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Aerisky
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Zim23
United States1681 Posts
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synapse
China13814 Posts
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SamsungStar
United States912 Posts
On February 17 2013 08:57 synapse wrote: Never stick your dick in crazy. JUST RUN DUDE RUN Whoever came up with never stick your dick in crazy had to be gay. I'm sorry, but all women are crazy to a relatively high degree. If you ran from all of them, you'd end up on the moon. New girls, innocent girls, naive girls, jaded girls, experienced girls. It really doesn't matter. If they have two X chromosomes, you can bet your sweet ass they have a great capacity for deviousness and mind-games. Or they are just so unstable that they lurch from one inconsistency to the next. I don't think I've ever run into a girl who's not at least partially insane. But that's not to say I'm not batshit too. I am :D. | ||
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Deleted User 183001
2939 Posts
Sounds like many Chinese girls I've dealt with. Extreme mood/interest changes is unusually characteristic of them. $100 says she's of Chinese descent. (Anyone willing to take the bet owes me $100) Also, this girl is a first-rate slut and is batshit insane. Just saying :s | ||
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hoby2000
United States918 Posts
On February 16 2013 19:28 Kaeru wrote: People keep asking girls if they want a relationship - I don't get why! If you end up in a relationship you do, if you don't then you don't. The question is 99% of the time awkward. Anyway, at number 3. You are at her place, she stops you and it ends up with you two making out. Why didn't you just have sex with her there? Just throw her in the bed, hold her down like a man and go... You've talked to her for 4 days, that's a lot...! If she's sleeping with multiple guys, turn her over and take a good grip of her hair with one hand, around her throat with the other and just shove your aggressions straight into her. Edit: I like to add. Unless you're in-love with her seriously, why do you care if she is dating multiple guys? Just have sex with her and ignore her for a while. I don't mean the candles and shit sex, fuck her hard. (sorry ended up with lots of edits) I cannot tell you how important this is. The bolded part. It took me so fucking long to figure that shit out, haha. If it's going to be a relationship, then it will be. Pushing for it to be a relationship isn't going to change their mind. It's only going to freak them out more because they're assuming all you want to do is date them, and not be their friend also. | ||
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ProV1
United States980 Posts
On February 17 2013 10:13 JudicatorHammurabi wrote: I've already discussed this a lot, but a couple addendums. Sounds like many Chinese girls I've dealt with. Extreme mood/interest changes is unusually characteristic of them. $100 says she's of Chinese descent. (Anyone willing to take the bet owes me $100) Also, this girl is a first-rate slut and is batshit insane. Just saying :s I bet you a $100 that she's not chinese. Just because a girl has options and likes to see more than one guy does not make her a slut or make her insane. Lots of girls in college will "cheat" on their boyfriends. No girl gets wet for just one guy, and when there's shit like alcohol or a guy who's cooler than their boyfriend and who's willing to take the responsibility off the girl in pretext, then the girl will sleep with the guy. Having a boyfriend is mostly for comfort. All young girls in their 20's will sleep around,whether they are white, asian, black, etc. On February 17 2013 08:09 Zim23 wrote: She wanted you in that moment and now that the moment is gone she changed her mind. Happens all the time. You missed your chance move on and find another one. It's college man, don't get hung up on one girl. Also keep in mind that your two options aren't only friend or serious relationship, lots of middle ground. Best advice in this thread. | ||
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SamsungStar
United States912 Posts
On February 17 2013 11:20 ProV1 wrote: I bet you a $100 that she's not chinese. Just because a girl has options and likes to see more than one guy does not make her a slut or make her insane. Lots of girls in college will "cheat" on their boyfriends. No girl gets wet for just one guy, and when there's shit like alcohol or a guy who's cooler than their boyfriend and who's willing to take the responsibility off the girl in pretext, then the girl will sleep with the guy. Having a boyfriend is mostly for comfort. All young girls in their 20's will sleep around,whether they are white, asian, black, etc. Best advice in this thread. Not all girls, but the vast majority yes. Vast majority of girls are sluts. Your logic doesn't make sense. Just because most girls are slutty it doesn't mean slutty behavior is no longer slutty. It is STILL slutty, it's just not as rare as society tries to pretend. | ||
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targ
Malaysia445 Posts
On February 17 2013 00:51 SamsungStar wrote: Nah, it depends on the age. In your 20s, especially late 20s, making out means absolutely nothing. Plenty of girls do it recreationally or just to see if the guy is a good kisser. They'll even do it out of boredom or they're feeling playful at the time. I wouldn't put any stock in it, tbh. Especially if the girl is very sexual. Some ppl are pretty fked up. You know, I tend to get the kind of girl who wants a serious relationship. How do I meet more of the type who just does it for fun? (I'm in my mid-twenties) | ||
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babylon
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On February 17 2013 11:50 SamsungStar wrote: Not all girls, but the vast majority yes. Vast majority of girls are sluts. Your logic doesn't make sense. Just because most girls are slutty it doesn't mean slutty behavior is no longer slutty. It is STILL slutty, it's just not as rare as society tries to pretend. "Slutty" is such a slutty word. Anyways, aren't guys more slutty than girls anyways for the most part? Though I guess for every slutty guy there's gotta be a slutty girl, so it probably balances out in the end. | ||
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babylon
8765 Posts
On February 17 2013 13:47 targ wrote: You know, I tend to get the kind of girl who wants a serious relationship. How do I meet more of the type who just does it for fun? (I'm in my mid-twenties) Bars + alcohol! :D | ||
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ProV1
United States980 Posts
On February 17 2013 11:50 SamsungStar wrote: Not all girls, but the vast majority yes. Vast majority of girls are sluts. Your logic doesn't make sense. Just because most girls are slutty it doesn't mean slutty behavior is no longer slutty. It is STILL slutty, it's just not as rare as society tries to pretend. Ok, you got me on my miswording there. | ||
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mordk
Chile8385 Posts
On February 17 2013 13:47 targ wrote: You know, I tend to get the kind of girl who wants a serious relationship. How do I meet more of the type who just does it for fun? (I'm in my mid-twenties) Bars are a good place, don't try clubs, the chances of meeting a good girl are slim to none, you go to clubs to hook up and have a good time, not to find a relationship, girls know this fact. Bars, in comparison, are a good place to start a conversation, which will allow you to determine if you like a girl or not, based on things other than just looks. | ||
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beetlelisk
Poland2276 Posts
 So what are you going to do now Froadac, after all the advice? I'm thinking she may be a great material to train how to deal with cock teases and not to get your mind screwed by them. I'm thinking once you are immune to their insanity it becomes easier to have fun with them, unless you would rather not deal at all with crazy females  | ||
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Deleted User 183001
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On February 17 2013 11:20 ProV1 wrote: I bet you a $100 that she's not chinese. Just because a girl has options and likes to see more than one guy does not make her a slut or make her insane. Lots of girls in college will "cheat" on their boyfriends. No girl gets wet for just one guy, and when there's shit like alcohol or a guy who's cooler than their boyfriend and who's willing to take the responsibility off the girl in pretext, then the girl will sleep with the guy. Having a boyfriend is mostly for comfort. All young girls in their 20's will sleep around,whether they are white, asian, black, etc. Best advice in this thread. You just lost $100. I know the situation personally. I wasn't simply assuming she was Chinese, though I implied it that way. This is why you should not be arrogant . I even warned you that taking the bet means you've lost it. LOL!! You misunderstood my comment. I didn't say Chinese girls are slutty necessarily, in fact, many are terrified of speaking to people outside their close comfort zone. I did say that they're unusually keen to have extreme mood/interest changes like described in OP. Knowing the situation in a far more detailed manner than described in OP, I myself am literally astonished at how it transpired, until I remembered some of the girls in my past lol. You are correct, though. I have unintentionally (as in, I literally had no idea the girl had a bf) homewrecked quite a few times, with girls who are extremely socially anxious and practically anti-sexual. It disgusts me how f'd even girls you'd think have very high values can be. Also correct on why most girls bother with boyfriends at all. Just comfort. I'd say 95+% of the relationships at this age are so entirely superficial, it's silly. I speak from first-hand experience in regards to such relationships, btw. On February 17 2013 14:09 babylon wrote: "Slutty" is such a slutty word. Anyways, aren't guys more slutty than girls anyways for the most part? Though I guess for every slutty guy there's gotta be a slutty girl, so it probably balances out in the end. Not really. Any girl get laid. She just has to put it out there. Obviously, most girls aren't going to just do it like that, but my point is, if a girl wants to get laid, she can do it very, very easily. Guys don't have this ability, because things work a lot differently. A guy can't just say he wants to get laid and it happens. This is why girls on average are... a lot sluttier. Any one of them can be as such, and many do. A guy? You either have to be around girls a lot so they're really comfortable with you, have good game (  ) and with girls who are slutty at that, or have batshit insane situations where a girl randomly out of the blue decides to hook up with you. It happens a lot less often for most guys.If intergender relations worked the same both ways (and they don't at all), then yes, guys on average would probably be sluttier. In the reality, the answer is no, not by a long shot. | ||
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targ
Malaysia445 Posts
On February 17 2013 14:28 mordk wrote: Bars are a good place, don't try clubs, the chances of meeting a good girl are slim to none, you go to clubs to hook up and have a good time, not to find a relationship, girls know this fact. Bars, in comparison, are a good place to start a conversation, which will allow you to determine if you like a girl or not, based on things other than just looks. Haha I'm afraid what I want is just the other way around - I want girls who like to hook up and have a good time instead of wanting relationships. | ||
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Xenocryst
United States521 Posts
On February 16 2013 19:31 Froadac wrote: I'll be honest, this was sort of hte type of response i was expecting. This was not the decision I made for these reasons 1) Oh yeah, go from never having kissed a girl to sex 2) I don't think she was necessarily in it for that at that point, neither was 3) Roommate returned 4) Sense of morals that whether correct or incorrect would take a lot of breaking to contradict 5) lack of any sort of preparedness As a sisdenote i ended up staying overnight. not like it really matters but i forgot to include htat. In terms of the question: quite possibly, I have no clue. I care at this point because it seems like a bullshit excuse. I mean, maybe its true but it doesnt seem terribly congruent, and to say the very least I wasn't trying to use her purely for the sex Before people have any sexual experiences people always assume that you need tons of experience and you need to be all shy and beta. NOT TRUE, you need to be confident, that's actually all that matters, nothing else, doesn't matter if you're a virgin, if you are confident and actually believe in yourself you can go for it. If nothing else just go for the sex, lovey-dovey doesn't work out very often, and you will have a great time with her even if it's just sexual. | ||
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Froadac
United States6733 Posts
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Loser777
1931 Posts
On February 17 2013 18:13 Froadac wrote: she is Chinese descent but was adopted by a white couple at 2 years of age. still texting me and shit. Interesting, that adds some kindling to the nature vs. nurture debate fire. If it were me I would just say fuck it a single girl isn't worth this trouble especially if I don't have some kind of innate attachment/devotion. | ||
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Froadac
United States6733 Posts
On February 17 2013 18:32 Loser777 wrote: Interesting, that adds some kindling to the nature vs. nurture debate fire. If it were me I would just say fuck it a single girl isn't worth this trouble especially if I don't have some kind of innate attachment/devotion. Yeah. I dunno. Just sort of mindlessly replying for the better or worse. I ought to sleep though. | ||
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