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the content of your story is so awkward and creepy it is cringeworthy
you have the excuse of high school naivety though
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On June 29 2012 08:38 Cyber_Cheese wrote:Show nested quote +On June 29 2012 03:13 NuKedUFirst wrote:On June 28 2012 20:49 jrkirby wrote:On June 28 2012 20:40 Arcanefrost wrote:
This isn't a crush, it's an obsession. You should have stopped trying after the first time she said no, you can't force someone to like you. I know that now. And to some degree I knew that then too. Back then I was considering writing a song: I want to hate you (but I can't). I never did write it. But that pretty much sums things up. While you can't force someone to like you, opinions on a person can change. Very quickly too, find a reason to talk to her for a little while, but show no intention of talking to her after that e.g 'Hey, look, I'm moving house soon, and it'd be somehow nice to talk to you before I go' Even if it's a lie, treat it like the truth for both you and her, make it feel like closure, you really need it. Don't have any hopes for it, but on the off chance you hit it off, well, profit.
this is really stupid and pitiful. I think the op has done enough to embarass himself
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Well, internet its a beatifull place, no1 really know who ar you, and you can let it go from your chest, without fear of been judge.
You got a lot of corage to ask over and over again to her go out with you. Its show that you ar not totally retard like me. :D
Anyway, nice read. Hope the best for you, and you can get what you ar looking for.
Edit: Sorry for my english ...Sometimes i cant understand what im trying to say either.
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On June 29 2012 09:28 jrkirby wrote:Show nested quote +On June 29 2012 03:05 Zealos wrote:On June 28 2012 20:54 Zorkmid wrote:
I think I'm Matt. Sorry bro. No wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy. Can we confirm this?? I highly doubt it. Show nested quote +On June 29 2012 08:38 Cyber_Cheese wrote:On June 29 2012 03:13 NuKedUFirst wrote:On June 28 2012 20:49 jrkirby wrote:On June 28 2012 20:40 Arcanefrost wrote:
This isn't a crush, it's an obsession. You should have stopped trying after the first time she said no, you can't force someone to like you. I know that now. And to some degree I knew that then too. Back then I was considering writing a song: I want to hate you (but I can't). I never did write it. But that pretty much sums things up. While you can't force someone to like you, opinions on a person can change. Very quickly too, find a reason to talk to her for a little while, but show no intention of talking to her after that e.g 'Hey, look, I'm moving house soon, and it'd be somehow nice to talk to you before I go' Even if it's a lie, treat it like the truth for both you and her, make it feel like closure, you really need it. Don't have any hopes for it, but on the off chance you hit it off, well, profit. I will not attempt to talk to her again. I wont purposely avoid her, but seeing as we go to different colleges, and I'm not the type that "get's out" alot, I haven't seen her in over a year, and quite possibly never will again. I am ok with this.
clearly not, you just wrote a massive blog about her
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I've been through that, except that I never had the balls to say anything cause I knew she'd say no anyway. 4 years of dying inside every single day, of everyone making snide remarks and jokes(because everyone somehow knew about it, including her), of terrible awkward silences. Fuck it, I'm still not over her. I'll probably never be.
Obsession is a tough beast to kill
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On June 30 2012 00:06 Elegance wrote:Show nested quote +On June 29 2012 09:28 jrkirby wrote:On June 29 2012 03:05 Zealos wrote:On June 28 2012 20:54 Zorkmid wrote:
I think I'm Matt. Sorry bro. No wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy. Can we confirm this?? I highly doubt it. On June 29 2012 08:38 Cyber_Cheese wrote:On June 29 2012 03:13 NuKedUFirst wrote:On June 28 2012 20:49 jrkirby wrote:On June 28 2012 20:40 Arcanefrost wrote:
This isn't a crush, it's an obsession. You should have stopped trying after the first time she said no, you can't force someone to like you. I know that now. And to some degree I knew that then too. Back then I was considering writing a song: I want to hate you (but I can't). I never did write it. But that pretty much sums things up. While you can't force someone to like you, opinions on a person can change. Very quickly too, find a reason to talk to her for a little while, but show no intention of talking to her after that e.g 'Hey, look, I'm moving house soon, and it'd be somehow nice to talk to you before I go' Even if it's a lie, treat it like the truth for both you and her, make it feel like closure, you really need it. Don't have any hopes for it, but on the off chance you hit it off, well, profit. I will not attempt to talk to her again. I wont purposely avoid her, but seeing as we go to different colleges, and I'm not the type that "get's out" alot, I haven't seen her in over a year, and quite possibly never will again. I am ok with this. clearly not, you just wrote a massive blog about her
Having someone or in this case somewhere to rattle away is perfectly normal. If you were obsessed with that one girl for 4 years you would be a little agitated yourself when talking about her even after a year.
@OP: Sounds like you are better off without her anyway  Knowing someone is pining for your and not making things clear isn't really nice of her. Good luck with your search for true love ^^
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Relatable. Haha XD
Now I'm wondering if something similar has happened to other people.
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