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On December 31 2015 06:02 DarkPlasmaBall wrote:Show nested quote +On December 31 2015 05:38 WarSame wrote:
Fair enough, I am kinda weird anyway. I've tried it twice and got a negative-neutral response and a positive response, but a larger dataset would remove uncertainty. I'd imagine it would resonate with some fun, creative, laid back girls fwiw  A little odd to ask on a first date, although some people like non-traditional stuff.
Agreed. For me, compatible senses of humor go a long way. I view myself as a relatively funny person in general, but I have found a lot of "success" in corny/lame jokes, as long as I present them as obviously corny and lame. Because I get really nervous once things go past the friend area, I have combated it by using reverse psychology when it comes to being cool-- being less "smooth" is better for a lot of girls. I tend to start with kind of "neutral" jokes because until you know a person better, it can be a real turn off to tell raunchy or corny jokes. Idk if that makes sense
Humor is obviously easiest when you know yourself and the person you're trying to make laugh, which is why I much prefer the friend --> girlfriend route rather than the random first date. Just a preference thing obviously, but for your (WarSame's) type of humor, you need a specific type of girl to make it land.
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Well if that's what you and your normal humor are and what you use in your social circle, then go for it, especially on the first date!
The girls that don't like it will leave ASAP and the ones that do like it will be great for ya
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I'm also low key weird, but you gotta dial it back on first dates
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Those weren't first dates. One was over Facebook, and the other was at a party. DW, they kinda build naturally. The one girl was talking about how they can bring woolly mammoths back, the other... maybe not so natural. Anyway, it's fun, and as y'all are saying, it selects women that have a sense of humour that meshes well.
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On December 31 2015 07:39 ticklishmusic wrote:
I'm also low key weird, but you gotta dial it back on first dates
I definitely wouldn't dial it down on the first date, on the contrary! She's pretty much on an audition for your future time - you want girls most fit for the role that have high compatibility with you, and weed out those that don't ASAP so you
1) Don't waste your time
2) Don't get committed with the wrong person
So yeah, show your personality exactly as it is! If it's weird low key weird, make sure it shines through!
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Decided to dive into online dating, as well as street game. Sadly, I have been unable to do some in the flesh pulls, so i put more effort into the online scene.
I have the following lined up:
- Drinks tomorrow before NYE with 5/10 Nice girl, we have many common interests and was super willing to hang out
- Next week I have drinks again with a 7/10 Asian beauty- who is also a very successful accountant. She seems really nice, and we have a great vibe in TXT. Hope it carries through to the flesh
- I have rock climbing with a 6/10 nerdy girl. She is super sarcastic and we get along pretty well (have very similar humor patterns) I really hope this one goes well, she has spunk.
- Another rock climbing date at the end of the week. This one with a 5/10 sports monster. I love active girls, and this one is a badass. She is into jujitsu, wrested at a high level in college, and shoots guns all of the time. Super laid back , and honestly had some cool questions to throw at me during converstaion.
I am pretty far alkong talking to about 6 other girls, hopefully I can pull some number closes from them as well.
I will keep you updated on the progress.
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Also, I saw something online that I just have to try.
I ordered a folding chair (2) and a table. I have a white cloth, and am going to make a sign. On the sign- its going to say 'Date while you wait'
I am going to go to one of the busiest underground subway stations in chicago, and set up shop for a few hours. Anyone that sits down across from me, is going to get a nice little chat while they wait for their train.
I will let you know how that one pans out.
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That sounds awesome! Hahahaha
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On December 31 2015 13:47 Ramiel wrote:
Also, I saw something online that I just have to try.
I ordered a folding chair (2) and a table. I have a white cloth, and am going to make a sign. On the sign- its going to say 'Date while you wait'
I am going to go to one of the busiest underground subway stations in chicago, and set up shop for a few hours. Anyone that sits down across from me, is going to get a nice little chat while they wait for their train.
I will let you know how that one pans out.
you have too much free time
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Nah, just need to decide how to utilize it Its only 2 hours, so less than a marathon gaming session. However it is nice when you only have to work 3 days a week
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Penis in vagina. I repeat, PENIS WAS IN VAGINA. I am honestly terrible at sex, at least the penentration part due to me coming within like 30 seconds, but whatever, I will get better with practice. Plus, I hadn't fapped for a few days.
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Nooo... our mascot 
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Gratz Bloodwhore. Now we have to talk stock and elect a new mascot. Who are our candidates? Tiebreaker is decided by the ex-mascot, Bloodwhore.
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Start solving difficult math problems if you're getting too close, that usually does the trick for me xD
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On December 31 2015 19:08 Laurens wrote:
Start solving difficult math problems if you're getting too close, that usually does the trick for me xD
I actually don't understand how coming too soon can be even an issue? I mean you do it, go again when ready.
Does anyone last like super short time even on the e.g. 5th time during the night? Or do you really fail to get a boner 30 minutes after you lasted only 30 seconds?
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On December 31 2015 13:47 Ramiel wrote:
Also, I saw something online that I just have to try.
I ordered a folding chair (2) and a table. I have a white cloth, and am going to make a sign. On the sign- its going to say 'Date while you wait'
I am going to go to one of the busiest underground subway stations in chicago, and set up shop for a few hours. Anyone that sits down across from me, is going to get a nice little chat while they wait for their train.
I will let you know how that one pans out.
Sounds awesome man!
And lol @too much free time. Things like these are that move your life forward way faster than gaming/reading the news even most 2hours of work can.
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On December 31 2015 19:36 LemOn wrote: Congrats champ! Details please! :D
Evening started with us talking a bit, then we started watching a movie and cuddling. After the movie we made out, I went down on her for a while then I inserted penis and came really fast, and that was it. I have had aproximately 0 appetite for food these last 3 days so I wasn't feeling very good, otherwise I might have tried to go for another round. This morning we started cuddling again and I went down on her again (until she came?), I don't know if she did but she told me to stop and seemed pleased. I think she wanted me to get off to but I told her it wasn't going up, I wasn't feeling it, had barely eaten anything the day before so I had zero energy left and my dick was like at 70% the last night. At that point she just thanked me for doing it and we started cuddling again.
By the way, I asked her if I should use a condom and she said "do whatever you like", so I didn't use one. Maybe was a bad move but I felt like I would have lost my boner if I tried to put on a condom, and my dick was flimsy as it were too lol. Probably will go get checked in a while.
On December 31 2015 19:43 LemOn wrote:
I actually don't understand how coming too soon can be even an issue? I mean you do it, go again when ready.
Does anyone last like super short time even on the e.g. 5th time during the night? Or do you really fail to get a boner 30 minutes after you lasted only 30 seconds?
I don't think it would have been much of an issue if I had my appetite and had energy, she didn't really seem to mind that I blew it fast it either though so wasn't a big deal, I guess I'm used to failures by now .
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bloodwhore you just lost all your fans in this thread. you are nothing to us now
side note: i would always recommend using a condom for people who have trouble with premature ejaculation. you probably didnt know you would come so fast (or maybe you did), but desensitising always helps.
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Also when hooking up with ppl from Tinder.. come on man xD
Definitely get checked out.
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