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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on. Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments. Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. | ||
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bloodwhore~
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for the third time tomorrow :D Our "date" on friday went really well! | ||
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Acrofales
Spain18291 Posts
On May 23 2016 04:45 bloodwhore~ wrote: Meeting the youngling + Show Spoiler + (god that sounds wrong) Oooh, 3rd date. It´s time to tango! | ||
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bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
On May 23 2016 04:49 Acrofales wrote: Oooh, 3rd date. It´s time to tango! We tango'd plenty last time  | ||
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States45925 Posts
I guess that means it's time for the horizontal mambo | ||
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LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
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Biff The Understudy
France8081 Posts
On May 20 2016 10:21 ragnasaur wrote: Maybe you're not passionate about anything. I find it easiest to talk about thimgs im passionate about... like starcraft! Wooo! Don't talk about Starcraft to girls you are dating or want to dat, jesus tap dancing christ. | ||
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Acrofales
Spain18291 Posts
On May 23 2016 06:02 LemOn wrote: Wait, you guys actually mean sexing right? I've been taking dancing lesson for the past 2 months with my girlfriend so tango and mambo actually means dancing steps for my brain right now ;D Of course we don´t. Bloodwhore would never have sex with such a young girl... | ||
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LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
On May 23 2016 06:23 Biff The Understudy wrote: Don't talk about Starcraft to girls you are dating or want to dat, jesus tap dancing christ. Eh? I brag about my former star Broodwar career all the time | ||
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States45925 Posts
On May 23 2016 06:02 LemOn wrote: Wait, you guys actually mean sexing right? I've been taking dancing lesson for the past 2 months with my girlfriend so tango and mambo actually means dancing steps for my brain right now ;D Yes haha | ||
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Bigtony
United States1606 Posts
Literally the best feeling. | ||
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Ben...
Canada3485 Posts
On May 22 2016 23:44 Impervious wrote: I've given internet dating a go twice. I found both attempts to be a giant waste of time. For the amount of time spent on it, it's really not been worth it. I had very low hopes for it though, so I wasn't disappointed. That's basically what I'm doing right now. I'm giving it a go with absolutely no expectation. I signed up for Tinder and OKCupid on a dare. I'm not spending a lot of time on it though. I basically will look at Tinder on break at work once in a while or sporadically at home. I basically haven't tried OKCupid yet. I'll answer messages but I don't religiously check them or anything. Surprisingly, I did find someone on Tinder who seems interesting. She doesn't seem like the type of person who would use Tinder. She seems way more interesting than most of the girls I've talked to on Tinder. In reference to that one post, she did message me first and it was nice to have that happen. We're gonna go for tea soon. | ||
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Jeremy88
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Bigtony
United States1606 Posts
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Acrofales
Spain18291 Posts
On May 24 2016 04:47 Bigtony wrote: Tinder is for fucking; I don't understand why anyone would use it for a different purpose. | ||
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WarSame
Canada1950 Posts
Poll: Did you introduce your SO to your family or friends first? Friends (8) Family (2) Same time (1) Haven't introduced (0) 11 total votes Your vote: Did you introduce your SO to your family or friends first? (Vote): Family | ||
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Laurens
Belgium4557 Posts
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Deleted User 101379
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On May 24 2016 12:42 WarSame wrote: Poll: Did you introduce your SO to your family or friends first? Friends (8) Family (2) Same time (1) Haven't introduced (0) 11 total votes Your vote: Did you introduce your SO to your family or friends first? (Vote): Family Where is the "I'm not 18 anymore, I don't introduce my SO to anyone unless it happens by chance anyways" option? Intentionally introducing your SO to others is nothing else than seeking confirmation, and if you are confident enough in your feelings and decisions then you don't need that confirmation. That means you don't need to introduce your SO until there is an occasion where your SO meets your friends/family anyways. I've never understood the whole thing about introducing partners. On May 24 2016 04:47 Bigtony wrote: Tinder is for fucking; I don't understand why anyone would use it for a different purpose. Well, the friend I met on Tinder is really only using it to find friendship, just as her profile says. As it turned out, she was even in a relationship with someone when we met. She left him recently for unrelated reasons, but she wasn't searching a replacement, just nice people to talk to and meet for coffee. Tinder is a tool to meet people. Not a very good one since it places so much value on looks, but in the end you can use it for whatever you want, only the chance of success will vary depending on what you look for. | ||
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States45925 Posts
On May 24 2016 15:33 Morfildur wrote: Where is the "I'm not 18 anymore, I don't introduce my SO to anyone unless it happens by chance anyways" option? Intentionally introducing your SO to others is nothing else than seeking confirmation, and if you are confident enough in your feelings and decisions then you don't need that confirmation. I think you read wayyy too much into that question unnecessarily. Introducing your SO (or whoever you're with) to new faces (friends or family) is merely good manners, not an attempt at seeking confirmation. It's good manners because you're the person who knows both the individual who you're with (e.g., your girlfriend) and the group that you happen to be seeing (e.g., a group of other friends or family members that your girlfriend doesn't yet know). I've never once heard before that introducing two people to each other is an attempt at seeking confirmation. I can say, for example, "Andrea, this is my buddy Tim from high school; Tim, this is my fiancee Andrea." And they say "Nice to meet you" to each other, and that little introduction allows for a seamless transition into a conversation with two people who didn't know each other beforehand. No implication whatsoever that I'm seeking approval of either party... | ||
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LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
It's part of each others' lives, building good relations with close friends and family does matter. Of course it's approval seeking - we're people. As to what order? Doubt that matters | ||
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LemOn
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