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At least I feel like she didnt upgrade in looks like my previous ex before her who after we broke up got a pretty damn good looking boyfriend haha. I felt like she downgraded oh welpz
Forever single on valentines day lol.. .
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Rupyness
52 Posts
At least I feel like she didnt upgrade in looks like my previous ex before her who after we broke up got a pretty damn good looking boyfriend haha. I felt like she downgraded oh welpz Forever single on valentines day lol.. . | ||
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Shotcoder
United States2316 Posts
On February 14 2013 06:45 Rupyness wrote: sigh I broke up with a girl I was dating two months ago(we had only been going out a month and half or so). She liked me but apparently someone shes know for 6 years finally manned up and asked her out and she went with that route... At least I feel like she didnt upgrade in looks like my previous ex before her who after we broke up got a pretty damn good looking boyfriend haha. I felt like she downgraded oh welpz Forever single on valentines day lol.. . No Probz man, just get all classy, go to the bar and be a man about it. Happens to the best of us. 2 Valentines Days in a row for me! | ||
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QuanticHawk
United States32084 Posts
On February 13 2013 12:46 arb wrote: I guess I can give backstory, cause im seriously so confused idk wtf to do. + Show Spoiler + more or less, me and my ex like.. hung out a few days ago, after having not really talked or anything in quite a few months. we did all the .. dumb shit couples do (i.e laid there talking for hours, playing with her hair and stuff like that) and she was making all these wildass remarks about me staying with her somenight, or vice versa. and everything was good while i was there.. fastforward to now, and the couple days after its like it never happened and she doesnt give a shit at all? like. wtf stop hanging out with exs? | ||
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arb
Noobville17921 Posts
I think not going to see her/getting her out of my life totally is the advice most people give me specifically. I should really take that advice sometime. | ||
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SirGlinG
Sweden933 Posts
On February 14 2013 07:17 arb wrote: I think not going to see her/getting her out of my life totally is the advice most people give me specifically. I should really take that advice sometime. I tried being friends with my ex for a year, but it didn't work out in the long run. For it to become a friendship I had to let go of old habits in our relationship and move on emotionally. I want to be friends with her, but it's not possible the way it was so I told her that for our relationship to morph into friendship I need to not see her for some time, started with 3 months. A friend of mine said. You're a drug addict, you need to lay of them drugs for the possibility of friendship. It's true and it feels a lot better now. | ||
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darthfoley
United States8004 Posts
On February 14 2013 06:40 arb wrote: You never wanna have sex with someone you really like(if thats the case) the first time tho. go find some whore and get it done, then go back with a little experience. unless she already knows youre a virgin, in which case congrats! Nah we have known each other for a while and she's always dropped random sexual hints but it's been more in good fun than anything else. I'm sure she's aware i'm a pretty straight arrow (no pun intended) but we'll see how it all works out. Luckily for me she's actually pretty. Not super hot, but definitely worth the potential effort expended. I'm also relatively sure she isn't looking for a romantic relationship with me so that makes it somewhat easier as well. | ||
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FeUerFlieGe
United States1193 Posts
On February 14 2013 07:17 arb wrote: I think not going to see her/getting her out of my life totally is the advice most people give me specifically. I should really take that advice sometime. There are 8 Billion people on this earth. Somewhere around half of them are women, so 4 Billion. Subtract this girl from the total number of girls and you get 3,999,999,999 females on this earth. How can you not take the advice? | ||
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JimSocks
United States968 Posts
when older, more luck. but had to get out of the same local areas, moved around a bit, for jobs mostly. | ||
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arb
Noobville17921 Posts
On February 14 2013 08:51 FeUerFlieGe wrote: There are 8 Billion people on this earth. Somewhere around half of them are women, so 4 Billion. Subtract this girl from the total number of girls and you get 3,999,999,999 females on this earth. How can you not take the advice? finally talked it out with her, told her to tell me straight if i had a chance or should i give up and quit wasting time. she said we'd be better off as friends. never been so happy in my life. | ||
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Jisall
United States2054 Posts
Found this new chick. She has that special quality to her. I don't want to say i love her, but I could see that happening. I'm not saying she is perfect, she's close. She has absolute trust in me. I want to get close to her. Closer then I am now. She has me in my head, mindfucking me. She has me playing love songs, just wanting to look into her eyes. A nagging suspicion tells me I will never have that chance. I am going to call her tomorrow, and move thing forward, hopefully to something with some long lasting potential. Hopefully this vent will give my mind peace. + Show Spoiler [Song Very Related] + Girl has hijacked my brain. | ||
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Erasme
Bahamas15899 Posts
should i just kiss the girl ? | ||
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Zooper31
United States5711 Posts
On February 20 2013 07:21 Erasme wrote: I dont know how to confess ahahah should i just kiss the girl ? If you can find a way to do it without it being awkward or by forcing yourself on her the answer is always a resounding YES FOR THE LOVE OF GOD! | ||
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r.Evo
Germany14080 Posts
On February 20 2013 07:21 Erasme wrote: I dont know how to confess ahahah should i just kiss the girl ? If you want it to be as "foolproof" and smooth as possible it should be the natural next step. If you're already cuddling and massaging each others necks kissing is suddenly no big deal and it won't be hard to make that small next step because of all the positive feedback you already got. Try to avoid stuff like never having touched her before and suddenly moving in for a kiss. Also you're French, just let your genes do the work. =P PS: Sofas and cocktails/movies are the ultimate crutch for escalation. It makes everything so much easier if you're really in trouble. | ||
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ElizarTringov
Bulgaria317 Posts
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sam!zdat
United States5559 Posts
On February 20 2013 07:21 Erasme wrote: I dont know how to confess ahahah should i just kiss the girl ? | ||
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IronManSC
United States2119 Posts
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flothefreak
Germany77 Posts
Nah we have known each other for a while and she's always dropped random sexual hints but it's been more in good fun than anything else. I'm sure she's aware i'm a pretty straight arrow (no pun intended) but we'll see how it all works out. Luckily for me she's actually pretty. Not super hot, but definitely worth the potential effort expended. I'm also relatively sure she isn't looking for a romantic relationship with me so that makes it somewhat easier as well. Dude. Girls don't drop random sexual hints to guys only for fun. What else is she supposed to do? Slip you a note which says "yes, there is something that kind of puts you into the guys-which-i-am-attracted-to-category. please see this paper at least as a slight hint that it is not off chart for you to do or say stuff that moves us into this direction"? What else besides clear subtle hints do you need? her picking you up?? And even if you realized quickly it does not work, better tried it than tell everyone and their mother "there was this girl, but i always was too afraid and/or didn't know if she liked me back" FIND IT OUT! Regarding this topic, failing 14 times and having a great experience the 15th time is far better than not doing anything 15 times. Besides, every time you're rejected (face it, that will happen to everybody. at least to the people that TRY AND DO), it builds you up as a person. because what happens after a rejection? uh, nothing. | ||
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sephius
United Kingdom200 Posts
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SnipedSoul
Canada2158 Posts
On February 23 2013 04:58 sephius wrote: I've been going out with my GF for about 5 months now, but I just can't stop thinking about Whoopi Goldberg. My intense obsession with Whoopi is causing me to feel completely apathetic towards my girlfriend and I just have no idea what to do anymore. Shave your girlfriend's eyebrows. | ||
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nShade
Bulgaria296 Posts
I really set the mood well, got some red whine..and popcorn, dimmed the lights. Everything was perfect! We sat down on the confy couch, surrounded by many pillows and we played the movie (a romantic comedy) Then a funny scene comes up.... ...We started laughing and I had THE LOUDEST FUCKING FART. Then she wanted to leave. Help. (This is not a joke.) | ||
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