| Forum Index > General Forum |
We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on. Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments. Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. | ||
|
RuskiPanda
United States2906 Posts
We're going to get dinner this week and she seems interested as well. Only caveat is I didn't call it a date as I was still hesitant about a work relationship. Should I just ask for a date the next time or go for it after dinner if it goes well? Main thing I want to clear up with her is if I already friendzoned myself by getting too chummy before asking her out. Thanks! | ||
|
evilfatsh1t
Australia8865 Posts
you dont meet up with someone else for lunch, movie and then a dinner in a very short time span unless you have interest in the person or youre best friends | ||
|
GreenHorizons
United States23946 Posts
On January 07 2016 15:00 evilfatsh1t wrote: seems like she already knows its a date imo you dont meet up with someone else for lunch, movie and then a dinner in a very short time span unless you have interest in the person or youre best friends *or you're desperately lonely/on the rebound. But yeah sounds like she gets the hint. | ||
|
evilfatsh1t
Australia8865 Posts
like did you guys grab lunch during your work break? or did you both go out of your way to meet on a weekend for lunch? same questions for dinner. if you met as part of a work thing then its a lot less likely she got the hint | ||
|
RuskiPanda
United States2906 Posts
Think I'll give it a go if it goes well then. | ||
|
Ramiel
United States1220 Posts
- First girl flaked, Next - Asian girl, had a great sit down at a jazz bar. It was going super well. Kiss to end the date, and promises for more. - Nerdy girl rock climbing was just terrible. God it was just so bad. She was a nice person and all, just so nervous, so awkward, and dull. I am not going back for seconds. - Still looking forward to other rock climbing saturday with possible cool girl who will become friend most likely New Stuff. - I have a date with a redhead (my favorite type of human) monday for drinks. We have a great vibe during text, and that is awsome - I have another girl off tinder, we are just trading TXT. She is interested in a date, and we are in the process of hashing it out - Still Txting with a cute eastern European girl, that again would like to hit me up for a date this weekend. Lastly: I am having second thoughts about my 'date while you wait' idea. I just think that its too out there. I feel that i should just continue to in the flesh pulls, by frequenting coffee shops / fast casual dining places. Anyway, let me know what you think. | ||
|
Ramiel
United States1220 Posts
On January 07 2016 15:38 RuskiPanda wrote: Lunch was at work but movie and dinner were/are separate. Think I'll give it a go if it goes well then. Just don't say the D word, holy shit. You should easily be able to infer if she is romantically interested in you. Also there is no way that this is going over a girls head. heh, she has more of a clue regarding social cues than men. | ||
|
RuskiPanda
United States2906 Posts
| ||
|
knightwulf
Canada174 Posts
| ||
|
bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
On January 07 2016 19:51 knightwulf wrote: I just went on a date with Canada's next top model 2006. I had to tell someone. Haha, nice. How did it go? | ||
|
LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
On January 07 2016 05:24 B.I.G. wrote: I find it hard to relate to what you say Lem0n. 5 hour fucking sessions and the brutal honesty thing kind of sound like a much more "spiritual" way of living that does not really match mine. Good for you though. What I said was 2-5 hours, few times per month, doubt that that's that crazy? Also - do you guys actually manage to bring women you're with to orgasm every single time in those <1 hour sessions? Unless she comes fast like a clockwork every single time which is pretty rare, for me it sometimes just takes that long if they're distracted with work+tired etc. Looks I have more learning to do, I started listening to audiobook of this today + Show Spoiler + ![[image loading]](https://ph-files.imgix.net/2443e809-e9a7-4b6b-8163-7dd0d8e0278b?auto=format&w=280&h=420) EDIT: First 5 minutes: "The clitoris has 18 specific parts". Yeah okay maybe don't know nearly as much as I though :D | ||
|
LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
On January 07 2016 16:31 Ramiel wrote: I feel that i should just continue to in the flesh pulls, by frequenting coffee shops / fast casual dining places. Anyway, let me know what you think. Yes! But this time do it right, you didn't give it a real shot really - grab some balls and just stop hiding behind the canned pitches! I re-listened This recently, and the second hour is great for life and pickup alike. Doubt you will actually start meditating to be better with women and yourself (yes PUAs tell you to meditate and drop Ego), most people don't give that a shot but the philosophy of situational openers being by far the best ones should stick once you improve your confidence | ||
|
Viktor.E
Estonia3 Posts
 | ||
|
DarkPlasmaBall
United States45887 Posts
| ||
|
bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
On January 07 2016 20:31 DarkPlasmaBall wrote: You unsuccessfully tried dating the entire country? I hate it when you do that! | ||
|
B.I.G.
3251 Posts
| ||
|
Laurens
Belgium4557 Posts
| ||
|
LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
On January 08 2016 18:47 Laurens wrote: Learn to use your tongue correctly boys. Sometimes it just does take >>1hour when she's got stuff on her mind + is tired etc. though no, no matter the technique?That's how women work I find, you gotta take the time to get her to relaxed state of mind | ||
|
LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
On January 08 2016 05:22 B.I.G. wrote: Yeah I can honestly say I don't have the time or energy to have sex for 2 hours or more. After 1 hour I really want to move on to something else. Getting a woman to orgasm in that time is often doesn't work as you guessed. Yeah I don't think this is very healthy - first thing in the book I'm listening to he mentions is how female orgasm was put gradually away from importance in society, and Freud then shit all over the importance of female orgasm. Hell back in the day before science times they even thought without an orgasm, a female can't get pregnant and it's as important or more as male's! The way I see it it's as important as mine, and I know how I'd feel if I had sex and wasn't able to see the end of the rainbow. | ||
|
DarkPlasmaBall
United States45887 Posts
| ||
| ||
StarCraft 2 StarCraft: Brood War Dota 2 League of Legends Counter-Strike Super Smash Bros Other Games Grubby4362 Liquid`RaSZi1816 summit1g1729 FrodaN1538 shahzam760 C9.Mang0248 ZombieGrub131 ArmadaUGS115 UpATreeSC41 |
|
OSC
CranKy Ducklings
Afreeca Starleague
Light vs Flash
INu's Battles
ByuN vs herO
PiGosaur Cup
Replay Cast
Replay Cast
The PondCast
OSC
Replay Cast
[ Show More ] |
|
|
EPT
