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On July 01 2009 01:53 fanatacist wrote:
I think this girl just had an e-fling with you and then decided to move on to more exciting things like real life. Sad but true. Sorry bro.
Why? Because if her father was a real Nazi like he seems to be, he wouldn't be AIMing you, he would be calling you.
I'm starting to think this way, sucks because my feelings are and were real 
I'm not sure I'm 100% there yet because "he" only did talk to me twice and both times was basically to say fuck you your not talking to *blank* for a long time.
Plus her cellphone being off? that doesn't amke sense.. if I was girl I'd just ignore me until i stopped but its always off.. straight to voice mail.. just leads me to think it was taken away.
Its also just hard to think that she would just wanna stop talking after over a week of talking for hours, and like she'd even send me e-mails when i was busy telling me she missed me and stuff like that. She'd be a hell of a faker.
Then again a lot doesn't add up like, her "dad" being on her AIM.
I'm not sure what to think but theirs defiantly doubts floating around within me.
On July 01 2009 02:44 arb wrote:
whats her name
pics?
I'm trying to avoid pics and names thus the *blank* for names and my refusal(?) to post pics.
She's no supermodel or anything.. honestly I'm better looking than her and I'm like 8/10?
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Are you new to the internet? There's no such thing as unlikely. It's like the question 'is there intelligent life outside earth?' Well, given how gigantic the universe is, almost definitely yes.
Are there creeps who'd be willing to spend a week screwing with someone on the internet? Almost definitely yes (actually, there are creeps who'll spend months, even a year on their fake internet persona).
You're letting what you want to believe get in the way of what is actually likely. You don't know her at all, you just like that she gave you attention. She (or he) probably felt a huge power rush at first, and now maybe is feeling guilty or afraid that things are getting too serious.
I mean, the fact that you say 'your feelings were real' is already a huge indicator that you're immensely naive, or this is some dumb joke you're playing. You don't develop real feelings for someone you've been talking to over the last week. What the hell is that? You're just desperate is all.
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Chef's post reminded me of case where 2 women had a serious quarrel or something and 1 started talking to the other's daughter via her blog and "breaking up" with her some time later, as a revenge on her mother, leading this girl to a suicide. It was like in news all over the world?
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On July 01 2009 05:11 Chef wrote:
I mean, the fact that you say 'your feelings were real' is already a huge indicator that you're immensely naive, or this is some dumb joke you're playing. You don't develop real feelings for someone you've been talking to over the last week.
I meant my feelings were real like I was taking it serious, which i was given i was real dint lie real pictures, etc
I don't lover her i just just like her enough that it really sucks and I'd rather not give up on it so easily.
But your right.
BTW i <3 the stove 
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Sorry, I was a bit presumptuous. I get what you mean now.
I've just had friends who get rapped up in this stuff, and it's always the same story, and it's always the same ending. Trust is based on reason (knowing that the person you trust would lose something valuable if they broke it) not blind faith. That is to say... It's easy to trust people who just want your friendship and to play video games with you... They lose a video game partner if they screw you... But it's impossible to trust someone on the internet who is coming onto you, because chances are making you struggle is part of their fun.
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Is there anyone i can trust with the AIM screenname the on TL to do some investigating for me? Let me know plz
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I can, I promise. I'll pm you
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Set your aim status to invisible, if her status changes to available soon after, there ya go. My guess tho is that if she were trying to avoid you she would have just set her status to invisible, and its very likely that since aim has the option to start up with log-in it is just turning on as her father turns on the computer when he gets home.
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she is probably 13 and her dad probably thinks your a pedo.
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I got ahold of some of her friends (about 3) and they confirmed for me with 100% honesty that they couldn't reach her either and she is megagrounded.
So it really was the dad.. who by the way hasn't been going on aim at all since monday.
I guess all i can do now is wait for the "won't be able to use her computer for sometime.." to pass any ideas on how long that might be? I was thinking maybe 2 weeks to 2 months? She is rally 18+ her friends confirmed it how long can she really be grounded for?
Although I pretty much have to do everything my parents say and I'm 18+ because I'm living in their house. So It could be awhile..
thoughts?
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idk, the thing you need to worry about is what if by the time she is ungrounded she has forgotten or moved on from you
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On July 02 2009 06:14 spydernoob wrote:
idk, the thing you need to worry about is what if by the time she is ungrounded she has forgotten or moved on from you
Yeah I'm worried about that.. I guess I'm kinda just praying that she feels the same way i do.. and isn't forgetting
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Yeah, you should accept that!
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how did you manage to track down 3 of her friends? o_O
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On July 01 2009 04:21 vRoOk wrote:
She's no supermodel or anything.. honestly I'm better looking than her and I'm like 8/10?
hahaha, and how do girl ratings compare to guy ratings?
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On July 02 2009 09:41 ~_~ wrote:
how did you manage to track down 3 of her friends? o_O
She told me their names, she used be in some kinda art school, did alot of broadcasting, found some of the videos on youtube got the full names searched for um on myspace and facebook found 3 of them. Just said hey do you *blank* and kinda went from there. But none of them can tlka to ehr either so idk what happened exactly
On July 02 2009 09:44 anderoo wrote:Show nested quote +On July 01 2009 04:21 vRoOk wrote:
She's no supermodel or anything.. honestly I'm better looking than her and I'm like 8/10?
hahaha, and how do girl ratings compare to guy ratings?
Hmm.. good question.. they both have out of 10 systems?
point being I'm not super ugly and shes super hot or some gay kinda hook-up like that.
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Hire GGplay to take care of her dad.
+ Show Spoiler +GGplay w/ glasses looks like a 40-year old assassin, someone link a pic please
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Well.. got the 411 from her friends.. and surprise!
some of you are right.. shes only 16
WELL FUCK that changes her dad from an ass to a responsible adult.. and me into a pedophile
FML
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[Wed Jul 1 2009 07:45:37 PM] A: ughhhhhhh her dad needs to get real
[Wed Jul 1 2009 07:45:40 PM] A: how old is *blank*?
[Wed Jul 1 2009 07:45:48 PM] A: 18 right?
[Wed Jul 1 2009 07:45:15 PM] B:
HAHAHAHAHAHA
[Wed Jul 1 2009 07:45:39 PM]B:
Is that what she told you?
[Wed Jul 1 2009 07:46:46 PM] A: yea she did
[Wed Jul 1 2009 07:46:47 PM] A: lol
[Wed Jul 1 2009 07:46:55 PM] A: 18 since may?
[Wed Jul 1 2009 07:46:59 PM] A: may something she said
[Wed Jul 1 2009 07:47:01 PM] A: how old is she?
[Wed Jul 1 2009 07:46:24 PM] B:
shes like 15
[Wed Jul 1 2009 07:46:27 PM] B:
maybe 16
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That sucks dude. Sorry.
On the upside... if it was meant to be you can talk to her again in 2 years. :\
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