Don't waste your time talking to kids :O It sucks you got tricked, but there's literally no point. Just learn your lesson and be more careful about people you meet on the internet from now on

Solinren

United States2653 Posts

July 02 2009 06:10 GMT

#103

On July 02 2009 09:59 vRoOk wrote:
She told me their names, she used be in some kinda art school, did alot of broadcasting, found some of the videos on youtube got the full names searched for um on myspace and facebook found 3 of them. .

Something tells me this is going overboard.

If I was the father, I would put a restraining order on this.

fanatacist

10319 Posts

July 02 2009 07:03 GMT

#104

Yup. I hope you learn a lesson.

IntoTheWow

is awesome32274 Posts

July 02 2009 07:12 GMT

#105

I scrolled down all pages and found no pics. Girl blog with no pics =

The Storyteller

Singapore2486 Posts

July 02 2009 11:16 GMT

#106

If you can get in touch with the dad you can try apologising to him. I bet he won't mind you dating his daughter then.

And what's wrong with dating a 16 year old, anyway? Tons of girls nowadays have boyfriends from the age of 13.

il0seonpurpose

Korea (South)5638 Posts

July 02 2009 12:41 GMT

#107

On July 02 2009 20:16 The Storyteller wrote:
If you can get in touch with the dad you can try apologising to him. I bet he won't mind you dating his daughter then.

And what's wrong with dating a 16 year old, anyway? Tons of girls nowadays have boyfriends from the age of 13.

He's 18 so in a way it's considered pedophile.

Anyway, to the OP, you should try to figure out if she's still into you.

LML

Germany1760 Posts

July 02 2009 14:33 GMT

#108

try to get her address off of one of her 3 friends?
and who knows if they didn't talk shit bout their age? .. who knows this

CharlieMurphy

United States22895 Posts

July 02 2009 19:03 GMT

#109

dude next time ask her out for ice cream or to hang out with some friends. Then her dad won't be so uptight about someone she has never actually met. He probably thinks you are some 50 year old man.

vRoOk

United States1024 Posts

July 03 2009 01:55 GMT

#110

Today I found out the age of consent in WA is 16..

therefore I'm not a pedophile whoooooooo.. perfectly legal

but still annoyed she lied to me

and still haven't had any contact with her for 6 days now.. wonder how long this is gonna last?

Brett

Australia3820 Posts

July 03 2009 04:46 GMT

#111

Mate, just let it go. 16 yo.. in trouble with her parents, lied to you, internet relationship, in love after a week....

It reeks of absolute disaster.

Chef

10810 Posts

July 03 2009 04:54 GMT

#112

On July 03 2009 10:55 vRoOk wrote:
Today I found out the age of consent in WA is 16..

therefore I'm not a pedophile whoooooooo.. perfectly legal

but still annoyed she lied to me

and still haven't had any contact with her for 6 days now.. wonder how long this is gonna last?

Ideally forever. :S

vRoOk

United States1024 Posts

July 03 2009 05:01 GMT

#113

On July 03 2009 13:46 Brett wrote:
Mate, just let it go. 16 yo.. in trouble with her parents, lied to you, internet relationship, in love after a week....

It reeks of absolute disaster.

good solid points

pianoblack

Canada24 Posts

July 03 2009 16:12 GMT

#114

in my experience, when parents get in the way of a relationship... it's never going to go well. once had a girlfriend who (i found out about 3 months in) wasn't supposed to have a boyfriend at her age according to her parents.. so when i went to hug her when her parents were around, she freaked out. yup that ended about 2 weeks later...

another instance about parents+girl was when i was supposed to go on a blind date with an internet friend... and she showed up like 30 minutes late, saying she had to leave because she was grounded (she was 20?!)

in my opinion, if parents are still deeply involved in a person's life like that, it's probably not in your best interest to get involved. they're probably less mature than they have made themselves out to be.

but better luck next time! to avoid such confusion, try sticking with actual people instead of pics and text on the internet...

GGQ

Canada2653 Posts

July 03 2009 22:55 GMT

#115

On June 30 2009 08:14 NeVeR wrote:

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As Ulysses said in The Odyssey: "Fickle is the heart of a woman; ever-changing, and full of vice."

If this is true in real life, then how much truer it is on the internet!

But I think you should try talking to her "father", all the same.

Ironic that you quote that line from The Odyssey, when one of the central storylines revolves around Penelope staying faithful and constant in her love.

To the op: I still think she had an e-fling with you; I've been on both ends of such relationships in my teenage years and this is exactly what it seems like.

vRoOk

United States1024 Posts

July 04 2009 20:30 GMT

#116

Its been one week.. *busts out barenaked ladies*

haha j/k..

But yea it's been one week.. still no contact. Tell me if this weird but as the days went by I started to care/worry less and less.. about it.

Even started to talking to other girls.. met a really amazing girl named Che.. i confess I've talked to her 9 hours on the phone in the past 48 hours.

I kinda feel bad and unsure of myself and what to do I feel bad now but I haven't heard from her in such a long time I'm just losing interest.

thoughts?