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I don't get why both of them are using the same aim? Maybe it was his PC not her in the 1st place? + Show Spoiler +voted call 
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On June 29 2009 11:09 HeavenS wrote: hmm dude u've talked over the phone right? if its a cellphone then text her. if she doesn't text you back, then it's veryy possible she's not interested and just pretended to be her dad to not speak with u anymore....sorry to be so blunt but, thats life man. we all gotta learn the hard way. as far as calling her and shit like that, try it on monday when ur 100% positive her parents are working (im sure u must've gathered info about this from all those times you spoke). Again, if she doesn't pick up, leave a message "hey this is "your name", just wondering if your still alive haha"
dude if she doesn't call you back, or text you back. give it up, fuck that bitch and keep your pride.
edit: when u call her monday, if she doesn't pick up, DON'T KEEP CALLING, you'll just come off as a needy and pushy individual. keep your pride above all!!
qft?
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you sure shes not like 13? wth, very strange.
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On June 29 2009 12:38 beetlelisk wrote: I don't get why both of them are using the same aim? Maybe it was his cpu not her in the 1st place?
Maybe.. but if she was legit and not a troll or anything like that.
She said that she had her own computer in her room.. makes since to me if seh made her background a picture i sent her? lol
Thanks for your opinion and vote 
Its possible he's signed in on her account another computer? that makes since as he's still on at 8:56 PST on what one would assume to be a worknight?
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On June 29 2009 10:57 eshlow wrote: You are both of age. But you still probably need to get on the dad's good side.
Why don't you invite him out for lunch (in a public place of course) so he can get to know you. I'd personally ask him why he doesn't like you in the first place?
If you are serious about pursuing something like this, I think that showing that you have the balls to meet him in person and talk would go a long way.
I still think this is the best way to go
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Find someone else. One girl you've met online a couple of times is not worth this much trouble. As in, I met this girl but something weird was going on.
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Dude you're telling someone you love them when you haven't even met face-to-face? And you're this obsessed already?
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her dad probably has her phone though u might just have to look her up in a different way(not texting, calling, or internet) i know she might be perfect or seem that way but do u really expect a serious relationship with someone that lives far away? or an internet based relationship? If you somehow do(i'm no one to judge) u don't want to wait for her to contact you her dad will probably wont let her use the computer for a lot of time and she'll probably met someone so i do advise trying to contact her. Hope this helps
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On June 29 2009 13:44 Heaven_n wrote: i know she might be perfect or seem that way but do u really expect a serious relationship with someone that lives far away? or an internet based relationship?
From what we've gathered we're only 10 miles apart not really a long distance Just haven't met up.
Yea internet based relationships arn't something I'd prefer, and honestly the original intention was just a text buddy while i was super bored home-sitting... it just grew into something bigger.
I think they can honestly work out though.. my brother met his fiance (oddly enough) on craigslist.. and my uncle met his wife on e-harmony
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this is the 4th post regarding a woman ive seen on this site.
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On June 29 2009 13:56 theron[wdt] wrote: this is the 4th post regarding a woman ive seen on this site.
On June 29 2009 10:32 vRoOk wrote: Ah.. Summertime.. love in in the air? I thought I'd follow the current TL net trend and talk about a girl.
Warned ya?
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well if you say youve talked with her and she held up pics then its pretty safe to say shes not fake or anything (dunno why some ppl would still say that) I think it wouldnt be a bad idea to ask her dad if hes really on her aim =/ how old she is just to make sure she didnt lie to you and shes 15 or sth. anyway i still think the best option is to wait a week and see if she can contact you before you try contacting her.
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On June 29 2009 13:56 theron[wdt] wrote: this is the 4th post regarding a woman ive seen on this site. Welcome to TL.net.
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strictly platonic section dude. gg and find new opponent.
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I can tell you that adolescent girls will pull this on you if they suddenly feel like they've over-committed themselves and have no way out of it other than being sneaky. I've had friends who want to back out of potential relationships without hurting feelings, and this is what they say to me:
"I have three options. One, I can find another boyfriend really fast. Two, I can pretend I like someone. Three, I can ignore him until he stops talking to me." In this case, you might have an internet version of the third option.
Hopefully that's not the case, because I think fathers are easier to deal with than flaky love interests. Good luck!
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You could make a new AIM/craigslist account and try to contact her that way all over again, I guess.
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On June 29 2009 15:49 hazelynut wrote: I can tell you that adolescent girls will pull this on you if they suddenly feel like they've over-committed themselves and have no way out of it other than being sneaky. I've had friends who want to back out of potential relationships without hurting feelings, and this is what they say to me:
"I have three options. One, I can find another boyfriend really fast. Two, I can pretend I like someone. Three, I can ignore him until he stops talking to me." In this case, you might have an internet version of the third option.
Hopefully that's not the case, because I think fathers are easier to deal with than flaky love interests. Good luck!
Thanks for the advise Hazel, I hope its not true but am ready to face it if it is.
p.s. i love your commentaries keep it up
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On June 29 2009 12:38 beetlelisk wrote:I don't get why both of them are using the same aim? Maybe it was his cpu not her in the 1st place? + Show Spoiler +voted call 
Why do people use "cpu" to replace PC? CPU is a central processing unit, not a computer.
On June 29 2009 10:32 vRoOk wrote: quote on quote
That is "quote, end quote". I pray you aren't really that dense.
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On June 29 2009 19:05 RANDOMCL wrote:That is "quote, end quote". I pray you aren't really that dense.
I always thought it was quote un-quote.
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Well I called & texted her today guys.
No reply.. and no answer :[
Guess the ball is in her court
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On June 29 2009 13:52 vRoOk wrote:Show nested quote +On June 29 2009 13:44 Heaven_n wrote: i know she might be perfect or seem that way but do u really expect a serious relationship with someone that lives far away? or an internet based relationship? From what we've gathered we're only 10 miles apart not really a long distance  Just haven't met up. Yea internet based relationships arn't something I'd prefer, and honestly the original intention was just a text buddy while i was super bored home-sitting... it just grew into something bigger. I think they can honestly work out though.. my brother met his fiance (oddly enough) on craigslist.. and my uncle met his wife on e-harmony
My parents met through letters, physical letters. And my mom knew very little english + from different country. And here I am. So yeh, it can work out sometimes
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