology which is a subset of chemistry which is a subset of physics which is a subset of math. Well it’s true; evolution is integral to the field of biology and happens to be highly influential in the fields of psychology and sociology, which genetics also plays a major role in. Although the environment does complicate such a complicated issue as homosexuality in humans, it is less influential on many of the other myriad of species in nature used to discern many of its mysteries. Regardless, when you look at homosexuality from an evolutionary/genetic standpoint, you also happen to be looking at it from a psychology/sociological standpoint as well. Sorry to come off as a douchebag with this monstrous post, but when someone comes into a thread dedicated to a minority group—still persecuted and viewed negatively today—only to try and flaunt their knowledge (or in this case, lack thereof) at the expense of these individuals (because let’s face it, your post was basically implying that homosexuality is a disease almost on par with life threatening ones such as Huntington’s and CF) who already have enough shit on their plates, I had no choice but to reply.
There will be no tldr because you need to read this and if you don't, all you are doing is proving yourself unwilling to look at arguments of others. Kind of like a little kid stuffing his fingers in his ear and screaming to avoid hearing an adult.
Homosexuals are normal people is what I am saying. Your insistance on arguing against that and your seemingly single minded goal of trying to put down an entire minority group is actually quite disgusting and tells us way more about you than homosexuality. I don't see the over flamboyance any more "abnormal" than the urge to get super ripped and look ultra masculine, something I am sure you are not against, or at least not as much so as flamboyance. And besides, a lot of biological males who dress up in female clothing identify emotionally and mentally as more feminine than masculine. Who are we to tell people that what they wear has to be based solely on their gender and not what preference they have in clothing/fashion.
Sob story time, I had a friend that I didn't get to see very often, I met her at a gay conference similar to the one I talked about a page or so ago. She was biologically male (had a penis, could [I assume] produce semen, was completely biologically male) but identified femininely. She didn't want to be a girl, she wanted to act and be treated and be seen as more feminine than masculine, as non heteronormative, as non gender biased. She was constantly harassed, school officials tried to get her to wear "male" clothing because she was a "distraction" etc. She committed suicide because of the constant taunting and flaming and hatred that surrounded her every minute of every day. She killed herself because of people like you who are outspoken about their poorly thought out and extremely intolerant/ignorant opinions.
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On September 06 2011 05:42 drshdwpuppet wrote:Show nested quote +On September 06 2011 03:26 Nasradime wrote:Oh, while I'm at it, and because it's somewhat related, do you guys like to try turning heterosexuals into homosexuals ? (I'm only asking because some night I woke up with my mate's hand on my dick, and after sending him back to his couch all he could say was "sorry I know you're straight but I can't stop myself from trying" (not to sleep with me, but making me gay))... Would he be fucked up or just your regular sex-hungry dude ? Many thanks  Ye.. may... well I do  I find it kind of fun to tease and flirt with straight guys, their blushing is so cute :3 I know that they are straight and am not really trying to turn them, but every once in a while you find one that is "bicurious" or willing to experiment a bit. Imo, even if the balls touch, its not gay if you are just trying something new. Damn, I guess I need to stop blushing then :p About your ending, I also heard once "it's not gay if you're the one behind", but I'm quite single-minded about this : if it's with a dude, it's gay. It can be only experiment, but that would still be a gay experience, right ?
On September 06 2011 05:57 jarrydesque wrote:
Haha, oh well. I guess we can't really come up with any conclusive evidence. I'll go out on a limb and say you seem gentle and kind which is something many people are attracted to. I doubt there are any subconscious signals you send to guys. Lol, that sounds a bit paranoid.
As for you friend (the non molester), honestly, that's probably the best way it could have turned out.
Anywho, sounds like you're loved by all. Enjoy! Hm... Actually this is making me think of something. The "you seem gentle and kind" reminded me of some topic about how "nice guys finish last". They were saying girls do dig kindness, but that confidence prevailed. And I'm the type that lacks a bit of confidence, though I'm improving. So, like some guys look for insecure girls because they like to be the one dominating, do gays of the dominant type look for this trait in their partner ? Or does it work completely differently... As far as I recall, the majority of them were manly ones. It's not enough to be statistically accurate, but it can't be pure randomness ? There was a pretty mannered one, but not than feminine though...
Anyway I AM paranoid, especially about how others interpret my attitude, that's why I can't cross this option off my mind yet... (and thanks to some psychology studies, I can tell we do have a lot more of unconscious behaviours than one might think). Thanks for the ending, I'll try to think that way 
On September 06 2011 05:57 drshdwpuppet wrote: [As for why it looks to the world as if we are really getting ourselves out there to people, we are, and for a good reason. Gay youths are a lot more likely to commit suicide, usually because of their internal conflict over their sexuality. If they see successful, prominent people, or even just every day, average joes like me being open and comfortable with their sexuality, maybe they will not be so keen on offing themselves.
Wow... This actually never occurred to me. I guess I never tried to fit in a young gay's skin (pun initially not intended), but I suppose most of you went through that, and... Well, acting this way earns my sincere respect
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Thing is, i'm all for equal rights for gay's, but i dont see why you (plural) make such a big deal out of it, you don't really see a "straight starcraft players" thread now do you? If we are to have equal rights then why do gays get a special thread for them?
I dunno, something to think about.
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It's not anything to think about. When you exist in a 90-95% majority, every thread is your thread.
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On September 06 2011 07:06 RaKooNs wrote: Thing is, i'm all for equal rights for gay's, but i dont see why you (plural) make such a big deal out of it, you don't really see a "straight starcraft players" thread now do you? If we are to have equal rights then why do gays get a special thread for them?
I dunno, something to think about.
Because gays dont have equal rights. Would you have told the black rights movements to sit down, shut up and go away, if you want equality then act like you are equal. NO. It is the very fact that we are treated unequally that makes threads like this important.
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On September 06 2011 07:06 RaKooNs wrote: Thing is, i'm all for equal rights for gay's, but i dont see why you (plural) make such a big deal out of it, you don't really see a "straight starcraft players" thread now do you? If we are to have equal rights then why do gays get a special thread for them?
I dunno, something to think about. The fact that Larry King's murder ended in a hung jury due to the "gay panic" defense just proves that we're still far from treating gays equally.
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On September 06 2011 07:03 Nasradime wrote:Show nested quote +On September 06 2011 05:42 drshdwpuppet wrote:On September 06 2011 03:26 Nasradime wrote:Oh, while I'm at it, and because it's somewhat related, do you guys like to try turning heterosexuals into homosexuals ? (I'm only asking because some night I woke up with my mate's hand on my dick, and after sending him back to his couch all he could say was "sorry I know you're straight but I can't stop myself from trying" (not to sleep with me, but making me gay))... Would he be fucked up or just your regular sex-hungry dude ? Many thanks  Ye.. may... well I do  I find it kind of fun to tease and flirt with straight guys, their blushing is so cute :3 I know that they are straight and am not really trying to turn them, but every once in a while you find one that is "bicurious" or willing to experiment a bit. Imo, even if the balls touch, its not gay if you are just trying something new. Damn, I guess I need to stop blushing then :p About your ending, I also heard once "it's not gay if you're the one behind", but I'm quite single-minded about this : if it's with a dude, it's gay. It can be only experiment, but that would still be a gay experience, right ?
No no!, the blushing is cute, keep doing that.
What I more meant is that, just because you experiment once or twice or a couple times doesn't make you gay. Being constantly sexually and emotionally attracted to guys makes you gay.
On September 06 2011 07:03 Nasradime wrote:Show nested quote +On September 06 2011 05:57 drshdwpuppet wrote: [As for why it looks to the world as if we are really getting ourselves out there to people, we are, and for a good reason. Gay youths are a lot more likely to commit suicide, usually because of their internal conflict over their sexuality. If they see successful, prominent people, or even just every day, average joes like me being open and comfortable with their sexuality, maybe they will not be so keen on offing themselves. Wow... This actually never occurred to me. I guess I never tried to fit in a young gay's skin (pun initially not intended), but I suppose most of you went through that, and... Well, acting this way earns my sincere respect 

I have to say, seeing open minded and tolerant people in the world is... simultaneously refreshing and quite confusing. You are quite a rare individual. I think the reason you have guys hitting on you constantly is because you seem like such a nice, awesome person and to be honest, that goes a long way towards making you very attractive.
/me slaps himself "bad shdwpuppet, no flirting on interwebs"
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On September 06 2011 07:06 RaKooNs wrote: Thing is, i'm all for equal rights for gay's, but i dont see why you (plural) make such a big deal out of it, you don't really see a "straight starcraft players" thread now do you? If we are to have equal rights then why do gays get a special thread for them?
I dunno, something to think about.
read this blog please: http://www.teamliquid.net/blogs/viewblog.php?topic_id=262658
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Sorry dude, I read backwards and none of the posts did anything to make me feel like I was wrong about that. Gay lions don't make more lions, so it's safe to assume that they wouldn't be the top of the food chain for very long if they can't reproduce.
Homosexuals CAN be normal people is what I'm saying. You're ultra-defensive stance on the subject is almost as 'intolerable' as those who blindly hate. I have gay friends, for what it's worth, and none of them make me feel uncomfortable about it.
I don't like to see two straight people being overly affectionate in public, so it's not like this is just homophobia. You can be a normal, functional member of society WITHOUT painting yourself up as some over-the-top personality BECAUSE you are gay.
I can understand your sentiment, although it is pretty intolerant to everything that you deem not "normal".
Here's a bit of history that you should understand. During the 1970s, there was a gay movement in North America that was a backlash to the ultra conservativism of the country at the time. The movement trailed the civil rights movement of blacks and women for equality. This backlashed caused a lot of counter-culture overthetop flamboyance as a means to differentiate from the norm. A lot of that still survives today, the whole lisp thing, the acting like Judy Garland, the glitter, all stems from this counter culture backlash. Although I don't think it's as prominent as it used to be, this behavior will continue on until the gays are fully integrated into society through the law. If they are kept as second class citizens, then will continue to act out on it.
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On September 06 2011 07:11 Haemonculus wrote:Show nested quote +On September 06 2011 07:06 RaKooNs wrote: Thing is, i'm all for equal rights for gay's, but i dont see why you (plural) make such a big deal out of it, you don't really see a "straight starcraft players" thread now do you? If we are to have equal rights then why do gays get a special thread for them?
I dunno, something to think about. The fact that Larry King's murder ended in a hung jury due to the "gay panic" defense just proves that we're still far from treating gays equally.
Saw that. Un-fucking-believable.
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On September 06 2011 07:14 drshdwpuppet wrote: I have to say, seeing open minded and tolerant people in the world is... simultaneously refreshing and quite confusing. You are quite a rare individual. I think the reason you have guys hitting on you constantly is because you seem like such a nice, awesome person and to be honest, that goes a long way towards making you very attractive.
/me slaps himself "bad shdwpuppet, no flirting on interwebs" Aaaaand you just missed one hell of a blushing ! I really appreciate but, please, don't embarrass me like this :p I don't even act cool so the kids know they can be cool too !
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On September 06 2011 07:52 Nasradime wrote:Show nested quote +On September 06 2011 07:14 drshdwpuppet wrote: I have to say, seeing open minded and tolerant people in the world is... simultaneously refreshing and quite confusing. You are quite a rare individual. I think the reason you have guys hitting on you constantly is because you seem like such a nice, awesome person and to be honest, that goes a long way towards making you very attractive.
/me slaps himself "bad shdwpuppet, no flirting on interwebs" Aaaaand you just missed one hell of a blushing ! I really appreciate but, please, don't embarrass me like this :p I don't even act cool so the kids know they can be cool too !
stop flirting and meet up already lol
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Well a question that always cracked me up but I never really found somone who I could ask is now breaking out: Do really that many girls tend to have a crush on a gay guy rather than on a straight guy?
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On September 06 2011 07:54 Zaros wrote:Show nested quote +On September 06 2011 07:52 Nasradime wrote:On September 06 2011 07:14 drshdwpuppet wrote: I have to say, seeing open minded and tolerant people in the world is... simultaneously refreshing and quite confusing. You are quite a rare individual. I think the reason you have guys hitting on you constantly is because you seem like such a nice, awesome person and to be honest, that goes a long way towards making you very attractive.
/me slaps himself "bad shdwpuppet, no flirting on interwebs" Aaaaand you just missed one hell of a blushing ! I really appreciate but, please, don't embarrass me like this :p I don't even act cool so the kids know they can be cool too ! stop flirting and meet up already lol Well if that's flirting to you... I'm screwed lol. Seriously I combine straightness and living in France, we're gonna have a hard time making up :D
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