On June 29 2009 10:55 travis wrote:
this story is pretty weird

TBH i think there is a good chance she was just really lonely but met other people and isn't interested in you anymore.

I just think you should accept that as a possibility. meeting people online like this has its downfalls.

definitely not trying to say you should give up, though.

As Ulysses said in The Odyssey: "Fickle is the heart of a woman; ever-changing, and full of vice."

If this is true in real life, then how much truer it is on the internet!

But I think you should try talking to her "father", all the same.

vRoOk

United States1024 Posts

June 29 2009 23:51 GMT

#63

Ok.. I've decided since calling dint work I'm gonna try to talk to the father.. like clockwork he got online on at 4 which i assume is pretty close to when he gets home makes sense to me.

What should I say? Anyone?

Thanks to all

sprawlers

Norway439 Posts

June 30 2009 00:07 GMT

#64

Let it go. You've done your part, start training or something to get out your frustration and fill your time, not just sit there thinking, guessing what is happening, preparing what you are going to say if she calls back, etc.
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Odds are you will ignore all this and do exactly what I just said. Prove me wrong. please.

seRapH

United States9798 Posts

June 30 2009 03:06 GMT

#65

its def not her dad, but some guy who's jealous.

go kick his ass.

Sigh

Canada2433 Posts

June 30 2009 03:31 GMT

#66

What if she's using your dad as an excuse to get away from you? Lets hope that's not the case but it is a possibility, ive seen it happen haha.
Just wait till monday and give her a call and see what happens
GL man

R3condite

Korea (South)1541 Posts

June 30 2009 04:10 GMT

#67

hmm... i say u most likely got trolled by her brother...

but give her a call on monday and hopefully it'll be alrite? if not, there r plenty of fish in the sea

LaughingTulkas

United States1107 Posts

June 30 2009 04:56 GMT

#68

I would say if you are truly serious about pursuing this girl, your only real option is to try to set up a face to face meeting with the dad. If it were a daughter of mine, there's no way in any hell I would let her meet any guy she met over the internet, pictures or no pictures. She would be too precious, and not worth that kind of risk. Even if the risk is remote, it's too big a chance to take. Now if a guy was sincere enough to meet me I'd at least consider the possibility, but you can't really fault the dad here for being careful with the most precious thing in his life.

I'd try to prove your sincerity (and your age) by trying to set up a meeting with the dad where you can ask for permission to have a real date with his daughter. IMO, this is the only situation I can see you coming out of this with a serious, long-term chance with this girl. If you're into casual dating and stuff (I never was/will be) there are probably other work-arounds that may be viable, but long-term I can't think of any other scenarios but this one.

vRoOk

United States1024 Posts

June 30 2009 04:57 GMT

#69

Alright I'll call her again monday.. Or just wait to hear back.

Probe.

United States877 Posts

June 30 2009 07:25 GMT

#70

WATCH OUT FOR CHRIS HANSEN

bigsack

Korea (North)220 Posts

June 30 2009 08:45 GMT

#71

Here's what I don't understand, what possible gain would her dad have by being on her AIM account? I mean to me he won't gain anything, he should just delete her AIM account and take her computer away, that is what a protective father should do. I'm sorry Vrook, but I think she just isn't interested in continuing a relationship with you. I had 3 online relationships in high school, and they all turned out to be lies. Girls just want to get some attentions online because they feel lonely, someone to talk to, but when it come to committing a relationship as someone mentioned in this thread, they will just run away. If she reallys likes you, then of course she would try to find a fucken way (for example call you using the home phone when her dad is away) to contact you, but it seems to me she won't contact you, therefore it can only mean she's not interested anymore....so worse case scenerio is to move on. I hope she does contact you so I can be proven wrong because I do want to see a happy ending.

MoeMoeKyun

United States215 Posts

June 30 2009 14:21 GMT

#72

vRook keep us filled in, tell us what happened when you called her.

vRoOk

United States1024 Posts

June 30 2009 14:48 GMT

#73

On June 30 2009 16:25 Probe. wrote:
WATCH OUT FOR CHRIS HANSEN

Oh gaawd.. I will!

On June 30 2009 17:45 bigsack wrote:
Here's what I don't understand, what possible gain would her dad have by being on her AIM account?

I don't understand it too much either that's what i thought as well why doesntt he dad jsut take the computer away?

On June 30 2009 23:21 Caffeine_Free wrote:
vRook keep us filled in, tell us what happened when you called her.

I called her cellphone which i had texted 3 or so times in 4 days. Only to get no response.
The account still goes online but not after 10 pm and not again until 4 pm

I called via *67 just in case her dad had her phone and would see it was me. One ring and straight to voice mail.. which tells me its turned off therefore got taken away?

Thoughts?

MoeMoeKyun

United States215 Posts

June 30 2009 16:15 GMT

#74

Don't live near her or anything?

vRoOk

United States1024 Posts

June 30 2009 16:20 GMT

#75

On July 01 2009 01:15 Caffeine_Free wrote:
Don't live near her or anything?

Less than 10 miles! But I never got her exact address : /

fanatacist

10319 Posts

June 30 2009 16:53 GMT

#76

I think this girl just had an e-fling with you and then decided to move on to more exciting things like real life. Sad but true. Sorry bro.

Why? Because if her father was a real Nazi like he seems to be, he wouldn't be AIMing you, he would be calling you.

arb

Noobville17922 Posts

June 30 2009 17:44 GMT

#77

whats her name
pics?

Railxp

Hong Kong1313 Posts

June 30 2009 17:44 GMT

#78

maybe leave an AIM msg that its fine if she doesn't want to continue/feels too weirded out/thinks its too dangerous, and you will respect that and stop contact, but just webcam/phone one last time to make sure that it is her will and not someone else and that it wasn't all fake?

Chef

10810 Posts

June 30 2009 18:23 GMT

#79

On July 01 2009 01:53 fanatacist wrote:
I think this girl just had an e-fling with you and then decided to move on to more exciting things like real life. Sad but true. Sorry bro.

Why? Because if her father was a real Nazi like he seems to be, he wouldn't be AIMing you, he would be calling you.

Pretty much this, except I'm guessing she's also like 13-14 and just likes playing with the power she can have over people.