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On June 29 2009 10:52 Reason wrote:
I say you log onto AIM and say
"Yo, fair enough if your daughter is grounded or whatever, or you don't want her getting raped by a pedophile, but why the fuck are you logged onto her AIM?
I thought about this!
I find it weird that he's jsut sitting there on her account. After thinking about it I figured he might be waiting for me to say something to him.. but then again he did not answer me last time i sent him a question.
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She is 18+ and was grounded? That doesnt make any sense.
If you have her number, call her. Otherwise wait for her to contact you.
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On June 29 2009 10:52 Reason wrote:
I say you log onto AIM and say
"Yo, fair enough if your daughter is grounded or whatever, or you don't want her getting raped by a pedophile, but why the fuck are you logged onto her AIM? I vote this. Haha dude wait till Monday and call!
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ROFLLLL you never saw her in real life? Link us to the pics she sent you, this should be good. YHBT
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lol, ouch.
Assuming you're not being trolled, and that it's in fact her dad: message back, apologize, and say you'll respect his wishes. This will increase your chances presently, and might help you avoid getting into shit with her folks in the future, if you guys start talking again, that is. gl!
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On June 29 2009 11:00 Mooga wrote:
ROFLLLL you never saw her in real life? Link us to the pics she sent you, this should be good. YHBT
Never in real life just the phone and pictures..
I would but I'm really trying to keep us both private hence the blanking out the names and so forth.
Shes by no means a supermodel if that's what you implying
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hmm dude u've talked over the phone right? if its a cellphone then text her. if she doesn't text you back, then it's veryy possible she's not interested and just pretended to be her dad to not speak with u anymore....sorry to be so blunt but, thats life man. we all gotta learn the hard way.
as far as calling her and shit like that, try it on monday when ur 100% positive her parents are working (im sure u must've gathered info about this from all those times you spoke). Again, if she doesn't pick up, leave a message "hey this is "your name", just wondering if your still alive haha"
dude if she doesn't call you back, or text you back. give it up, fuck that bitch and keep your pride.
edit: when u call her monday, if she doesn't pick up, DON'T KEEP CALLING, you'll just come off as a needy and pushy individual. keep your pride above all!!
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I just wanted to add this:
Since she wont be using the computer for a while, has it ever crossed your mind that you werent the only one she was chatting with? and that she may have gone further with other guys..
Not saying this to troll, but it's a possibility.
Also don't take the advice given further up (say you'll respect the dads wishes) cause that's total BS that that would help you, it'll be the opposite. Say you do say "I'm sorry sir, I'll respect your wishes" and then you meet the girl again? BUSTED and your chanses of ever getting him to trust you just went over to the negative part of the scale. He doesn't want to test you. He doesn't want you to date his daughter. You can't win him over.
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Definitely ascertain her age via the father, if it is legal pursue with honour and courage.
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On June 29 2009 11:13 SnowFalling wrote:
I just wanted to add this:
Since she wont be using the computer for a while, has it ever crossed your mind that you werent the only one she was chatting with? and that she may have gone further with other guys..
All I have is her word.. since I did ask about this since it was an ad open to any and everyone.
She said that she had a an experience similar to mine just lame/weird/odd/plain out uninteresting people
but yea its just her word.
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Just wait. If nothing happens, I doubt there is much you can do about it, unless you can get on her dad's good side. The thing is, if you don't, then it just gets worse, and you can just track down their address, show up at their house, and run away together, really old movie like.
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Ok.. The poll and comments are saying give her call tomorrow and see whats up.
Problem with that is i knew her cell.. which if the dad (if he exists? you guys make me question these things, though I'm pretty sure he's real he types different and everything) is any kind of decent would have took away. and i dont have her home.. none the less ill try 
Defiantly keep responding with comments and advice because I really appreciate guys.
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On June 29 2009 11:13 SnowFalling wrote:
Also don't take the advice given further up (say you'll respect the dads wishes) cause that's total BS that that would help you, it'll be the opposite. Say you do say "I'm sorry sir, I'll respect your wishes" and then you meet the girl again? BUSTED and your chanses of ever getting him to trust you just went over to the negative part of the scale. He doesn't want to test you. He doesn't want you to date his daughter. You can't win him over.
You make a good point, SnowFalling. I clearly didn't think this through. Though in my (very limited) experience, parents are very forgetful and rely heavily on first impressions. The logic was: only through the parent's approval will you ever get to meet the girl again in the first place, and actually go on to develop something meaningful.
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Even though she is 18, although I am inclined to think she isn't. Anyways, you need to talk to the both of them, get this straightened out. Expect to walk away with no girl because it won't be worth it if you sneak this relationship and hide it, it will get weird, and weird is very bad. You are an adult, there's responsibilities you have to accept with being one. Sometimes parents are protective of their children and I don't blame them. He has every right to be overly protective and concealing.
I know you want this girl, but you have to play by their rules. That's a part of life. Talk with the dad, apologize for intruding when you didn't know they were affected in that sort of way. Be diplomatic, and kind. You can't be hostile. You can be firm but don't cross the line, this guy made people in the world, he can take them out for sure, haha. Just kinda joking that last line, but be yourself. Make a move anyhow.
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The account is still online on AIM I thought it might be worth noting..
the personal message has changed from..
I'll be back later..
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I'm unavailable at the moment.
Thoughts? IDK much about AIM but i assume that that someone typed the message? and its not auto?
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u could always give the aim address to someone u trust at this site to do some detective work
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yea she is probably 16 years old and her dad reads her chat logs. not a good idea to pursue unless you like to be on NBC's to catch a predator. unless she is smoking hot, then PASS.
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You told some girl you met online that you love her in 6 days? Hehe, I'm not judging but it DOES seem a tad quick.
Anyway, since you guys are both 18+ it seems like the dad is just being a typical overprotective parent--they tend to do things like this, especially when stuff happens over the interweb.
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