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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on. Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments. Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. | ||
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Jisall
United States2054 Posts
On February 06 2013 00:45 Latty wrote: a wise man once said, dont mix the feelings of missing the girl and missing sex! Haha if we are talking about missing putting it in her meat sleeve, then yes don't mix the two. If we talk about it in the intimacy sense, missing the closeness to another person, then they could be the same thing. So mix it. | ||
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instantdry
Canada308 Posts
http://www.youtube.com/user/HowToGetAGirlfriends/videos?view=0 | ||
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Froob
United Kingdom342 Posts
On February 02 2013 15:57 orllyfools wrote: I remember i was outside Macys, (where i work in San Francisco) smoking a cig when i saw this cute half asian girl walking by. She had half inch plugs in her ears and a septum. A really cute girl. As i saw her walking away i noticed something familiar looking on her purse. It was a Blizzard patch! The closer i looked at her purse it had a Terran logo screen printed on it! She gets to the corner and waits as if shes trying to decide where she was gonna go i noticed i got up and started walking towards her, as if my body was willing me to go talk to her. She was wearing headphones so i motioned to her to take them off so i can say something. I ask "Hey i noticed your blizzard patch and starcraft purse, do you think we can hangout sometime and watch some starcraft?" She gave me a confused look because i dont really look like a nerd, especially in my work clothes. She replied back in a shyful manner "no......." shaking her head as if english wasnt even her native language. point of the story is, just go talk to a girl regardless if youre scared or not. i laughed as i walked away. if only that worked out the way i wanted to. ^_^ what on earth were you expecting | ||
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r.Evo
Germany14080 Posts
On February 02 2013 15:57 orllyfools wrote: I remember i was outside Macys, (where i work in San Francisco) smoking a cig when i saw this cute half asian girl walking by. She had half inch plugs in her ears and a septum. A really cute girl. As i saw her walking away i noticed something familiar looking on her purse. It was a Blizzard patch! The closer i looked at her purse it had a Terran logo screen printed on it! She gets to the corner and waits as if shes trying to decide where she was gonna go i noticed i got up and started walking towards her, as if my body was willing me to go talk to her. She was wearing headphones so i motioned to her to take them off so i can say something. I ask "Hey i noticed your blizzard patch and starcraft purse, do you think we can hangout sometime and watch some starcraft?" She gave me a confused look because i dont really look like a nerd, especially in my work clothes. She replied back in a shyful manner "no......." shaking her head as if english wasnt even her native language. point of the story is, just go talk to a girl regardless if youre scared or not. i laughed as i walked away. if only that worked out the way i wanted to. ^_^ Get her (visual) attention. Tilt head. Smile. Get her to take out her headphones (just make the motion she would have to do to remove them. "Hey. You're cute/sweet. And you like Starcraft. Can I marry you?" ... Cut yourself off before she can answer, "I'm xyz, randomshortrant about something that's on your mind into random question/random lovely neg/random meow.", enjoy entertaining conversion, get her number after a couple of minutes/instant date her, work from there. She didn't give you a confused look because you don't look like a nerd, she gave you a confused look because asking someone you know since 5 seconds to "hang out sometime" is awkward as fuck. | ||
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Ushio
Canada868 Posts
On February 05 2013 14:19 docvoc wrote: I'm probably much younger than you, but I've joked with my gf about that hahaha. Its on most girls never will I ever list, and tbh, its like a lot like swallowing. Some girls have no issue with it, some girls think its disgusting, and some will do it one time and never ever do it again. I think most girls fall into the second category, and that includes your gf and my gf. The only real way to get them to try it is to have it known as something you REALLY want to do and she consents to it on your birthday or something, but I wouldn't push it in reality. I have a friend who tried it, she said that not only was it not that great, its built up to be a lot more than it really is. It's pretty shit apparently, I bring it up jokingly with my gf, especially because the prep needed for it, the supplies, and the cons of doing it are pretty heavy compared to the pros of sticking it up the butt. You haven't had a good butt session yet. | ||
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azngamer828
United States137 Posts
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Silencioseu
Cyprus493 Posts
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Ghostcom
Denmark4782 Posts
On February 13 2013 03:41 Silencioseu wrote: I have this problem, that i rarely like a girl to the point of even thinking for even a short-term relation( i want my relations to be special) thus friendzoning most of my friends, or awkwardly rejecting others... But because i'm the biggest idiot this world has known, this only girl i really really liked, and had something going in between us, now hates me like none other. Happens to the best of us - give it some time an unless you really fucked up (slept with her sister or something equally stupid) she will have cooled off a bit and you might be able to explain yourself. | ||
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Silencioseu
Cyprus493 Posts
On February 13 2013 03:46 Ghostcom wrote: Happens to the best of us - give it some time an unless you really fucked up (slept with her sister or something equally stupid) she will have cooled off a bit and you might be able to explain yourself. I wasn't worried the first time... but this is the third time it happened, i think now this will be the last... She got this idea that i do not care about her, and she told me that i make her feel bad for herself, as if i was constantly judging her. EDIT: i might one day write a Girl Blog about it cause it's really a long story and a complicated one | ||
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Warlock40
601 Posts
On February 06 2013 03:55 r.Evo wrote: Get her (visual) attention. Tilt head. Smile. Get her to take out her headphones (just make the motion she would have to do to remove them. "Hey. You're cute/sweet. And you like Starcraft. Can I marry you?" ... Cut yourself off before she can answer, "I'm xyz, randomshortrant about something that's on your mind into random question/random lovely neg/random meow.", enjoy entertaining conversion, get her number after a couple of minutes/instant date her, work from there. She didn't give you a confused look because you don't look like a nerd, she gave you a confused look because asking someone you know since 5 seconds to "hang out sometime" is awkward as fuck. That'd probably be a better approach, yeah. But the fact that orllyfools even tried is pretty impressive. Walking up to a random stranger to strike up conversation has just about zero consequences (unless she has a hyper aggressive boyfriend right around the corner) and yet it can be very intimidating to do so. | ||
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arb
Noobville17921 Posts
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MooMooMugi
United States10531 Posts
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darthfoley
United States8003 Posts
Her "ask" was a little card thing with the words "winter formal?" on one side, and on the other, a fresh condom. awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww yeeeeaaaaaaaa I couldn't say no! | ||
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Zooper31
United States5711 Posts
On February 13 2013 07:43 darthfoley wrote: Today, one of my friends (not super close) asked me to the Winter formal dance thing. It's Sadie Hawkins style (girls ask guys) and i wasn't even expecting to be asked. Her "ask" was a little card thing with the words "winter formal?" on one side, and on the other, a fresh condom. awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww yeeeeaaaaaaaa I couldn't say no! Fuck you and your luck. Seriously, a condom? She basically gave you a peice of paper saying dtf? | ||
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Dosey
United States4505 Posts
On February 13 2013 04:12 Warlock40 wrote: That'd probably be a better approach, yeah. But the fact that orllyfools even tried is pretty impressive. Walking up to a random stranger to strike up conversation has just about zero consequences (unless she has a hyper aggressive boyfriend right around the corner) and yet it can be very intimidating to do so. What's impressive about what he did? He didn't strike up a conversation... he made a statement about an observation he made and then asked her out two seconds later.... It's no different from me walking up to a random girl and saying "Hey, I notice you have hair. Want to go out?" Hell, "Nice shoes, wanna fuck?" would probably yield better results. | ||
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arb
Noobville17921 Posts
+ Show Spoiler + more or less, me and my ex like.. hung out a few days ago, after having not really talked or anything in quite a few months. we did all the .. dumb shit couples do (i.e laid there talking for hours, playing with her hair and stuff like that) and she was making all these wildass remarks about me staying with her somenight, or vice versa. and everything was good while i was there.. fastforward to now, and the couple days after its like it never happened and she doesnt give a shit at all? like. wtf | ||
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azngamer828
United States137 Posts
1) the scenario was this, my friend and i had like a two hour conversation until she was about to leave. i really fell for this girl that school year, and during our conversation i asked her if she had any feelings for me during the school year, she replied that their parts of the year that she had feelings for me. before she tried to close her car door, i asked her, me: "do you wanna go out sometime?" her: "like on a date?" me: "yeah, i want to give us a shot" her: "ok, whatever you want to think of it as" her final reply is something that is still confusing me to this day. in my head, if i were to call it a date, she would be either happy or be taking it for granted if i were to not call it a date, she would be either sad or be glad that we are just friends. what in your opinion would that have meant when she said "whatever you want to think of it as"??? 2) i am very playful and i like to tease the girl, she calls me a jerk but obviously in a playful way back... my question is, is it a turn-off for a girl when a guy is a jerk but in a playful manner? | ||
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EscPlan9
United States2777 Posts
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darthfoley
United States8003 Posts
On February 13 2013 11:56 Zooper31 wrote: Fuck you and your luck. Seriously, a condom? She basically gave you a peice of paper saying dtf? Dude, I shit you not. Believe me i'm surprised as you are. I'm almost 18, as virgin as can be and it was just quite...an interesting way to ask lol. She does have freak (in the bed) tendencies though so if anyone were to do it, it'd be her. It's strange lmao | ||
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arb
Noobville17921 Posts
On February 14 2013 06:36 darthfoley wrote: Dude, I shit you not. Believe me i'm surprised as you are. I'm almost 18, as virgin as can be and it was just quite...an interesting way to ask lol. She does have freak (in the bed) tendencies though so if anyone were to do it, it'd be her. It's strange lmao You never wanna have sex with someone you really like(if thats the case) the first time tho. go find some whore and get it done, then go back with a little experience. unless she already knows youre a virgin, in which case congrats! | ||
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