EPTDating: How's your luck? - Page 787
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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on. Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments. Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. | ||
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Laurens
Belgium4558 Posts
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maybenexttime
Poland5899 Posts
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LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
The fix isn't as easy as one D vit supplement, just google that stuff, work out, eat more fat and lose fat etc. | ||
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bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
On a slightly more unrelated note. A friend of mine went on his first date yesterday, after me pushing him to started dating. | ||
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States46640 Posts
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bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
On January 21 2016 00:49 DarkPlasmaBall wrote: Double date gogogo! :D Wow, I don't think I'd ever want to go on a double date. Not when we both were starting dating the other person at least. Furthermore, even though he thought it went okay, he didn't really like her I think. | ||
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States46640 Posts
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Kleinmuuhg
Vanuatu4091 Posts
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LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
Except me+my pal meeting my woman+her friend on new Years already drunk and going to a pub does that count? And that one ended with me not remembering half of it, apparently it involved me loudly announcing that I don't care it's my gf's period, I will fuck her anyways, My gf allegedly putting her fingers down my throat because I couldn't puke, . I couldn't, puked 5 mins later anyways, and woke up 12am hangover on my friends couch. She says she even kissed me goodbye. Yeah if double dates always look like this I'm not missing much? | ||
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States46640 Posts
Sometimes it's just nice to share a fun or casual or even slightly romantic date/ outing/ activity with another couple I'm not really sure what I would call the night that you experienced, but it's not the typical double date. | ||
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GreenHorizons
United States24466 Posts
On January 21 2016 06:13 LemOn wrote: Why? Never been on one, what am I missing exactly The constant comparison and battling to prove which couple is more "in loooove", the fights about how the other couple is perceiving the dynamic in your relationship. Arguments about relationship roles, the general mocking of male/female habits, laughing at how miserable the other couple is, telling each other how you would never do what you just saw happen to the other couple, taking sides in each others fights. Oh and the inevitable after date talk about "how come you never do that for me?" Other than that they are a blast! Though in my opinion double dates are mostly just so they can hang out with a guy friend and say they had a date night. I haven't really done a lot of double dating outside of couples I knew before they were couples though so some of that is built off of sitcoms (and serious relationships, not some girl you met a month ago or something) lol. | ||
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LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
As a keen PUA retired veteran when we actually go out on a date I play the seducing mini game every time and other people just interfere. But I guess activities like Karaoke, Bowling that can't be done in 2 people can be an exception, and it is kinda weird when friends are involved as you don't know who to pay attention to. | ||
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Kleinmuuhg
Vanuatu4091 Posts
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Clonester
Germany2808 Posts
Have a first date: Almost perfect, perfect understanding between us. She is funny, independet, well manered and I didnt have such a good date a looong time. Wonderfull kiss 2nd date: Again, running so well, like no date before. 3rd date: I agree to myself, that she isnt just the normal date girl. Have the night togeather, also fitting there. 4rd date: She tells me that she lied and is not single, but in a relationship. Why?? Why does this kind of shit have to happen. I am fed up with that kind of girls. | ||
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IgnE
United States7684 Posts
On January 19 2016 05:53 MysteryMeat1 wrote: So its a been while since I've updated. We hung out last night, for the first time in like 2 weeks. Besides walking her home from swing dancing. She was gone for a week, and then our schedules didn't match up for a little bit. Ended up going to her place and finished S1 of Buffy. I felt that things where a little off, since I tried to be a little physical but wasn't really feeling it, so I just chalked it up to us not having seen each other in a while. What was nice, is that while watching TV its kinda hard to talk about things. But there was like 20 minutes afterwards were we just talked. It kinda felt like our first real conversation, which I really enjoyed, and it continued into the car ride. Hugged her at the end, since I wasn't feeling the whole physical vibe from her. Girls are confusing, but I think I'm in a good place? Naw you aren't. The girl is wondering why the fuck you didn't do anything except hug her. | ||
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States46640 Posts
On January 21 2016 08:12 Clonester wrote: I dont know if I should post this here, but I have to let it off somewhere... Have a first date: Almost perfect, perfect understanding between us. She is funny, independet, well manered and I didnt have such a good date a looong time. Wonderfull kiss 2nd date: Again, running so well, like no date before. 3rd date: I agree to myself, that she isnt just the normal date girl. Have the night togeather, also fitting there. 4rd date: She tells me that she lied and is not single, but in a relationship. Why?? Why does this kind of shit have to happen. I am fed up with that kind of girls. 1. That's really fucked up. 2. Not all girls are like that, I promise. 3. See #1. | ||
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JoeCool
Germany2520 Posts
On January 18 2016 11:41 IgnE wrote: Sorry, "extra talk" and "holding hands" does not not make it casual. I also find it hard to believe that the sex was good with a virgin. Well I had my first time with a very experienced girl, and guess what? She enjoyed it plus I did not even come... but maybe I'm just the exception. | ||
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IgnE
United States7684 Posts
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QuanticHawk
United States32161 Posts
On January 21 2016 14:02 DarkPlasmaBall wrote: 1. That's really fucked up. 2. Not all girls are like that, I promise. 3. See #1. yeah try and get better at sensing bullshit like that, but def do not take that to mean that all or even most girls (or guys - know plenty who shop while attached) are like that. On January 21 2016 06:24 GreenHorizons wrote: The constant comparison and battling to prove which couple is more "in loooove", the fights about how the other couple is perceiving the dynamic in your relationship. Arguments about relationship roles, the general mocking of male/female habits, laughing at how miserable the other couple is, telling each other how you would never do what you just saw happen to the other couple, taking sides in each others fights. Oh and the inevitable after date talk about "how come you never do that for me?" Other than that they are a blast! Though in my opinion double dates are mostly just so they can hang out with a guy friend and say they had a date night. I haven't really done a lot of double dating outside of couples I knew before they were couples though so some of that is built off of sitcoms (and serious relationships, not some girl you met a month ago or something) lol. yowzer, that is jaded! I've def seen that before, but I just make it a point to not voluntarily hang out with couples like that haha. double dates are fun though, it's not a requirement but it is nice if your friend's SO and your SO actually like each other enough that they'd be friends if they never knew you. | ||
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B.I.G.
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On January 21 2016 11:19 IgnE wrote: Naw you aren't. The girl is wondering why the fuck you didn't do anything except hug her. Usually if you don't feel the physical vibe it's because there isn't one. People generally pick up on that automatically. The way you talk makes it sound like you made a friend. Then again girls are indeed confusing. | ||
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