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Djagulingu
Profile Blog Joined December 2010
Germany3605 Posts
June 28 2012 14:28 GMT
#21
Worst kind of crush can be generalized as you love her with all your heart, you do whatever you can and still suffer the worst pain in the world. Welcome to the club man.
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QuanticHawk
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
United States32157 Posts
June 28 2012 14:40 GMT
#22
that's obsession, and pretty creepy to boot!
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polishedturd
Profile Joined October 2010
United States505 Posts
June 28 2012 14:52 GMT
#23
please dont tell me you were serious about that fucking graph
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cascades
Profile Blog Joined October 2009
Singapore6122 Posts
June 28 2012 14:55 GMT
#24
<3
HS: cascades#1595 || LoL: stoppin
meteorskunk
Profile Blog Joined August 2009
Canada546 Posts
June 28 2012 15:32 GMT
#25
please don't stop loving! let your heart keep speeding along. I went through this too, and now that the emotions are gone, it seems like a silly beginner's mistake. strange how we're all so similar. i blame the movies and fiction of our culture! we all think small romantic gestures are the way to deepen love. I don't know what the way is.

I found it hilarious yet sad when you "heard she likes reading" and "gave her a book on 18th century wizards!" As cool as that sounds, it is advisable to not do something like that again. The topic of that book is one for people with really particular interests in my opinion. the thought process of this decision indicates that your interest was merely superficial. if you had had the requisite emotions or experiences to really understand Felicity, likely you'd choose a different book.

also, you seem overly concerned with image. so what if you are known for your hair? so what if she plays piano better? if you just stopped focusing on these aspects of life your emotions would have less content to throw you for a loop with. nawmean? GL HF
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krndandaman
Profile Joined August 2009
Mozambique16569 Posts
June 28 2012 15:33 GMT
#26
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jrkirby
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
United States1510 Posts
June 28 2012 15:39 GMT
#27
On June 29 2012 00:33 krndandaman wrote:
the book, grammar pickup line, and the graph all had me face palming...


I know right? I was pretty bad.
a176
Profile Blog Joined August 2009
Canada6688 Posts
June 28 2012 15:51 GMT
#28
this is what restraining orders were made for
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Rostam
Profile Blog Joined December 2008
United States2552 Posts
June 28 2012 15:54 GMT
#29
Well, sounds like you were a bit obsessed and certainly didn't know her well enough to actually love her.

But on the positive side, at least you tried. Yeah, she didn't like you and it hurts, but at least you put yourself out there and made your feelings clear. It's better than spending the rest of your life wondering whether you might have missed an opportunity.

Anyway, you sound a lot like me but braver and a better dancer.
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FlaShFTW
Profile Blog Joined February 2010
United States10512 Posts
June 28 2012 15:58 GMT
#30
wow. chased someone for so long? damn that sucks. not even one dance with you. man that sucks. she sounds like a bitch who doesnt care about other people feelings.

you give her presents, and she doesnt even looks at them. at least give it back so he can give it to someone else.

life sucks man, but you have to stay strong and get over it. there are other girls out there.
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jrkirby
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
United States1510 Posts
June 28 2012 16:04 GMT
#31
On June 29 2012 00:51 a176 wrote:
this is what restraining orders were made for


I kind of see where you where you are coming from, I see how what I was doing was a bit creepy.

However, I doubt I did anything worthy of a restraining order. I sent her the (rare) love note. I decided to join activities and that decision was partially influenced by her. But I did not: call her, follow her, or continue to do something that she asked me not to.
a176
Profile Blog Joined August 2009
Canada6688 Posts
June 28 2012 16:07 GMT
#32
On June 29 2012 01:04 jrkirby wrote:
Show nested quote +
On June 29 2012 00:51 a176 wrote:
this is what restraining orders were made for


I kind of see where you where you are coming from, I see how what I was doing was a bit creepy.

However, I doubt I did anything worthy of a restraining order. I sent her the (rare) love note. I decided to join activities and that decision was partially influenced by her. But I did not: call her, follow her, or continue to do something that she asked me not to.


was a joke
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iTzSnypah
Profile Blog Joined February 2011
United States1738 Posts
June 28 2012 16:49 GMT
#33
Soo much rejection...Bro with your swagger you should of been a player because its not like NO ever stopped you from trying...
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jrkirby
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
United States1510 Posts
June 28 2012 16:52 GMT
#34
On June 29 2012 01:49 iTzSnypah wrote:
Soo much rejection...Bro with your swagger you should of been a player because its not like NO ever stopped you from trying...

I hope it isn't too late for me
Arcanefrost
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
Belgium1257 Posts
June 28 2012 17:17 GMT
#35
On June 29 2012 01:52 jrkirby wrote:
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On June 29 2012 01:49 iTzSnypah wrote:
Soo much rejection...Bro with your swagger you should of been a player because its not like NO ever stopped you from trying...

I hope it isn't too late for me


Of course it isn't :p You just have to learn to move on after a girl says no. Almost all nice guys made this mistake once in their life I think, lesson learnt is that when you like someone you move fast, and if she doesn't like you simply move on right away.
Valor is a poor substitute for numbers.
Zealos
Profile Blog Joined November 2011
United Kingdom3576 Posts
June 28 2012 18:05 GMT
#36
On June 28 2012 20:54 Zorkmid wrote:
I think I'm Matt. Sorry bro.

No wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy. Can we confirm this??
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NuKedUFirst
Profile Blog Joined March 2010
Canada3139 Posts
June 28 2012 18:13 GMT
#37
On June 28 2012 20:49 jrkirby wrote:
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On June 28 2012 20:40 Arcanefrost wrote:
This isn't a crush, it's an obsession. You should have stopped trying after the first time she said no, you can't force someone to like you.


I know that now. And to some degree I knew that then too. Back then I was considering writing a song: I want to hate you (but I can't). I never did write it. But that pretty much sums things up.


While you can't force someone to like you, opinions on a person can change.
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Cyber_Cheese
Profile Blog Joined July 2010
Australia3615 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-06-28 23:39:45
June 28 2012 23:38 GMT
#38
On June 29 2012 03:13 NuKedUFirst wrote:
Show nested quote +
On June 28 2012 20:49 jrkirby wrote:
On June 28 2012 20:40 Arcanefrost wrote:
This isn't a crush, it's an obsession. You should have stopped trying after the first time she said no, you can't force someone to like you.


I know that now. And to some degree I knew that then too. Back then I was considering writing a song: I want to hate you (but I can't). I never did write it. But that pretty much sums things up.


While you can't force someone to like you, opinions on a person can change.

Very quickly too, find a reason to talk to her for a little while, but show no intention of talking to her after that
e.g 'Hey, look, I'm moving house soon, and it'd be somehow nice to talk to you before I go'
Even if it's a lie, treat it like the truth for both you and her, make it feel like closure, you really need it.
Don't have any hopes for it, but on the off chance you hit it off, well, profit.
The moment you lose confidence in yourself, is the moment the world loses it's confidence in you.
jrkirby
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
United States1510 Posts
June 29 2012 00:28 GMT
#39
On June 29 2012 03:05 Zealos wrote:
Show nested quote +
On June 28 2012 20:54 Zorkmid wrote:
I think I'm Matt. Sorry bro.

No wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy. Can we confirm this??


I highly doubt it.

On June 29 2012 08:38 Cyber_Cheese wrote:
Show nested quote +
On June 29 2012 03:13 NuKedUFirst wrote:
On June 28 2012 20:49 jrkirby wrote:
On June 28 2012 20:40 Arcanefrost wrote:
This isn't a crush, it's an obsession. You should have stopped trying after the first time she said no, you can't force someone to like you.


I know that now. And to some degree I knew that then too. Back then I was considering writing a song: I want to hate you (but I can't). I never did write it. But that pretty much sums things up.


While you can't force someone to like you, opinions on a person can change.

Very quickly too, find a reason to talk to her for a little while, but show no intention of talking to her after that
e.g 'Hey, look, I'm moving house soon, and it'd be somehow nice to talk to you before I go'
Even if it's a lie, treat it like the truth for both you and her, make it feel like closure, you really need it.
Don't have any hopes for it, but on the off chance you hit it off, well, profit.


I will not attempt to talk to her again. I wont purposely avoid her, but seeing as we go to different colleges, and I'm not the type that "get's out" alot, I haven't seen her in over a year, and quite possibly never will again. I am ok with this.
Ushio
Profile Blog Joined June 2010
Canada868 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-06-29 01:39:19
June 29 2012 01:38 GMT
#40
Great read, it happens to the best of us. If shes not interested move on, shouldnt bog yourself down for too long >.<

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