EPTThe first one was pretty scary, I blame it for at least 3 of my grey hairs.
Sex is terrible. - Page 2
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Rimstalker
Germany734 Posts
The first one was pretty scary, I blame it for at least 3 of my grey hairs. | ||
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Blazinghand
United States25552 Posts
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Pure-SC2
United Kingdom1440 Posts
There is no greater responsibility we can have in life over bring a life into this world. I've wanted to have kids all my life but now I find myself in a position I could do it, I'm friggen terrified and want to run to the hills. Maybe that just means I'm not ready? Anyway, condom plus a bit of care should be plenty. The pill messes with a womans body, and I think it's wrong of men to just assume a woman should take it. | ||
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Blazinghand
United States25552 Posts
On May 10 2012 01:04 Pure-SC2 wrote: Anyway, condom plus a bit of care should be plenty. The pill messes with a womans body, and I think it's wrong of men to just assume a woman should take it. I think it's really better to take every precaution possible. The Pill may mess with a woman's body, but so does getting preggers. | ||
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OpticalShot
Canada6330 Posts
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Gleen
Brazil707 Posts
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Servius_Fulvius
United States947 Posts
On May 09 2012 22:50 Zephirdd wrote: I don't want a child with issues, I want to have a perfectly healthy and great child. "I've seen people who were raised in the same conditions, and they became incredibly persons" FUCK THIS SHIT I'm raising a son as well as I can, not through crises and forcing him to live on my mistakes. I've seen people raised in the same situation and turn out to be model citizens. Anyway, you're going to get this a lot when you're sexually active. She'll probably freak out every time she's a day late. No birth control is 100% so you're always going to have that nagging suspicion. I'm the same way even though she's on the shot (which is ridiculously good without any other form) and I use a condom almost every time. If you can, try to get more than one form of birth control (condoms with spermicide, condom and pill, etc.). Still, she'll probably freak out every time she's late and if you're the anxious type it will probably get to you as well. I don't say this all like it's a bad thing because I've seen countless individuals disregard pregnancy as a possibility. Blind faith in statistics doesn't mean much when you've become the 1/1000 chance. It's also good that she has a plan because too many people believe it won't happen to them or plan on getting an abortion without realizing that it tends to come at an emotional cost. One could also argue that if you're so terrified of getting your girlfriend pregnant that abstinence is the most logical choice to allay your fears. That's an unpopular stance amongst 18-year-olds (and most everyone below 30, at least), but you can't have sex without taking the risk and if you're going to get nervous over the risk (no matter how minute) then it's the tradeoff whether you realize or not. | ||
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PiGStarcraft
Australia987 Posts
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run.at.me
Australia550 Posts
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IBringUFire
Germany103 Posts
Better get used to it. I had this situation like...what...20 times? Yes, you heard right, it doesn't get better hehe. Now, she has an IUS - and STILL we have the "I think I'm pregnant" story from time to time. | ||
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Psychobabas
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Cycle
United States300 Posts
On May 09 2012 23:07 Omnipresent wrote: Seriously though, if you're not at a stable point in your life and in a committed relationship, you need to be extra careful. Condoms AND the pill. Don't be cheap. If used properly, the odds of either one failing are pretty low, but you can't really risk it at 18. Kids these days... This. Don't kill yourself from a heart attack. If it's not overstepping a line, you can even pay for half or a third of the pill too, though some people can find that insulting. Paying for the pill is a helluvalot cheaper than a baby. | ||
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mordk
Chile8385 Posts
Protip: Google "pearl index" | ||
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Barbiero
Brazil5259 Posts
On May 10 2012 01:40 mordk wrote: What's surprising is that on this day and age there's still young people out there who have "just heard" condoms aren't 100% safe. You should inform yourself about contraceptive methods before engaging in sex ever again, and I'd recommend the same to every other TLer reading. Protip: Google "pearl index" I know contraceptive methods, I am very informed about them thank you. Just because I say "I heard" doesnt mean I am uneducated about something. | ||
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udgnim
United States8024 Posts
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jubil
United States2602 Posts
On May 10 2012 00:49 Nallen wrote: I've been in this position when I was under 20. Bricks were shat. I broke up with the girl, then she tells me she's late, then she didn't tell me when she did come on just to fuck with me. So that was fun. Few years ago I slept with this girl in her early 30's, guess I was 28, something like that. We'd been on a few dates and that, all legit. We get to the sex, I put a condom on, she takes it off. "Oh right, guess she's on the pill then, tally-ho". Nope. I get the "I can't beleive you came inside me" speech followed by "well I'm keeping it if I'm pregnant". I not so subtly pointed out that she was being a mentalist and basically trying to fuck my life and she eventually agreed. Thank god. Wow that second story....that's beyond deceptive into downright scary. I'd be pretty angry too. I guess I'm pretty lucky because the worst situation I ever had was when a girl and I were masterbating each other and she got all worried that somehow she had gotten semen in her, but she told me straightaway when her period came a few days later....I remember it to this day, she called them "little swimmys" lmao (this was back in high school) | ||
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CecilSunkure
United States2829 Posts
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TheFish7
United States2824 Posts
On May 10 2012 00:49 Nallen wrote: I've been in this position when I was under 20. Bricks were shat. I broke up with the girl, then she tells me she's late, then she didn't tell me when she did come on just to fuck with me. So that was fun. Few years ago I slept with this girl in her early 30's, guess I was 28, something like that. We'd been on a few dates and that, all legit. We get to the sex, I put a condom on, she takes it off. "Oh right, guess she's on the pill then, tally-ho". Nope. I get the "I can't beleive you came inside me" speech followed by "well I'm keeping it if I'm pregnant". I not so subtly pointed out that she was being a mentalist and basically trying to fuck my life and she eventually agreed. Thank god. lol wow. You can't trust them females, man. always wrap it up! Here is some advice from my man Big L + Show Spoiler + | ||
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Steelo_Rivers
United States1968 Posts
Sex without a condom is so good but so stupid. Especially if you aren't committed to the person (I was. hell we were together for 3 years so fuck it) that your enjoying your raw pleasure with. | ||
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DKR
United Kingdom622 Posts
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