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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on. Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments. Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. | ||
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A_needle_jog
Korea (South)699 Posts
Sadly Emma Watson don't know who I am | ||
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LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
On January 04 2016 04:42 Luepert wrote: If you were with a girl and after 30 seconds she told you she was done and had to stop, would there be a repeat bang? What question even is this? You pull back, give her time to rest and when she's ready (and gives you the signals) you go again. For me normal sex session lasts between 2-5 hours, one person coming too soon is not an issue, orgasms and when they happen are overrated imo. If she's done and "one and done" and sex is over at the same time then no. But I can't see how that can ever be an issue if you're a healthy man that's really into the girl chemically. Unless you're really unfit, your testosterone levels are really low or you're tired/drunk or just really nervous I can't see how it's possible to get off in 30 seconds on one hand and not be able to go again eventually at the same time, that just doesn't happen. | ||
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IgnE
United States7681 Posts
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waffelz
Germany711 Posts
On January 04 2016 10:47 IgnE wrote: Normal sex session lasts 5 hours. Yeah ok. I guess he is talking about the whole show including cuddling before/after/during, foreplay etc. | ||
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DeliverNamA
7 Posts
On January 04 2016 07:21 A_needle_jog wrote: fell in love with a girl. Sadly Emma Watson don't know who I am Hey, maybe you need to believe in yourself more! I'm guessing you know this girl personally?! | ||
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crimethinking
Vietnam765 Posts
Guess I'll have to shelf this one too. | ||
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JoeCool
Germany2520 Posts
On January 03 2016 06:43 Skynx wrote: Contrats! You know where's she living in GB?  Yes, shes from London. Seriously this girl is amazing! Like I said we dated yesterday, had dinner and went to my place. As we made out she told me that shes on her period... And since I do not like BJs I though that the evening was over but guess what? She asked for a*nal... Which is sth I always wanted to try. Long Story short... We made out all night long. | ||
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LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
On January 04 2016 11:38 waffelz wrote: I guess he is talking about the whole show including cuddling before/after/during, foreplay etc. Yeah from the taking clothes off to putting them on it includes resting, talking between orgasms, pauses for switching positions, drinks, oral sex, various forms of masturbation etc usually takes 2-5 hours and seems pretty standard for "normal sex". Much less than that is pretty much a quickie in my book that feels "incomplete". Of course there's time constraints but in a relationship I think it's important to find the time for a long multi orgasmic session few times per month. And when you first start dating it should be a given. | ||
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riotjune
United States3394 Posts
On January 04 2016 07:21 A_needle_jog wrote: fell in love with a girl. Sadly Emma Watson don't know who I am Just don't let it develop into full-blown erotomania or they'll have you committed! | ||
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GreenHorizons
United States24204 Posts
few times per month. And when you first start dating it should be a given. That makes a lot more sense, | ||
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bloodwhore~
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levelping
Singapore759 Posts
On January 04 2016 17:57 LemOn wrote: Yeah from the taking clothes off to putting them on it includes resting, talking between orgasms, pauses for switching positions, drinks, oral sex, various forms of masturbation etc usually takes 2-5 hours and seems pretty standard for "normal sex". Much less than that is pretty much a quickie in my book that feels "incomplete". Of course there's time constraints but in a relationship I think it's important to find the time for a long multi orgasmic session few times per month. And when you first start dating it should be a given. So uh, do you and your partner have full time jobs and have other commitments outside work? Because while I like my sex unhurried, 2-5 hours just sounds kinda boring. Not to mention an less than ideal way to spend time together, when there are limited chances to see each other. Like honesty what does the 3rd hour of sex add which the second hour already does not? | ||
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LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
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levelping
Singapore759 Posts
On January 05 2016 00:42 LemOn wrote: How exactly does an average sex look like levelping? Maybe you want to answer what I asked first before turning this to being about me? Edit: because I am actually rather curious how you would manage several 2-5 sessions a month. | ||
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LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
And you make the time plain and simple...if it at times means working hard on your job etc. and seeing each other only once per week so be it. It's hard to imagine I would be in a long term committed relationship with a person into whom I'm not willing to invest time least a few times per month. My aim long run is one proper date per week as long as possible before kids, even if I live with her. And just find a way with babysitting etc. when possible even after kids. And a date usually takes between 6-10 hours, and the sexual energy kinda starts when you first see her as that day it's just the two of you and your as two people in the moment - I think it's important to keep dating your partner. It was one of my thoughts actually - why you go through all this trouble and get out of your way to invest time and effort when you first start dating, and then just get comfortable and stop trying once you're committed - that person you're with for months and years should be getting more of your investment than someone you barely know, sadly the brain has the opposite tendency. | ||
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IgnE
United States7681 Posts
What's the lonngest relationship you've ever been in lemon? | ||
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LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
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evilfatsh1t
Australia8915 Posts
On January 05 2016 08:39 LemOn wrote: Well basically there's always like 30 mins teasing from either side after clothes come off. Then you fuck, one of you comes first, then finishes the other one off while (hands+mouth) getting horny in the process. Then there'd usually be a break for water etc. just cuddling, some talk until the person that came 2nd wants to go again etc. with oral, masturbation 69, switching positions, fast stuff, slow stuff with eye contact (what tantra teaches...). Then add things like body paint, blind stuff, experimenting for special treats... Like I like a lot of positions, stuff like coming on different parts of her body, heavy teasing and going slooow... then fast etc. I don't even know where the time went usually :D And you make the time plain and simple...if it at times means working hard on your job etc. and seeing each other only once per week so be it. It's hard to imagine I would be in a long term committed relationship with a person into whom I'm not willing to invest time least a few times per month. My aim long run is one proper date per week as long as possible before kids, even if I live with her. And just find a way with babysitting etc. when possible even after kids. And a date usually takes between 6-10 hours, and the sexual energy kinda starts when you first see her as that day it's just the two of you and your as two people in the moment - I think it's important to keep dating your partner. It was one of my thoughts actually - why you go through all this trouble and get out of your way to invest time and effort when you first start dating, and then just get comfortable and stop trying once you're committed - that person you're with for months and years should be getting more of your investment than someone you barely know, sadly the brain has the opposite tendency. its not like people deliberately stop going on dates and doing couply stuff after they get married and have kids. some people might, if theyre dickheads and bitches, but in most cases its just fatigue (mentally and physically). i think you underestimate how draining it is at the very early stages of parenthood. parents physically and mentally just dont have the energy to go on dates even if they manage to find a sitter because they would just rather use that time to laze around and rest. i know asian parents in particular dont do that stuff because they cant even make time for it. the use of sitters in asian families is a lot rarer than in white families from what ive seen | ||
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IgnE
United States7681 Posts
On January 06 2016 09:20 LemOn wrote: 4.5 years So for 4.5 years your normal sex session was 5 hours long? | ||
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ticklishmusic
United States15977 Posts
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