*Note: The following is completely true.
I met her for the last thursday the 18th.. in the weirdest of places.. Craigslist. Not in the Women for Men section.. but strictly platonic section, if it counts?
The whole backstory is I was watching my friends dogs during the day for his family for about 4 days, and i had absolutely nothing to do at his house but i had my phone but none of my friends wanted to text/chat, and there was no SC! How was i to spend my time?
I went on Craiglists to to find people who were in a similar situation. After two people.. one of whom was so boring and odd i could write a whole blog about that in itself.
But then I met her! Her story was she had just moved to Washington from North Carolina, less than a week ago on the day of her post, and wanted to meet people. Sounded legit to me!
I sent her an e-mail just about 7 sentences about myself real quick.. age, what kinda music i was into [Grunge], and so forth. She replied within an hour, and we started talking on AIM.
Honestly when we first started talking.. I thought she was a little weird. but way, way more interesting than the other people I'd talked to before her.
Anywho.. after about 3 hours of chatting I decided to go to bed.. only to awake the next day and couldnt stop thinking about our conversation. She was so.. funny, sly, witty, charming, sensitive? Seemingly the most amazing girl ever! (Sorry lilsusie, i still <3 you!)
I signed on later that night about 8 and she was on as well.. and we picked up wright where we left off.. talked for hours! I couldn't find any faults with her! She is into electronic digging everyone from Aphex Twin to Infected Mushroom, to Trentemoller. She even a history nut, admiring people such as Napoleon and Alexander.
Day 3.. Can't get her on my mind get on again that night and she's waiting for me? Another long conversation.. ended with "Get on tomorrow, ok I'll miss you <3"?
Yea you see that <3? so did I, haha, signs were going off in my mind! This is too great.. right?
Day 4.. we get to talking.. and alot of our past talk had been about her and she had passed the ball onto me.. I admitted to her.. how much i liked starcraft. How i would play trying in vain to be gosu, how i would stay up to 3 am some nights to watch the progamers live, how my favorite website was TL. Her Response..? "Thats Cute.. "
Yea.. apparently its cute to stay up to watch the mantoss play hear that? Of course its not really.. but she doesn't mind my hobby.. and that makes her all the more amazing!
Day 5.. Time is flying by.. all i can think of all day is i cant wait to talk to her again! Sure enough we talk again.. by the end of the conversation we both muster up.. "I like you" sort of statements.
Day 6-9 are irrelevant.. to sum it up its alot of I <3 you so so much baby.. dont judge me! We've seen pictures of each other (lol, even holding up signs saying yes this is me just to prove it).. we've talked on the phone.. we're just so so happy. Life is great She even makes my picture her background.
But disaster striked yesterday.. she didn't get on no call no text no nothing.. after worrying for several hours.. I get a text that was automatically delivered when i signed in.. saying.. quote on quote..
"THIS is *blanks* dad.. do not contact again.."
Oh snaps! Yea.. GG no re right? I couldn't think of anything to reply.. honestly I'm not sure why both of us are 18+.. but I've never got along with any of my GF's dad very well so I didn't wanna start this one of bad.. by talking back?
I told myself.. she'll get to me.. somehow.. she'll call me or text me or IM me when he's not around. but its the weekend. I quickly make a plan to call her monday when her dad's at work.
Today.. 11 days.. I miss her so much and i don't know how to proceed? I keep asking myself.. did her dad catch her talking to me and just not like it perhaps he saw her background? He did send a text straight to me.. did she tell him who I was?
Or maybe.. something completely unrelated happened at her house and shes just in trouble?
I log on AIM and there she is.. online. Yeah I'm aware it most likely isn't her she would have texted me or sent em a message while i was offline. But I decide to ask if its her anyways. The AIM service tells me teat almost instantly a message is being written by that account back to me.. after about 2 minutes.. I get the message.
"*blank* will not be using her computer.. for sometime..
I stare dumbfounded at the message its unfair! I write back..
"May I ever talk to *blank* again?"
The jerk signs off 20 seconds later leaving me unanswered.. at first i was mad but then i thought maybe it as good thing if he was really mad he would have told me off.. right?
20 minute later shes back.. or i should say he's back.. and hes just sitting there online I know its him.. but I'm not sure what to say or even if I should say anything.
I'm unsure of how to proceed.. I think this girl is the most amazing girl ever, I don't wanna lose contact with her.
Poll: What should I do?
(Vote): Wait till monday.. give her a call while the old mans at work.
(Vote): Talk to the old man on AIM
(Vote): Don't do anything.. she'll be back after sometime
(Vote): Wait for her to contact you.
(Vote): Take my advice in comments.
(Vote): Blog was way too LONG, didn't read.
Any advice would be very appreciated and well received.. no Chill and Plexa, I am not a troll. This is a true story that is really happening to me.