[Girl Blog] - Back where I started - Page 4

On February 28 2013 04:13 Froadac wrote:

Halt the trolling. That is not the case. You have absolutely no basis. And considering everything has been for free, and based on what she said, you're pretty damn far off base.

On February 28 2013 05:19 QuanticHawk wrote:
Kissing and talking to someone doesn't make them your girlfriend. Neither does whispering sweet nothing or talking about how awesome that person is. You're only an official monogomous couple when one of you brings up and you both agree to it.

Stop reading all of the terrible girl blogs on here and thinking that other people's fucked up relationships are normal, and for the love of god don't listen to the rest of the advice in this thread (outside of fractals) because it is all written by immature, hypocritical, misogynistic cavemen who apparently have never dated anyone

unless you both talk about and consent to monogamy, you have zero right to get pissed about someone exploring other options. You don't go on one date with someone and they become your property. This is the same for both guys and girls. And someone is not a slut/player for exploring your other options before you commit to someone you met less than a week before jesus. She didn't fuck you over, she didn't friend zone you or anyting like that.

You asking someone to be in a relationship with you after five days is weird. That's probalby exactly why she was initially turned off. Why she is with you now, i havent a clue, but my opinion is that you're clearly way too immature to be dating someone like this if you think that what she's done was slutty, fucked you over etc.

On February 28 2013 13:49 ktimekiller wrote:
Another case of a loony thinking a date meant committed?

On February 28 2013 14:34 Aerisky wrote:

How would one bring this up, though? I've also heard (perhaps from one of the cavemen posters though) that in terms of relationships, you shouldn't bring up "do you want to enter a relationship", because the question will always be awkward and you probably shouldn't have to ask. But at the same time, you're right about what you're saying up above--if you don't both agree to be monogamous, you aren't in a relationship >.<

On February 28 2013 19:03 r.Evo wrote:

Have fun together, have sex together, do things couples do. In most of those scenarios she will bring it up. If she doesn't it's fine to do so yourself after a week or two or whenever you feel like it.