Let's talk about LOVE - Page 4

What else is love but understanding and rejoicing in the fact that another person lives, acts, and experiences otherwise than we do

On December 01 2008 15:31 Day[9] wrote:
.... i go for like 60-90 minutes every time i use it. it feels fucking AMAZING

however, it makes my asshole sore and raw. i have NO clue how to stop this, save for holding my buttcheeks apart while i'm doing this. anyone had anything similar happen? advice? thoughts?

god DAMN i love doing it so much i'll never give it up but SHIT its painful :[

On August 28 2012 01:00 ghost_403 wrote:


I like this. I think a lot of people make the mistake of assuming that the perfect person is out there, and that everything's going to magically work out when they find that person. That person doesn't exist. You find the person that's the easiest to love, and you make adjustments and sacrifices to show them that you love them. Love is hard.

On August 28 2012 00:34 peidongyang wrote:
as an engineering student, the only love we will get in these years is with your calculus textbook or another guy :trollface:

On August 28 2012 02:04 NibbloniaN wrote:


I guess I'm the lucky group of the 1%, I found the love of my life 4 years ago and things worked out magically. I've been happily in love ever since and I don't find it hard to stay in love, when you're truly in love with someone it's easy to keep that love alive by doing nice things for them. We've never had a single fight and I still get excited when I'm done with work and I get to go home to her.

On August 28 2012 03:04 Bigtony wrote:


Not to be a downer, but 4 years isn't a long time.

On August 28 2012 01:52 Smancer wrote:
Day[9] knows a thing or two about love, I thought I would share. Link

I love myself more than anything else in the world, because I have complete trust me, I will never be betrayed by myself. I am fond of myself, I don't have doubts about myself. I am the one person I will spend all my life with together, from the beginning right up to the last breath. There's no one I spend more time with. When I'm with myself, I can be me and don't have to pretend to be someone I don't want to be. There is no need to force myself into any behaviour I don't wish and there is nothing that has to be explained, justified or excused. There are no false and no real obligations. I don't take more from me than I give and if it was possible, I'd happily give more than I'd take, because it's the one I love.
When I look in the bathroom mirror in the morning, I see the same sexy good looking person, I've been seeing for all my life. Even if I make decisions, which would be unfavourable to myself and more favourable to others, there is no need to feel bad about it. This relationship lasts for the whole eternity of my own consciousness.

And on top of it, the love for myself doesn't rely on chemicals in my body or on appearances and other things. It doesn't just disappear after a certain amount of time for whatever reason. It doesn't become a habit, it doesn't become a desperation, it doesn't become a desire, when all else fails, it doesn't become a straw you want to hold onto, when things fall apart.


I love my parents, as much as you can love the ones who have brought you to life and spent a quarter of their own lives into trying to make you into the person you are now. I understand the value of true friends and would not let them down. I see the point of meeting a person you spend your time with for however long of a timespan and I have (mostly) enjoyed those years in relationships, but the one I love above all else, without question and hesitation, I value more than anyone else and I want to really spend every second of my life together with is myself.


I have never been able to experience the above with anyone else, and I probably never will, although I've spent years in good relationships and the argument, that "I just haven't met the one" doesn't count in my eyes, because love for a person you are in a relationship will ALWAYS disappear after X amount of time, when the relationship ends. Time makes it so that the people you have once loved and got seperated with slowly fade away. You get over any relationship, no matter how long it lasted. I love myself, and I hope you all love yourselves too, because it's a great feeling.

On August 28 2012 00:26 StarStruck wrote:


Couldn't have said it better myself. The line I usually use is, "You have to be able to deal with all their crap."

On August 28 2012 03:39 Kuni wrote:
I love myself more than anything else in the world, because I have complete trust me, I will never be betrayed by myself. I am fond of myself, I don't have doubts about myself. I am the one person I will spend all my life with together, from the beginning right up to the last breath. There's no one I spend more time with. When I'm with myself, I can be me and don't have to pretend to be someone I don't want to be. There is no need to force myself into any behaviour I don't wish and there is nothing that has to be explained, justified or excused. There are no false and no real obligations. I don't take more from me than I give and if it was possible, I'd happily give more than I'd take, because it's the one I love.
When I look in the bathroom mirror in the morning, I see the same sexy good looking person, I've been seeing for all my life. Even if I make decisions, which would be unfavourable to myself and more favourable to others, there is no need to feel bad about it. This relationship lasts for the whole eternity of my own consciousness.

And on top of it, the love for myself doesn't rely on chemicals in my body or on appearances and other things. It doesn't just disappear after a certain amount of time for whatever reason. It doesn't become a habit, it doesn't become a desperation, it doesn't become a desire, when all else fails, it doesn't become a straw you want to hold onto, when things fall apart.