EPT
is it ok to like a slut? - Page 4
| Forum Index > Closed |
|
C)R
Canada549 Posts
| ||
|
C)R
Canada549 Posts
On August 06 2003 16:13 ObsoleteLogic wrote: SurG, ever stop to think that maybe every time you wnat to fuck your girlfriend, it is objectification? I feel sorry for u  | ||
|
Refrain[FriZ]
Canada4337 Posts
Serious relationships are indeed a very serious thing and should not be dealt with lightly. It's a very intimate connection with another fellow human being with all the same feelings, emotions, intelligence. I think that if you meet a girl you really, truly like and really, truly feel attracted to, you won't immediately just have an instinct or urge to have intercourse. If you really love this girl, you'll want to have a loving(no this does not mean sex every day), lasting relationship with her. (aka being with her, doing things with her.(NO NOT SEX) Sex is a very intimate form of showing love to one another, both members should feel comfortable with it, and should trust each other very deeply; and should only be done when you both members genuinly feel that they're looking for another way to show their love to one another. Sex is only a 'byproduct' of a seriously intimate, true relationship and when it is, it can be very 'safe' as both members will be completely honest towards feelings on many perspectives on it. I think that when you really love a girl, you'll admire her for her general beauty (not for her "hotness" or whatever), her personality, feelings, and learn to respect her as a fellow being. :grammatical errors kaka: | ||
|
GoSexyPerli
United States1072 Posts
| ||
|
Vharon
United States84 Posts
On August 06 2003 15:03 ObsoleteLogic wrote: Stupid, stupid, and uh... stupid. I know I'm in the extreme minority on this forum, being a conservative, but for god's sake... can't you people keep it in your pants? Think with your head, not with your cock. Not with BigBalls cock, either. By "take advantage of it", he really means, "take advantage of her." If you're going to have cheap, meaningless sex, find a prostitute. That way you're only inflicting idiocy on yourself. heh, don't worry i'm one of the few conservatives too. I agree with Obsolete, dont be a whore. | ||
|
Vharon
United States84 Posts
On August 06 2003 15:06 Liquid`Drone wrote: yeah obsolete thats a stupid attitude. go for it, you're gonna regret it if you don't. ^_^ How was that a stupid attitude? That was a bad statement. | ||
|
Maenander
Germany4926 Posts
On August 06 2003 17:23 C)R wrote: k for 16 that is pretty good, just use her for a bit, if you don't u'll regret it, trust me. It seems harsh but when you get older u'll realise that people use eachother all the time I dont like such thoughts  | ||
|
C)R
Canada549 Posts
| ||
|
Vharon
United States84 Posts
same... | ||
|
Maenander
Germany4926 Posts
Ever heard of women thinking for themselves, who maybe want sex like in this case ? | ||
|
fuqin-suck
United States142 Posts
but definitely bang the shit out of her. | ||
|
ObsoleteLogic
United States3676 Posts
On August 06 2003 18:18 Maenander wrote: Some people here speak of using girls, or taking advantage of them, or "objectification". Ever heard of women thinking for themselves, who maybe want sex like in this case ? That would be objectification of the man. It works both ways. <3 to Vharon. | ||
|
Lockdown-
United States297 Posts
i completly agree | ||
|
MusiK[WG]
United States54 Posts
1st off perli, it does sound like ur kinda lookin for a relationship, if thats the case then go for a nicer chick not a slut, but also knowing ur 16, ill say at least do her once or twice, don't do her too many times, u might start fallin for her and trust me u DONT WANT TO FALL IN LOVE WITH HER, u said she has a nice personality, fun to be around and to talk to, and im guessin shes gonna be real good with the sex. All have a makin of someone any guy will fall hard in love with. This is where my xperince comes in, as u start to like her, u will find out more things about her past that you wont like and its gonna eat u up so bad inside especially if u fall in love with her. And knowin that shes a slut, shes most likely goin to break ur heart in the future which in turn will fuck u up more . Trust me on that, i won't call my ex a slut, she was a nice girl when we met, but after we hooked up and fell in love and everything else, i found out some things she had done in the past, things that i'm not gonna say , this led me to not trustin her and always accusin her of cheatin and stuff, she eventually broke up with me...Good for me right? No...Why? cuz i was fuckin in love with her so fuckin much, we broke up 3 months ago, i still havent moved on from her, she does want to get back together but who knows. back to u Considerin ur only 16 (btw im 22) its highly likely u wont get heartbroken in the future if u fall in love with her and she leaves or somthin. And Bigballs is right, if anythin, u will learn a lot from her if u 2 do get in a relationship, but from ur 1st post it kinda sounds like ur a nice guy who is lookin for a relationship with our kate lol, like not the type bigball's wrote his post for, so i'm kinda worried for u In conclusion, ur only 16 do her at least twice, if u want a nice girl, dont have a relationship with her, find someone betta, every girl is crazy when it comes to sex, some u gotta bring it out of them, others like our friend kate dont need that help. so if its the sex and looks, im sure u can find someone who is nicer and not a slut. And also go with ur heart and do what will make u happy. U cant go wrong with either decision, just know the consequencies of each one. 1 | ||
|
Capn
United States539 Posts
On August 06 2003 17:47 GoSexyPerli wrote: i have stated that i dont like her only for her hotness.... She has a great personality, easy to talk to, funny, etc. Its icing on the cake. Then go for it. How is this using the girl? She wants him, he wants her...sounds pretty simple to me what you should do. Plus, you're in high school...have some fun. You don't need to be searching for the perfect relationship right now. | ||
|
Vharon
United States84 Posts
On August 06 2003 18:54 Capn wrote: Then go for it. How is this using the girl? She wants him, he wants her...sounds pretty simple to me what you should do. Plus, you're in high school...have some fun. You don't need to be searching for the perfect relationship right now. nor do you want to mess with whores... conservatives will be coming around the mountain when they come... coming around the mountain when they come... | ||
|
Vharon
United States84 Posts
On August 06 2003 18:47 Lockdown- wrote: Obsolete Logic i admire your morals and values i completly agree same | ||
|
Maenander
Germany4926 Posts
On August 06 2003 18:34 ObsoleteLogic wrote: That would be objectification of the man. It works both ways. So sex is all "objectification" in ur eyes. Hmmm. Not for me. | ||
|
ObsoleteLogic
United States3676 Posts
| ||
|
Vharon
United States84 Posts
On August 06 2003 19:03 ObsoleteLogic wrote: Don't take relationship advice from a guy who has "From personal experience, i have come to the conclusion that there is no such thing as real love, only a strong sense of infatuation and likeness towards another individual," as his signature... hahahah | ||
| ||
