is it ok to like a slut? - Page 6

On August 06 2003 20:47 YouTopia[SB] wrote:
Hahahha BigBalls's comments are fun to read just because of that spacebar :-o

On August 06 2003 19:03 Maenander wrote:

So sex is all "objectification" in ur eyes. Hmmm.
Not for me.

On August 06 2003 21:07 ObsoleteLogic wrote:


No; sex between two people who sincerely love each other is not. However, I feel as though there is some discord on what mine and your defintions of love would be.

In my eyes:

The only thing that is truely 100% ours, that can't be taken away from us, is our will (except perhaps by death, but no one knows). You can give someone your mind, your body, all your thoughts, everything in the world, but all of that can be taken away, perverted, twisted, or turned malign. Thus the only thing you can really give someone, that no one else can stop you from, is your will. To go ahead and make the choice to continue acting with love towards that person, even though you don't feel like it. Because, face it - some days, some weeks, months, or even years, you may not feel like it. Ask any couple that has been together long enough, and they'll say that its true. In archaic languages, such as Greek and Aramaic, they had multiple words for "love"; eros - physical, philios - fraternal, and agave (agape) - choice.

Conclusion - Love, true love, has all three qualities. Each requires the other to function as it should, within the whole.

On August 06 2003 20:59 Vicious)Soul wrote:


didn't claim to be

but at least everyone else here is just giving advice, you're trying to force an ideal down his throat and that's not exactly the most moral action either.

On August 06 2003 21:11 ObsoleteLogic wrote:
Lust is purely physical. True love is physical, fraternal (not actually brotherly, but, you know what I mean. The love you have for a friend), and the love of choice (so that you act within the first two even when you don't feel like it)

On August 06 2003 21:10 ObsoleteLogic wrote:


I'm not trying to force it down his throat, and the manner in which I am speaking is no different than BigBalls. You just disagree with me, so you resort to the age old attack of, essentially, calling me a moral fascist.

On August 06 2003 21:12 BigBalls wrote:


wrong, spitting, swallowing and gargling

muahahhahaha

On August 06 2003 21:17 ObsoleteLogic wrote:
Well you certainly insinuated it. Theres a fine line between advice and opinions, but I think its already pretty clearly established that we're hardly even talking about the original post anymore (:

800th post :O

On August 06 2003 21:19 Vicious)Soul wrote:
People never learn from the lives of others.