• Log InLog In
  • Register
Liquid`
Team Liquid Liquipedia
EST 18:30
CET 00:30
KST 08:30
  • Home
  • Forum
  • Calendar
  • Streams
  • Liquipedia
  • Features
  • Store
  • EPT
  • TL+
  • StarCraft 2
  • Brood War
  • Smash
  • Heroes
  • Counter-Strike
  • Overwatch
  • Liquibet
  • Fantasy StarCraft
  • TLPD
  • StarCraft 2
  • Brood War
  • Blogs
Forum Sidebar
Events/Features
News
Featured News
RSL Revival - 2025 Season Finals Preview8RSL Season 3 - Playoffs Preview0RSL Season 3 - RO16 Groups C & D Preview0RSL Season 3 - RO16 Groups A & B Preview2TL.net Map Contest #21: Winners12
Community News
Weekly Cups (Dec 15-21): Classic wins big, MaxPax & Clem take weeklies3ComeBackTV's documentary on Byun's Career !10Weekly Cups (Dec 8-14): MaxPax, Clem, Cure win4Weekly Cups (Dec 1-7): Clem doubles, Solar gets over the hump1Weekly Cups (Nov 24-30): MaxPax, Clem, herO win2
StarCraft 2
General
Weekly Cups (Dec 15-21): Classic wins big, MaxPax & Clem take weeklies ComeBackTV's documentary on Byun's Career ! Micro Lags When Playing SC2? When will we find out if there are more tournament Weekly Cups (Dec 8-14): MaxPax, Clem, Cure win
Tourneys
$100 Prize Pool - Winter Warp Gate Masters Showdow $5,000+ WardiTV 2025 Championship Sparkling Tuna Cup - Weekly Open Tournament Winter Warp Gate Amateur Showdown #1 RSL Offline Finals Info - Dec 13 and 14!
Strategy
Custom Maps
Map Editor closed ?
External Content
Mutation # 505 Rise From Ashes Mutation # 504 Retribution Mutation # 503 Fowl Play Mutation # 502 Negative Reinforcement
Brood War
General
BW General Discussion BGH Auto Balance -> http://bghmmr.eu/ Anyone remember me from 2000s Bnet EAST server? soO on: FanTaSy's Potential Return to StarCraft Klaucher discontinued / in-game color settings
Tourneys
[Megathread] Daily Proleagues [BSL21] LB QuarterFinals - Sunday 21:00 CET Small VOD Thread 2.0 [BSL21] WB SEMIFINALS - Saturday 21:00 CET
Strategy
Simple Questions, Simple Answers Game Theory for Starcraft Current Meta Fighting Spirit mining rates
Other Games
General Games
Nintendo Switch Thread Stormgate/Frost Giant Megathread Beyond All Reason Path of Exile General RTS Discussion Thread
Dota 2
Official 'what is Dota anymore' discussion
League of Legends
Heroes of the Storm
Simple Questions, Simple Answers Heroes of the Storm 2.0
Hearthstone
Deck construction bug Heroes of StarCraft mini-set
TL Mafia
Mafia Game Mode Feedback/Ideas Survivor II: The Amazon Sengoku Mafia TL Mafia Community Thread
Community
General
US Politics Mega-thread The Games Industry And ATVI Things Aren’t Peaceful in Palestine Russo-Ukrainian War Thread YouTube Thread
Fan Clubs
White-Ra Fan Club
Media & Entertainment
Anime Discussion Thread [Manga] One Piece Movie Discussion!
Sports
2024 - 2026 Football Thread Formula 1 Discussion
World Cup 2022
Tech Support
Computer Build, Upgrade & Buying Resource Thread
TL Community
The Automated Ban List TL+ Announced Where to ask questions and add stream?
Blogs
The (Hidden) Drug Problem in…
TrAiDoS
I decided to write a webnov…
DjKniteX
James Bond movies ranking - pa…
Topin
Thanks for the RSL
Hildegard
Customize Sidebar...

Website Feedback

Closed Threads



Active: 1231 users

School Shooting in Ohio - 3 Dead, 2 Injured - Page 13

Forum Index > Closed
Post a Reply
Prev 1 11 12 13 14 15 28 Next All
As always, with topics as complex and sensitive as these, please take a minute to think before you post. If this thread is to stay open the following must be avoided:

- Disrespect to any of the parties involved (be it the bullies or bullied)

The above includes:
- Justifying or glorifying death or suicide as deserved
- Disregarding or belittling the circumstances that give rise to these situations

There's a reason why these discussions are always so sensitive. There are extremes on either side of the discussion that are disrespectful and narrow-minded in their own ways; the best approach is to carefully consider the other side before posting

Warnings and bans will be handed out for unreasoned and insensitive statements.
sevencck
Profile Joined August 2011
Canada704 Posts
February 27 2012 23:02 GMT
#241
On February 28 2012 07:47 liberal wrote:
Show nested quote +
On February 28 2012 07:39 sevencck wrote:
I'd say society is to blame more than the school.

To me, this is the same thing as saying "no one is to blame." You have to explicitly state who is responsible for this type of thing, or no one is. Clearly a school should deal with bullying, but the real question is how parents could raise a child that would commit these sorts of crimes.


So if there was no bullying in schools would that be to the school's credit or society's credit? A school in the US can no more be made responsible for eliminating bullying than a school in Afghanistan can be made responsible for eliminating sexism. These are more complicated social phenomena than that. Maybe the source of the bullying was something related to a social construct -- i.e. something society has placed importance on. Putting ownership for this problem at somebody's doorstep is just looking for a scapegoat and denying that you're a small part of a bigger problem. Are the parents partly responsible? For allowing the kid to get a hold of a gun absolutely, but I had very responsible parents and I still did stupid things as a kid that my parents never found out about, they had no way of finding out about, and that would have been difficult to control. How much responsibility can you just automatically put on the parents plate? The schools? Society's emphasis on gun ownership and self defense might have something to do with it too you know.
I like to think that the moon is there even if I am not looking at it. -Albert Einstein
Kernalkraze
Profile Joined February 2011
United States20 Posts
February 27 2012 23:03 GMT
#242
Some of the kids in the school have reportedly been claiming he wasn't bullied.. Said he was just quiet.

Maybe he was an extreme introvert and lashed out on a single altercation. As of yet we do not know, so maybe we should just wait a while before we condone the murder and maiming of 5 people.
Life is a funny proposition afterall
rhs408
Profile Joined January 2011
United States904 Posts
February 27 2012 23:05 GMT
#243
FYI the headline on CNN right now is "Alleged suspect bullied for his clothes" (which were apparently "goth")
tMomiji
Profile Blog Joined July 2011
United States1115 Posts
February 27 2012 23:06 GMT
#244
On February 28 2012 07:48 Spekulatius wrote:
Show nested quote +
On February 28 2012 07:35 Endymion wrote:
On February 28 2012 07:31 Kamais Ookin wrote:
On February 28 2012 07:28 Endymion wrote:
On February 28 2012 07:27 Kamais Ookin wrote:
On February 28 2012 07:23 Endymion wrote:
i really don't get how people sympathize with the gunmen... he ended someones life, tried to kill 4 others, and people are saying "oh it was because he was bullied.." fuck this kid, you should feel bad for all of the people getting bullied who are nice enough to not shoot up a school.. oh well, it's easy to be anonymous on the internet

edit ~ violence shouldn't be met with more violence, it should be met with reason and order... we aren't barbarians.
Oh really? How come the school doesn't step up to the plate and offer reason and order? Parents? Adults? Any classmates? ANYONE?!


yeah, they're at fault. does this mean bringing a gun in to shoot someone deserves our pride and empathy?
No it doesn't and no one in this thread to my knowledge has said that shooting them was the right thing to do. However, what are your solutions to the victim of bullies as no one gives a single fuck? Should he have committed suicide? Should he just get bullied forever?


I don't know, how does everyone deal with bullying? it's part of human life, when you come in to contact with others it tends to happen because people are egocentric and stupid. it doesn't end at the end of highschool.. i don't see people walking around with glocks in nyc because they want to shoot some random person being rude to them, we live in civilization. use wit to get yourself out of these situations, not violence.. and people ARE being empathetic towards the shooter, just like they were towards columbine and towards virginia tech..

Thing is, it's not the witty guys or those who know an elegant way out of a tricky situation that get bullied.

Show nested quote +
On February 28 2012 07:44 nimbus99 wrote:
On February 28 2012 04:33 OmiDeLta wrote:
On February 28 2012 04:26 SnipedSoul wrote:
How many more times is something like this going to happen before bullying is taken seriously?


^ This. Nobody wants to talk bad about victims but people really need to look at the truth. As someone who was bullied mercilessly in middle school I can say from experience that I know how these kids who snap feel - and honestly given my warped state of mind back then, if I had managed to get my hands on a gun, I might very well have gone the same way. Doesn't make it right, obviously, but these kids are at their wit's end.


Excuse me? I find it odd how you would admit you were close to killing people. Really scares me, especially the "if i had managed to get my hands on a gun" part. I think showing some consideration for the shooter is not far fetched, but you went too far in relating to him.

He's just stating what he felt back then. It might scare you but if that's what was going through his head, why shouldn't be allowed to say that?


Aww thanks, man. Yeah, point is, I seem normal and happy now but man seven years ago...wow I shiver to think of it. It was not pretty. Looking at myself back then, I can only come up with the word "deranged". Bullying does weird things to your head...especially if nothing's done about it.
"I wonder if there is a league below copper? If so, I would like to inhabit it." -TotalBiscuit "In the event of a sudden change in cabin pressure, ROOF FLIES OFF!" -George Carlin <3 HerO <3 Kiwikaki <3 MKP
Rafael
Profile Joined January 2011
Venezuela182 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-02-27 23:07:42
February 27 2012 23:07 GMT
#245
Not mean to bash.

But why this happen often in your schools?
rhs408
Profile Joined January 2011
United States904 Posts
February 27 2012 23:09 GMT
#246
On February 28 2012 08:07 Rafael wrote:
Not mean to bash.

But why this happen often in your schools?

My guess is because of all the attention it receives... shoot up a school and ruin your life, but at least you get 15 minutes of fame?
Bill Murray
Profile Blog Joined October 2009
United States9292 Posts
February 27 2012 23:13 GMT
#247
no comment
University of Kentucky Basketball #1
KudosX
Profile Joined November 2010
United States69 Posts
February 27 2012 23:13 GMT
#248
On February 28 2012 08:09 rhs408 wrote:
Show nested quote +
On February 28 2012 08:07 Rafael wrote:
Not mean to bash.

But why this happen often in your schools?

My guess is because of all the attention it receives... shoot up a school and ruin your life, but at least you get 15 minutes of fame?


I agree with this, and I also think it is because bullying is very prevalent in US schools, and it is often disregarded by people of authority in schools.

While I was growing up, I knew of MANY kids who got bullied, including myself (although I wasn't bullied nearly as bad as other people I knew), and the authorities at school rarely did anything about it.

When kids hit an absolute bottom, sometimes the worst happens, it's sad, but true.
liberal
Profile Joined November 2011
1116 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-02-27 23:16:20
February 27 2012 23:13 GMT
#249
Shooter is identified as T.J. Lane.

According to a couple sites there is a message on his facebook:

+ Show Spoiler +
In a time long since, a time of repent, The Renaissance. In a quaint lonely town, sits a man with a frown. No job. No family. No crown. His luck had run out. Lost and alone. The streets were his home. His thoughts would solely consist of "why do we exist?" His only company to confide in was the vermin in the street. He longed for only one thing, the world to bow at his feet. They too should feel his secret fear. The dismal drear. His pain had made him sincere. He was better than the rest, allthose ones he detests, within their castles, so vain. Selfish and conceited. They couldn't care less about the peasents they mistreated. They were in their own world, it was a joyous one too. That castle, she stood just to do all she could to keep the peasents at bay, not the enemy away. They had no enemies in their filthy orgy. And in her, the castles every story, was just another chamber of Lucifer's Laboratory. The world is a sandbox for all the wretched sinners. They simply create what they want and make themselves the winners. But the true winner, he has nothing at all. Enduring the pain of waiting for that castle to fall. Through his good deeds, the rats and the fleas. He will have for what he pleads, through the eradication of disease. So, to the castle he proceeds, like an ominous breeze through the trees. "Stay back!" The Guards screamed as they were thrown to their knees. "Oh God, have mercy, please!" The castle, she gasped and then so imprisoned her breath, to the shallow confines of her fragile chest. I'm on the lamb but I ain't no sheep. I am Death. And you have always been the sod. So repulsive and so odd. You never even deserved the presence of God, and yet, I am here. Around your cradle I plod. Came on foot, without shod. How improper, how rude. However, they shall not mind the mud on my feet if there is blood on your sheet. Now! Feel death, not just mocking you. Not just stalking you but inside of you. Wriggle and writhe. Feel smaller beneath my might. Seizure in the Pestilence that is my scythe. Die, all of you.


Edit: Hmmm apparently this photo is wrong.

Sources:
http://news.blogs.cnn.com/2012/02/27/shooting-reported-at-ohio-high-school/?hpt=hp_t1
http://www.wtam.com/cc-common/news/sections/newsarticle.html?feed=104668&article=9818809
http://mashable.com/2012/02/27/ohio-school-shooter-facebook/
kittensrcute
Profile Joined August 2010
United States617 Posts
February 27 2012 23:17 GMT
#250
On February 28 2012 08:13 liberal wrote:
Shooter is identified as T.J. Lane.

According to a couple sites there is a message on his facebook:

+ Show Spoiler +
In a time long since, a time of repent, The Renaissance. In a quaint lonely town, sits a man with a frown. No job. No family. No crown. His luck had run out. Lost and alone. The streets were his home. His thoughts would solely consist of "why do we exist?" His only company to confide in was the vermin in the street. He longed for only one thing, the world to bow at his feet. They too should feel his secret fear. The dismal drear. His pain had made him sincere. He was better than the rest, allthose ones he detests, within their castles, so vain. Selfish and conceited. They couldn't care less about the peasents they mistreated. They were in their own world, it was a joyous one too. That castle, she stood just to do all she could to keep the peasents at bay, not the enemy away. They had no enemies in their filthy orgy. And in her, the castles every story, was just another chamber of Lucifer's Laboratory. The world is a sandbox for all the wretched sinners. They simply create what they want and make themselves the winners. But the true winner, he has nothing at all. Enduring the pain of waiting for that castle to fall. Through his good deeds, the rats and the fleas. He will have for what he pleads, through the eradication of disease. So, to the castle he proceeds, like an ominous breeze through the trees. "Stay back!" The Guards screamed as they were thrown to their knees. "Oh God, have mercy, please!" The castle, she gasped and then so imprisoned her breath, to the shallow confines of her fragile chest. I'm on the lamb but I ain't no sheep. I am Death. And you have always been the sod. So repulsive and so odd. You never even deserved the presence of God, and yet, I am here. Around your cradle I plod. Came on foot, without shod. How improper, how rude. However, they shall not mind the mud on my feet if there is blood on your sheet. Now! Feel death, not just mocking you. Not just stalking you but inside of you. Wriggle and writhe. Feel smaller beneath my might. Seizure in the Pestilence that is my scythe. Die, all of you.


Edit: Hmmm apparently this photo is wrong.

Sources:
http://news.blogs.cnn.com/2012/02/27/shooting-reported-at-ohio-high-school/?hpt=hp_t1
http://www.wtam.com/cc-common/news/sections/newsarticle.html?feed=104668&article=9818809
http://mashable.com/2012/02/27/ohio-school-shooter-facebook/

Shit, some people are so fucked up. I hate reading about this stuff. That FB message is pretty ridiculous, it's too bad that people who are this fucked in the brain get a hold of guns and hurt innocent people.
Kernalkraze
Profile Joined February 2011
United States20 Posts
February 27 2012 23:19 GMT
#251
Kid shoulda used his fists instead of a gun. I've been on both the recieving end of bullying and i've also partaken in it.

In 6th grade we had a kid in class who would jump at every opportunity to get me and my friends in trouble. Long story short.. this resulted in his 6th grade year being absolute hell.

Later in HS as a freshman, A senior on the football team decided one day he was going to make my life a living hell. It culminated in me being shoved into a group of girls who where sitting eating lunch. I responded by kneeing him in the nuts and was never bothered again.

I understand both sides of this problem, and no matter how I look at it.. This murderer was a coward.
Life is a funny proposition afterall
Slithe
Profile Blog Joined February 2007
United States985 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-02-27 23:25:01
February 27 2012 23:24 GMT
#252
My train of thought:

1) Another school shooting, what a douche.
2) Oh he was bullied? Well that's a little more understandable. Bullies are douches
3) Well the bullies were probably raised in a poor environment. The parents must be douches.
4) The parents are probably a product of a terrible system that is simply cycling around. Society is a douche.
5) This line of thinking is worthless...

I think putting the blame of this tragedy on the shooter, the victims, or any other person or group of people is the wrong mindset here. The point is we have to stop the chain of events somewhere, whether it be with teacher intervention, better parenting, etc. Unfortunately, it's not exactly an easy problem to solve.

On February 28 2012 07:23 Endymion wrote:
i really don't get how people sympathize with the gunmen... he ended someones life, tried to kill 4 others, and people are saying "oh it was because he was bullied.." fuck this kid, you should feel bad for all of the people getting bullied who are nice enough to not shoot up a school.. oh well, it's easy to be anonymous on the internet

edit ~ violence shouldn't be met with more violence, it should be met with reason and order... we aren't barbarians.


It's also a lot easier to be so logical and calm when you're on the internet too. We're not barbarians, but we're not robots either. Especially with adolescents, how can you expect them to be the most logical beings when they are placed under repeated stress, with no easy escape?
kellenr
Profile Joined February 2012
98 Posts
February 27 2012 23:27 GMT
#253
On February 28 2012 07:45 Spekulatius wrote:
Show nested quote +
On February 28 2012 07:38 kellenr wrote:
On February 28 2012 07:31 Spekulatius wrote:
On February 28 2012 07:23 Endymion wrote:
i really don't get how people sympathize with the gunmen... he ended someones life, tried to kill 4 others, and people are saying "oh it was because he was bullied.." fuck this kid, you should feel bad for all of the people getting bullied who are nice enough to not shoot up a school.. oh well, it's easy to be anonymous on the internet

edit ~ violence shouldn't be met with more violence, it should be met with reason and order... we aren't barbarians.

I think we have a big misunderstanding in this thread. You can't deny the bolded statement if the media coverage isn't total crap.

1) The bullying was the cause of the shooting. That's kinda clear.

2) People feel sympathy for the shooter because he was bullied. Of course this causes more empathy because the shooter was a former victim. Even more so since many of us have gone through the same pain.

3) The related, yet to be separately answered question is that of the justification. And I don't even think there's a lot of disagreement there. Of course shooting someone for bullying you, no matter the duration and severity, is not justified. But given the backstory, it's easily explainable. People just need to stop confusing explanation and justification.


You cannot say bullying was the cause at this point!! Did you even follow Columbine?? Everyone jumped on the bully bandwagon within MINUTES. There was literally a whole, national campaign against bullying. But guess what... that's not why they did it! Eric was the most stereotypical psychopath EVER. He had no empathy, he hated the human race, he believed in natural selection, and he wanted to be infamous. He was an adept liar and he spent all his spare time making pipe bombs in his basement. Eric was dating like a 23 year old girl, Dylan had a date to prom! These kids were not the big losers they were made out to be. Eric was a classic psychopath and Dylan was a suicidal follower.

I'm not saying bullying wasn't the cause, i'm saying we can't know conclusively yet if it was.

a) So if the cause was bullying, would you agree with me?

b) That's why I included "if the media coverage isn't total crap" in my post. We can only discuss the information that's being given to us right now. We shouldn't be taking too much from Columbine or Virginia Tech as they're particular cases. If there are patterns in school shooters' characters that lead to those shootings, fine, we can cautiously use them to analyse the Ohio shooting at hand. But what we have so far is "bullied student shoots his bully + collateral damage". And that's what being talked about, right? If we were supposed to shut up until the situation is cleared up entirely in some months' time, this thread wouldn't be open.


Yes if the investigation concludes it was bullying, I will agree that that was the motive. But I don't feel any sympathy for a guy that brings a gun to school and starts shooting his peers, regardless of the "reasons" he did it. Zilch, zero, nada.

I will feel sorry for the victims that where shot, killed and maimed, and only those said victims.

I'm just baffled I seem to be in the minority.
Spekulatius
Profile Joined January 2011
Germany2413 Posts
February 27 2012 23:28 GMT
#254
On February 28 2012 08:19 Kernalkraze wrote:
Kid shoulda used his fists instead of a gun. I've been on both the recieving end of bullying and i've also partaken in it.

In 6th grade we had a kid in class who would jump at every opportunity to get me and my friends in trouble. Long story short.. this resulted in his 6th grade year being absolute hell.

Later in HS as a freshman, A senior on the football team decided one day he was going to make my life a living hell. It culminated in me being shoved into a group of girls who where sitting eating lunch. I responded by kneeing him in the nuts and was never bothered again.

I understand both sides of this problem, and no matter how I look at it.. This murderer was a coward.

No case of bullying is like the other.

There was one guy against you and your friends in 6th grade? And then later in HS there was again, one guy against you? I don't know how your situation was, but your reaction (kick in the nuts) made it seem like you were somewhat clear-headed and not totally intimidated. Not saying that this T.J. guy was, but just imagine he had it way worse than you. E.g. bullied by more people, more thoroughly, no friends, no family to back him up and a shy and easily intimated person. How's that look now?

Again, not saying that's how it was. But from your story alone (plus given the fact that you admit having participated in bullying yourself) you can't say how he was supposed to react or, more importantly, how he was capable to react.
Always smile~
Nazeron
Profile Joined September 2010
Canada1046 Posts
February 27 2012 23:28 GMT
#255
heard about this at work today, absolutely terrible. hate to see something like this happen
(╯°□°)╯︵ ┻━┻ ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Spekulatius
Profile Joined January 2011
Germany2413 Posts
February 27 2012 23:30 GMT
#256
On February 28 2012 08:27 kellenr wrote:
Show nested quote +
On February 28 2012 07:45 Spekulatius wrote:
On February 28 2012 07:38 kellenr wrote:
On February 28 2012 07:31 Spekulatius wrote:
On February 28 2012 07:23 Endymion wrote:
i really don't get how people sympathize with the gunmen... he ended someones life, tried to kill 4 others, and people are saying "oh it was because he was bullied.." fuck this kid, you should feel bad for all of the people getting bullied who are nice enough to not shoot up a school.. oh well, it's easy to be anonymous on the internet

edit ~ violence shouldn't be met with more violence, it should be met with reason and order... we aren't barbarians.

I think we have a big misunderstanding in this thread. You can't deny the bolded statement if the media coverage isn't total crap.

1) The bullying was the cause of the shooting. That's kinda clear.

2) People feel sympathy for the shooter because he was bullied. Of course this causes more empathy because the shooter was a former victim. Even more so since many of us have gone through the same pain.

3) The related, yet to be separately answered question is that of the justification. And I don't even think there's a lot of disagreement there. Of course shooting someone for bullying you, no matter the duration and severity, is not justified. But given the backstory, it's easily explainable. People just need to stop confusing explanation and justification.


You cannot say bullying was the cause at this point!! Did you even follow Columbine?? Everyone jumped on the bully bandwagon within MINUTES. There was literally a whole, national campaign against bullying. But guess what... that's not why they did it! Eric was the most stereotypical psychopath EVER. He had no empathy, he hated the human race, he believed in natural selection, and he wanted to be infamous. He was an adept liar and he spent all his spare time making pipe bombs in his basement. Eric was dating like a 23 year old girl, Dylan had a date to prom! These kids were not the big losers they were made out to be. Eric was a classic psychopath and Dylan was a suicidal follower.

I'm not saying bullying wasn't the cause, i'm saying we can't know conclusively yet if it was.

a) So if the cause was bullying, would you agree with me?

b) That's why I included "if the media coverage isn't total crap" in my post. We can only discuss the information that's being given to us right now. We shouldn't be taking too much from Columbine or Virginia Tech as they're particular cases. If there are patterns in school shooters' characters that lead to those shootings, fine, we can cautiously use them to analyse the Ohio shooting at hand. But what we have so far is "bullied student shoots his bully + collateral damage". And that's what being talked about, right? If we were supposed to shut up until the situation is cleared up entirely in some months' time, this thread wouldn't be open.


Yes if the investigation concludes it was bullying, I will agree that that was the motive. But I don't feel any sympathy for a guy that brings a gun to school and starts shooting his peers, regardless of the "reasons" he did it. Zilch, zero, nada.

I will feel sorry for the victims that where shot, killed and maimed, and only those said victims.

I'm just baffled I seem to be in the minority.

Ever been bullied? Ever had somewhat comparable feelings of loneliness, desperation and anger? If not, well, I'm not surprised you don't feel empathy.

Again, if that's what it was.
Always smile~
Symbioth
Profile Joined October 2011
Poland103 Posts
February 27 2012 23:31 GMT
#257
On February 28 2012 08:09 rhs408 wrote:
Show nested quote +
On February 28 2012 08:07 Rafael wrote:
Not mean to bash.

But why this happen often in your schools?

My guess is because of all the attention it receives... shoot up a school and ruin your life, but at least you get 15 minutes of fame?


That's a callous outlook, imo. Shooting people to get attention... there's more than that it imo but even if there wasn't, don't all of us have the need to be wanted ? If you don't get any attention, then you might get desperate and fall prey to insanity.

I mean, you don't go to your school and shoot people without a reason, do you ? Bullying doesn't have to be the reason - generally, there has to be something very, very wrong in the life of such an individual.

If you have companionship, friends, some meaningful relationships, perspectives, relatively decent life, then do you go and shoot people at school ? What kind of a healthy individual would do that ?

The tragedy occurs before the shooting, it's just that people see it when the shooting actually occurs. The shooting is just a culmination point where it manifests clearly.

It all comes down to these callous structures of society, imo. Really, such stuff wouldn't happen if people were a bit more caring.
ODKStevez
Profile Joined February 2011
Ireland1225 Posts
February 27 2012 23:46 GMT
#258
As someone who was bullied for over 16 years in school quite badly, things like this make me feel so lucky. It is a shame because Bullies are 100% at fault but there are reasons for their actions. Victims are just very unlucky and it is a shame that stuff like this has to happen. It's a waste of life. No one deserves to die in this world.
Luppa <3
kellenr
Profile Joined February 2012
98 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-02-27 23:49:16
February 27 2012 23:46 GMT
#259
On February 28 2012 08:07 Rafael wrote:
Not mean to bash.

But why this happen often in your schools?


I think I can answer this one pretty well. In Rampage: The Social Roots of School Shootings (The book resulted in a study mandated by congress to study the cause of school shootings, and their social ramifications)

Basically, there used to be very few school shootings, and it's because there was no "script." Originally, if someone wanted to haul off and murder a large number of their classmates, there wasn't an official social template to follow to make it happen. So, in the begining, the first school shooters used movies for their templates. Commonly sighted motivating movies relating to Columbine were "The Basketball Diaries" and "Natural Born Killers."

Now here's where things get really dangerous. Once a truly massive school shooting happened (Columbine) that garnered tremendous media attention, the new would-be shooters had a template -- but not just any template. They had a step by step plan recited to them by the news media on just exactly how to kill and maim as many as possible. This is why school shooting have progressively gotten worse. Because the template isn't just movies anymore, it's other school shootings.

And once that flood gate broke open, there was no stopping it. New school shooters borrow movites and ideas from old school shooters -- not only do they borrow, they expand the narrative, and write an even better template for the next shooter. They feel connected to each other and crave adulation.

But yeah, kids kill for all kinds of nutty reasons that don't make sense to you or I (mainly because we're normal, feeling, empathetic humans, and we assume others are as well. P.S. - they aren't.)

Anyone ever seen the documentary In Coldest Blood? These two kids murdered their close friend just for the fun of it. They made their own "horror" movie masks, broke into her house knowing her parents were out of town, and stabbed her like 20 times. They even filmed her the morning before they did it, at her locker. It's fucking chilling.

read about it here.

He said, "The horror and the pain she must of felt when the blades of those knives entered her body and she finally realized that she was being murdered by her friends is unimaginable."

Or just watch the documentary, it's even better.
kellenr
Profile Joined February 2012
98 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-02-27 23:57:56
February 27 2012 23:54 GMT
#260
On February 28 2012 08:30 Spekulatius wrote:
Show nested quote +
On February 28 2012 08:27 kellenr wrote:
On February 28 2012 07:45 Spekulatius wrote:
On February 28 2012 07:38 kellenr wrote:
On February 28 2012 07:31 Spekulatius wrote:
On February 28 2012 07:23 Endymion wrote:
i really don't get how people sympathize with the gunmen... he ended someones life, tried to kill 4 others, and people are saying "oh it was because he was bullied.." fuck this kid, you should feel bad for all of the people getting bullied who are nice enough to not shoot up a school.. oh well, it's easy to be anonymous on the internet

edit ~ violence shouldn't be met with more violence, it should be met with reason and order... we aren't barbarians.

I think we have a big misunderstanding in this thread. You can't deny the bolded statement if the media coverage isn't total crap.

1) The bullying was the cause of the shooting. That's kinda clear.

2) People feel sympathy for the shooter because he was bullied. Of course this causes more empathy because the shooter was a former victim. Even more so since many of us have gone through the same pain.

3) The related, yet to be separately answered question is that of the justification. And I don't even think there's a lot of disagreement there. Of course shooting someone for bullying you, no matter the duration and severity, is not justified. But given the backstory, it's easily explainable. People just need to stop confusing explanation and justification.


You cannot say bullying was the cause at this point!! Did you even follow Columbine?? Everyone jumped on the bully bandwagon within MINUTES. There was literally a whole, national campaign against bullying. But guess what... that's not why they did it! Eric was the most stereotypical psychopath EVER. He had no empathy, he hated the human race, he believed in natural selection, and he wanted to be infamous. He was an adept liar and he spent all his spare time making pipe bombs in his basement. Eric was dating like a 23 year old girl, Dylan had a date to prom! These kids were not the big losers they were made out to be. Eric was a classic psychopath and Dylan was a suicidal follower.

I'm not saying bullying wasn't the cause, i'm saying we can't know conclusively yet if it was.

a) So if the cause was bullying, would you agree with me?

b) That's why I included "if the media coverage isn't total crap" in my post. We can only discuss the information that's being given to us right now. We shouldn't be taking too much from Columbine or Virginia Tech as they're particular cases. If there are patterns in school shooters' characters that lead to those shootings, fine, we can cautiously use them to analyse the Ohio shooting at hand. But what we have so far is "bullied student shoots his bully + collateral damage". And that's what being talked about, right? If we were supposed to shut up until the situation is cleared up entirely in some months' time, this thread wouldn't be open.


Yes if the investigation concludes it was bullying, I will agree that that was the motive. But I don't feel any sympathy for a guy that brings a gun to school and starts shooting his peers, regardless of the "reasons" he did it. Zilch, zero, nada.

I will feel sorry for the victims that where shot, killed and maimed, and only those said victims.

I'm just baffled I seem to be in the minority.

Ever been bullied? Ever had somewhat comparable feelings of loneliness, desperation and anger? If not, well, I'm not surprised you don't feel empathy.

Again, if that's what it was.


Ever been shot? Ever had a loved one shot? Do you know the feelings of pain and desperation they go through during reconstructive surgery?

If not, well, i'm not surprised you don't feel empathy for them. (wait, yes I am.)

Hiedeman reminded Judge McDermott, "He had no pity on Cassie Jo, he deserves no pity, he showed no mercy on September 22nd, 2006 and he deserves none."

Have fun feeling sorry for murderers. I, for one, will take no part in it.
Prev 1 11 12 13 14 15 28 Next All
Please log in or register to reply.
Live Events Refresh
Next event in 12h 30m
[ Submit Event ]
Live Streams
Refresh
StarCraft 2
PiGStarcraft442
elazer 123
StarCraft: Brood War
Artosis 418
910 49
Yoon 16
Dota 2
febbydoto21
League of Legends
C9.Mang0164
Super Smash Bros
hungrybox763
Mew2King63
Other Games
Grubby3395
tarik_tv2753
FrodaN1862
B2W.Neo606
shahzam334
mouzStarbuck243
RotterdaM163
XaKoH 143
Maynarde138
ViBE36
Organizations
Other Games
BasetradeTV73
StarCraft 2
angryscii 39
Blizzard YouTube
StarCraft: Brood War
BSLTrovo
sctven
[ Show 17 non-featured ]
StarCraft 2
• RyuSc2 60
• Hupsaiya 20
• LaughNgamezSOOP
• sooper7s
• AfreecaTV YouTube
• intothetv
• Kozan
• IndyKCrew
• Migwel
StarCraft: Brood War
• mYiSmile121
• Michael_bg 6
• XenOsky 1
• STPLYoutube
• ZZZeroYoutube
• BSLYoutube
Dota 2
• masondota22376
Other Games
• imaqtpie1851
Upcoming Events
WardiTV Invitational
12h 30m
Gerald vs YoungYakov
Spirit vs MaNa
SHIN vs Percival
Creator vs Scarlett
Replay Cast
1d 9h
WardiTV Invitational
1d 12h
ByuN vs Solar
Clem vs Classic
Cure vs herO
Reynor vs MaxPax
Replay Cast
3 days
Sparkling Tuna Cup
4 days
Krystianer vs TBD
TriGGeR vs SKillous
Percival vs TBD
ByuN vs Nicoract
Replay Cast
5 days
Wardi Open
5 days
Liquipedia Results

Completed

Proleague 2025-12-22
WardiTV 2025
META Madness #9

Ongoing

C-Race Season 1
IPSL Winter 2025-26
KCM Race Survival 2025 Season 4
BSL Season 21
Slon Tour Season 2
CSL Season 19: Qualifier 2
eXTREMESLAND 2025
SL Budapest Major 2025
ESL Impact League Season 8
BLAST Rivals Fall 2025
IEM Chengdu 2025
PGL Masters Bucharest 2025
Thunderpick World Champ.
CS Asia Championships 2025
ESL Pro League S22

Upcoming

CSL 2025 WINTER (S19)
BSL 21 Non-Korean Championship
Acropolis #4
IPSL Spring 2026
Bellum Gens Elite Stara Zagora 2026
HSC XXVIII
Big Gabe Cup #3
OSC Championship Season 13
Nations Cup 2026
ESL Pro League Season 23
PGL Cluj-Napoca 2026
IEM Kraków 2026
BLAST Bounty Winter 2026
BLAST Bounty Winter Qual
TLPD

1. ByuN
2. TY
3. Dark
4. Solar
5. Stats
6. Nerchio
7. sOs
8. soO
9. INnoVation
10. Elazer
1. Rain
2. Flash
3. EffOrt
4. Last
5. Bisu
6. Soulkey
7. Mini
8. Sharp
Sidebar Settings...

Advertising | Privacy Policy | Terms Of Use | Contact Us

Original banner artwork: Jim Warren
The contents of this webpage are copyright © 2025 TLnet. All Rights Reserved.