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On January 02 2016 05:55 AeroGear wrote:
Please tell me she showered first or, at the very least after the previous night sex session, before you 'went down' on her again.
She didn't shower but she went to freshen up. She was not nasty down there the day after or anything.
On January 02 2016 19:37 B.I.G. wrote:
Also bloodwhore going down on a random girl is kinda nasty..
I don't really see the problem. I wouldn't go down on a girl if she seemed even a tiny bit nasty. She was really fresh, tasted pretty good too.
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On January 02 2016 19:52 bloodwhore~ wrote:Show nested quote +On January 02 2016 05:55 AeroGear wrote:
Please tell me she showered first or, at the very least after the previous night sex session, before you 'went down' on her again.
She didn't shower but she went to freshen up. She was not nasty down there the day after or anything. Show nested quote +On January 02 2016 19:37 B.I.G. wrote:
Also bloodwhore going down on a random girl is kinda nasty.. I don't really see the problem. I wouldn't go down on a girl if she seemed even a tiny bit nasty. She was really fresh, tasted pretty good too.
As long as they go to the toilet after sex I don't see the problem either. Demanding a shower seems overkill 
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in bloodwhores defense, going down on a random girl is not much 'nastier' than going down on ur gf. it doesnt take much for a random to become ur gf and its not like a girl becoming ur gf magically makes her 'cleaner' than when she was a random. also its not like you ask ur gf "so...youre clean down there right?" just to make sure before you go down on her.
as long as the randoms youre going down on arent hookers or known sluts that put out for everyone, youre gonna be fine
that said, please dont say going down on a girl was "fresh" and "tasted pretty good". we all know a girls private parts arent lemon scented and taste like fruit. saying that it was just makes you look like a pervert
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On January 02 2016 05:55 AeroGear wrote:Show nested quote +On December 31 2015 19:59 bloodwhore~ wrote:
Evening started with us talking a bit, then we started watching a movie and cuddling. After the movie we made out, I went down on her for a while then I inserted penis and came really fast, and that was it. I have had aproximately 0 appetite for food these last 3 days so I wasn't feeling very good, otherwise I might have tried to go for another round. This morning we started cuddling again and I went down on her again (until she came?), I don't know if she did but she told me to stop and seemed pleased. I think she wanted me to get off to but I told her it wasn't going up, I wasn't feeling it, had barely eaten anything the day before so I had zero energy left and my dick was like at 70% the last night. At that point she just thanked me for doing it and we started cuddling again. Please tell me she showered first or, at the very least after the previous night sex session, before you 'went down' on her again.
Eh, why :D
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On January 02 2016 21:04 evilfatsh1t wrote:
please dont say going down on a girl was "fresh" and "tasted pretty good". we all know a girls private parts arent lemon scented and taste like fruit. saying that it was just makes you look like a pervert
Taste differs bro. Could go into detail on this but I think stating that the taste of a woman’s private parts differs and there are things that taste way nastier but still get praised. Alcohol, various cheeses, weird fruits, dark chocolate… plus some genuinely enjoy doing it which usually changes your view on things. And if it is perverted to enjoy going down on a women, it is probably one of the best perversions ever. Like if a women enjoys to give blowjobs.
On January 02 2016 21:08 LemOn wrote:Show nested quote +On January 02 2016 05:55 AeroGear wrote:On December 31 2015 19:59 bloodwhore~ wrote:
Evening started with us talking a bit, then we started watching a movie and cuddling. After the movie we made out, I went down on her for a while then I inserted penis and came really fast, and that was it. I have had aproximately 0 appetite for food these last 3 days so I wasn't feeling very good, otherwise I might have tried to go for another round. This morning we started cuddling again and I went down on her again (until she came?), I don't know if she did but she told me to stop and seemed pleased. I think she wanted me to get off to but I told her it wasn't going up, I wasn't feeling it, had barely eaten anything the day before so I had zero energy left and my dick was like at 70% the last night. At that point she just thanked me for doing it and we started cuddling again. Please tell me she showered first or, at the very least after the previous night sex session, before you 'went down' on her again. Eh, why :D
Poor little boy is probably afraid of semen D:
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On January 02 2016 21:04 evilfatsh1t wrote:please dont say going down on a girl was "fresh" and "tasted pretty good". we all know a girls private parts arent lemon scented and taste like fruit. saying that it was just makes you look like a pervert
Sure it doesn't taste like fruit, but it certainly doesn't taste bad either in my opinion. Just tasted neutral, and by fresh I just mean that it looked like she took care of herself and that her pussy was really good looking, like "I want my face there" good looking.
Poor little boy is probably afraid of semen D:
Yeah I am not really afraid about different body fluids etc. Watched too much shit online to be scared of that stuff.
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On January 03 2016 01:29 bloodwhore~ wrote:Show nested quote +On January 02 2016 21:04 evilfatsh1t wrote:please dont say going down on a girl was "fresh" and "tasted pretty good". we all know a girls private parts arent lemon scented and taste like fruit. saying that it was just makes you look like a pervert Sure it doesn't taste like fruit, but it certainly doesn't taste bad either in my opinion. Just tasted neutral, and by fresh I just mean that it looked like she took care of herself and that her pussy was really good looking, like "I want my face there" good looking. Yeah I am not really afraid about different body fluids etc. Watched too much shit online to be scared of that stuff.
Has nothing with being scared, it is just disgusting. Just like I wouldn't expect a girl to give me a blowjob right as I exit her ass, or give a rim job to a girl who just came back from taking a shit.
If you enjoy licking your way through stale body fluid, dried out sperm, seminal and vaginal fluids, more power to you, I'm not desperate to the point of lowering my standards to those of some horny animal, I don't have to.
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On January 03 2016 02:10 AeroGear wrote:
Has nothing with being scared, it is just disgusting. Just like I wouldn't expect a girl to give me a blowjob right as I exit her ass, or give a rim job to a girl who just came back from taking a shit.
If you enjoy licking your way through stale body fluid, dried out sperm, seminal and vaginal fluids, more power to you, I'm not desperate to the point of lowering my standards to those of some horny animal, I don't have to.
Well there is a big difference between gobbling that shit up like you haven't eaten for seven days and getting some microbes of a day old cum on your tongue. Unless she was hanging upside down like a bat after you came in here until you started going down on her and when you did you actively tried to slurp those last drips of cum from deep inside her pussy by shoving it in there I don't think you would notice it. 
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Thats a series of awfully detailed and pictorially posts... I like where this thread is going xD
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On January 03 2016 02:10 AeroGear wrote:Show nested quote +On January 03 2016 01:29 bloodwhore~ wrote:On January 02 2016 21:04 evilfatsh1t wrote:please dont say going down on a girl was "fresh" and "tasted pretty good". we all know a girls private parts arent lemon scented and taste like fruit. saying that it was just makes you look like a pervert Sure it doesn't taste like fruit, but it certainly doesn't taste bad either in my opinion. Just tasted neutral, and by fresh I just mean that it looked like she took care of herself and that her pussy was really good looking, like "I want my face there" good looking. Poor little boy is probably afraid of semen D: Yeah I am not really afraid about different body fluids etc. Watched too much shit online to be scared of that stuff. Has nothing with being scared, it is just disgusting. Just like I wouldn't expect a girl to give me a blowjob right as I exit her ass, or give a rim job to a girl who just came back from taking a shit. If you enjoy licking your way through stale body fluid, dried out sperm, seminal and vaginal fluids, more power to you, I'm not desperate to the point of lowering my standards to those of some horny animal, I don't have to.
So do you stop girls who want to go down on you if you haven't showered recently?
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I spent the night of New Year's Eve with a couple of friends of mine plus some people I did not know before (some of my friends brought them along)... so we were a pretty big group with guys 'n gals. And there was one girl I was especially interested in, she lives in GB right now but is originally from my city and a good friend of my best friend, so I flirted with her all evening long but it seemed like she wasn't really interested...
@ 2am our hosts decided to go to bed so we were forced to leave the place and look for something else or go home aswell. Someone suggest to the girl I was flirting with that she should stay at my place since there were no busses/trains that could take her home that late (early)... and guess what? She smiled, I offered her to stay at my place and she agreed! )
Okay, so we were on our way to my apartment when she suddenly suggested going into my favourite club (I told her that I'm into Metal and where I'm always partying)... we had a great time there, danced to a couple of songs and had some drinks but when we tried to catch a tram home we found out that we had to wait ~1 hour. This was such an embarrassing moment, I apologized like three times for not knowing that there were no more trams at 5 in the morning. I mean I live there, I go out like every weekend...
Anyways, we sat at the stairs in the trainstation and I thought that I blew any chance I've ever had with her... but she stayed with me and still followed me to my place where we arrived at 6.20 am. I was really tired so there was not much going on except for kissing but we made out when we woke up at 11.00 am (or sth like that). And OMG this girl! She's into biting and stuff, and I seem to be very good at biting... and stuff! At least that's what I got from her reaction, I've never had a girl moaning so loud and satisfied.
When she had to leave - I took her to the nearest tram station - she kissed me fiercely (?) and told me give her a call... and that's basically what I did today. I sent her a message, invited her to my place (tomorrow evening) and she just said "Yes )".
She'll go back to GB sometime next week, which is completely fine since I do not intend to have a relationship with her. Plus I feel like this is the first time where I can be intimate with a woman without expecting sth serious... it's just amazing!
TLDR: I have no idea why I'm telling this story but I'm really happy right now. For the first time in my life it seems like I did almost everything right with a woman:
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Contrats! You know where's she living in GB?
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feel like this is the first time where I can be intimate with a woman without expecting sth serious... it can be this way with every woman, what YOU want is what matters as long as you are honest about it
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if i were a girl and the dude came in 30 seconds... there would not be a repeat bang l0l
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On January 03 2016 09:59 paper wrote:
if i were a girl and the dude came in 30 seconds... there would not be a repeat bang l0l
Wtf? Most find it flattering I find, it's all about owning it and your attitude
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On January 03 2016 22:38 LemOn wrote:Show nested quote +On January 03 2016 09:59 paper wrote:
if i were a girl and the dude came in 30 seconds... there would not be a repeat bang l0l Wtf? Most find it flattering I find, it's all about owning it and your attitude
If you were with a girl and after 30 seconds she told you she was done and had to stop, would there be a repeat bang?
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Knowing that it sometimes happens in the excitement and that it's not necessarily representative of what you're like in bed? I would, assuming I liked the person.
And it's not like you're done. You can always go down on her or do other fun non-penetration stuff while you wait for round 2.
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mmm... Back with my gf I always came fast (def not 30 seconds, but for my average) the first time if we did not see for a while. That is not a problem as long as you "spoil her" with 3-5 rounds per day (spoil, her words)
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On January 04 2016 04:42 Luepert wrote:Show nested quote +On January 03 2016 22:38 LemOn wrote:On January 03 2016 09:59 paper wrote:
if i were a girl and the dude came in 30 seconds... there would not be a repeat bang l0l Wtf? Most find it flattering I find, it's all about owning it and your attitude If you were with a girl and after 30 seconds she told you she was done and had to stop, would there be a repeat bang?
If she went down on me afterwards I definitely would.
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On January 04 2016 04:42 Luepert wrote:Show nested quote +On January 03 2016 22:38 LemOn wrote:On January 03 2016 09:59 paper wrote:
if i were a girl and the dude came in 30 seconds... there would not be a repeat bang l0l Wtf? Most find it flattering I find, it's all about owning it and your attitude If you were with a girl and after 30 seconds she told you she was done and had to stop, would there be a repeat bang?
No, but there are a host of reasons a girl would say that, that a guy can't pull off. Loaded question.
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