EPTSex is terrible. - Page 4
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3FFA
United States3931 Posts
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Celestia
Mexico376 Posts
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Integra
Sweden5626 Posts
So let this be a lesson to you If you look at a girl with dirty thoughts you might just make her pregnant right on the spot, and don't even think about eyeballing her.  | ||
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Barbiero
Brazil5259 Posts
On May 10 2012 07:25 3FFA wrote: Haven't been there and hopefully never will. Reason: I've been fully educated in Gym/Health Class(1 class). I know all about protections for sex as well as what not to do. And yes, nothing is 100% except not having sex(for STI/STD as well as pregnancy). Nothing is 100%, the moment your partner is late for a couple days you'll be there. Believe me, I was as sure as you are that nothing would happen  | ||
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Jinxed
United States6450 Posts
Regardless, doubling up isn't a bad idea and really doesn't change a lot. She goes on the pill, you wrap it up. EZPZ. | ||
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Antimatterz
United States1010 Posts
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Jacobine
United States174 Posts
Anyway, she got the ied (Basically permanent birth control) and have been happily having permanently protected sex for 3 years =D | ||
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d00p
711 Posts
On May 10 2012 07:24 WaveofShadow wrote: Wrong. So wrong I can't even believe it. Care to elaborate or are you just being a dick? Some facts/thoughts: - You need to miss at least three pills in a row for there to be a good chance of ovulating. - The statistics about these thing are always skewed. There is no controlled environment to test this and so it's based on asking people what they used and did babies emerge. People will always tell you they did everything right even though in reality they were idiots and messed up. - No way do condoms have a 2 % chance of failing. MAYBE a 2 % chance of breaking? But thats not a 2 % chance of a baby (and that's what failing as a contraceptive means imo). Durability can be tested pretty accurately. But you would have to be ovulating at the time of the breaking and even then it's not a sure thing. The chance of pregnancy is closer to 0,02 %. | ||
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MaReK
Australia446 Posts
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bokchoi
Korea (South)9498 Posts
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MysteryMeat1
United States3291 Posts
On May 10 2012 04:45 Blazinghand wrote: All these people lecturing the OP about the dangers of boning are forgetting that A) he is now keenly aware of said dangers and B) boning is hella fun WIN. on a side not im seriously thinking about using that for my sig. But i don't think it will ever be relavant. | ||
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N.geNuity
United States5112 Posts
Fuck I've done that out of order my whole life then. | ||
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Barbiero
Brazil5259 Posts
On May 10 2012 17:52 N.geNuity wrote: So you're supposed to get the girl THEN study calculus? Fuck I've done that out of order my whole life then. oh god why can't I give awards for comments like these LOL. | ||
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Xiron
Germany1233 Posts
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storkfan
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Omnipresent
United States871 Posts
On May 10 2012 14:05 d00p wrote: Care to elaborate or are you just being a dick? Some facts/thoughts: - You need to miss at least three pills in a row for there to be a good chance of ovulating. - The statistics about these thing are always skewed. There is no controlled environment to test this and so it's based on asking people what they used and did babies emerge. People will always tell you they did everything right even though in reality they were idiots and messed up. - No way do condoms have a 2 % chance of failing. MAYBE a 2 % chance of breaking? But thats not a 2 % chance of a baby (and that's what failing as a contraceptive means imo). Durability can be tested pretty accurately. But you would have to be ovulating at the time of the breaking and even then it's not a sure thing. The chance of pregnancy is closer to 0,02 %. A broken condom is a failure of the contraception method. Saying its only a failure if she gets pregnant is like saying you have a 100% prefect parachute, even though it only deployed successfuly in 1 out of 10 attempts, but that one attempt was the only attempt in which you were falling out of an airplane. As far as the actual numbers go, you could blindly speculate, but I'd rather take 30 seconds or so and actually look it up. 2-3 of 100 sexually active women will become pregnant even if her partner uses a condom every single time and uses it exactly as directed. 10-15 of 100 will become pregnant under normal condom use conditions (improper or intermittent use, etc.). I don't know what that means in terms of the failure rate during any given sex act, but I know that even a 2% chance of pregnancy over the course of a year is way too high for someone who is 18, not financially stable, and not emotionally ready to care for a child. Seriously kids, pills AND rubbers. | ||
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d00p
711 Posts
On May 11 2012 09:09 Omnipresent wrote: A broken condom is a failure of the contraception method. Saying its only a failure if she gets pregnant is like saying you have a 100% prefect parachute, even though it only deployed successfuly in 1 out of 10 attempts, but that one attempt was the only attempt in which you were falling out of an airplane. As far as the actual numbers go, you could blindly speculate, but I'd rather take 30 seconds or so and actually look it up. 2-3 of 100 sexually active women will become pregnant even if her partner uses a condom every single time and uses it exactly as directed. 10-15 of 100 will become pregnant under normal condom use conditions (improper or intermittent use, etc.). I don't know what that means in terms of the failure rate during any given sex act, but I know that even a 2% chance of pregnancy over the course of a year is way too high for someone who is 18, not financially stable, and not emotionally ready to care for a child. Seriously kids, pills AND rubbers. First of all, wtf are you talking about with the parachutes? It's not the same thing at all. If a parachute fails you die, if a condom fails then you have a chance for conception if a woman is ovulating + a couple of days after ovulating. What a broken analogy. And why are you calling other poster "kids" when you have no idea how old they are besides the OP. Does that make you feel smarter? Taking 30 seconds to google some site with some random person answering random questions with no references displayed is not worth that much in my book. Again, even if those numbers are based on some study it's definitely nothing solid because you simply can't reliably investigate this (see my previous post). Also 2 % chance per year is an important clarification. Afaik no one was talking about chances per year, but chances per coitus (or maybe I misunderstood, I didn't read every post that carefully). Do the math: 0,02 % chance per coitus with 100 intercourses per year. Do it. Also I didn't say the chance is 0,02 % - I said it's closer to 0,02 % than 2 % and that 2 % is way too high. What is proper use anyway? How does one break a condom with proper use? Seriously, I'm curious because it's never happened to me. Maybe there are bad cheap condoms out there but not where I live? My hypothesis is that something inproper is done when they break and the steps explained on that site omnipresent linked are not followed. And as I said, I recommend the pill in a stable realtionship as it's more effective and more pleasant. | ||
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Omnipresent
United States871 Posts
On May 11 2012 17:40 d00p wrote: First of all, wtf are you talking about with the parachutes? It's not the same thing at all. If a parachute fails you die, if a condom fails then you have a chance for conception if a woman is ovulating + a couple of days after ovulating. What a broken analogy. And why are you calling other poster "kids" when you have no idea how old they are besides the OP. Does that make you feel smarter? Taking 30 seconds to google some site with some random person answering random questions with no references displayed is not worth that much in my book. Again, even if those numbers are based on some study it's definitely nothing solid because you simply can't reliably investigate this (see my previous post). Also 2 % chance per year is an important clarification. Afaik no one was talking about chances per year, but chances per coitus (or maybe I misunderstood, I didn't read every post that carefully). Do the math: 0,02 % chance per coitus with 100 intercourses per year. Do it. Also I didn't say the chance is 0,02 % - I said it's closer to 0,02 % than 2 % and that 2 % is way too high. What is proper use anyway? How does one break a condom with proper use? Seriously, I'm curious because it's never happened to me. Maybe there are bad cheap condoms out there but not where I live? My hypothesis is that something inproper is done when they break and the steps explained on that site omnipresent linked are not followed. And as I said, I recommend the pill in a stable realtionship as it's more effective and more pleasant. I linked the highest, non-wikipedia search result I got (wikipedia agrees). It may look like a random person answering, but it's from a .edu, which usually means someone checks the facts. I keep saying "kids" because people in their teens (kids, the ones we're talking about) need to be extra careful. They should use condoms and a secondary form of contraception. People who aren't kids (say, someone in his/her mid 20s or 30s who can actually manage to care for a kid if need be) don't really have to be all the careful. If you're 17 and get pregnant, it's going to seriously alter your life. If you're 30 and you get pregnant, it's still going to change your life, but it's managable. About the parachute... lol. The point wasn't that a broken condom=death. The point was that you were saying you thought a contraceptive only failed if the woman got pregnant. It's like saying parachutes only fail if someone dies. A parachute can fail to open (like a condom breaking), and we'd call that a failure. You're saying its only a failure if the prarchute (condom) fails when someone is actually using it to jump from an airplane (if the woman is ovulating) and if there's no backup chute (the pill). It's a pretty ridiculous standard of "failure." Proper use means wearing the condom the entire time you're having sex, every time you have sex. It means putting it on properly, storing it properly, etc. Even good condoms break, even when you use them properly. Everyone experiences this at some point. Also note that there is a failure rate for condoms even if they don't break. A small leak, which a certain number of condoms will have as a result of imprefect manufacture, is enough to be considered a failure. | ||
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Salv
Canada3083 Posts
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Gummy
United States2180 Posts
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