girl with boyfriend - Page 6

On September 16 2010 06:11 Hawk wrote:
Why would you wanna date a whore??? Get your rocks off and all, but you don't actually date a ho that cheats on her boyfriend for you. That shit's a law like gravity and stuff.

On September 16 2010 06:18 Spiffeh wrote:
Sounds like she's toying with your feelings and crying for attention.

She's the one making you react to her. But you're the man; make her react to you. Be a leader. Initiate things. If she doesn't want to go along with that then she's not interested in you and you should probably move on.

Good job trying to escalate with her though. If you have the balls to do that then finding another girl will be easy for you. gl with it

On September 16 2010 06:18 News wrote:


So every girl that broke up with her boyfriend because she met someone else she loved is a whore? You are pretty old from what I remember, how are you even saying this. Another thing, what reasons do you date for? Sometimes it's just pure passion, you don't even need to know if she's a whore or not. I wonder if any of the great poets bothered with something as trivial as girls "relationship status".

On September 16 2010 06:44 Hawk wrote:


'Breaking up' and 'breaking up after confessing that you drunkenly fucking a random dude' are not the same thing. If you've been there, you know the difference.

Date in that sense that I was talking about would mean being exclusive, which he seemed to allude to at the end... Thought that was conveyed with the get your rocks off bit, but sometimes people don't understand my crude statements! But yeah, that's from experience. Girl who cheats on a bf always does it again. She's a ho. Go for it if you wanna get rocks off, but know what it is. You ain't finding love there (and it doesn't come after a few drunken trysts either!)

And I am not old >:[

On September 16 2010 05:28 Salv wrote:


Disagree. You're an asshole for promoting cheating. Look, assuming a couple is exclusive of course, if you go after a girl with a boyfriend and she had any class, she would turn you down. If you go after a girl with a boyfriend and she's fine with that, she's a whore. Her actions promote the idea that it's acceptable to cheat. Your actions of going after any girl, regardless if they are taken are not, also promotes the idea that it's acceptable to cheat. If you do that, IMO, you're an asshole. You wouldn't care much for it if it happened to you, so you shouldn't pull that crap with others; it's altruism that benefits everyone who values monogamy.

Moving in on your friends girlfriend is just being an asshole to a higher degree. Congratulations for having some line you're not willing to cross.

On September 16 2010 07:12 News wrote:
Where did you see her planning to fuck OP and only then try to break up with her boyfriend? If she's worried to the extent where she's crying and suffering trying to make a choice between the two - she would most likely break up with her bf first rather than just cheat on him. Because if she wanted to cheat and keep it a secret she could've done it long ago, it only seems logical. If she was a slut she would've done it.

She wouldn't be breaking up because of fucking another guy while drunk, she would be breaking up because she met someone she liked more - isn't that fair? Would you want her to stay with the guy she's probably lost most of her feelings for?

Another thing - who cares whether she is going to cheat on OP in the future or not, they are in this dramatic situation right now where they could be having the time of their lives. They are young people who are going to date other guys/girls, I assume this is one of their first few love experiences.

And Salv, if every sex leads to an actual relationship - you are in for a lot of disappointment. Sex is only a small part of a relationship.

On September 16 2010 07:37 dudeman001 wrote:


I'll concede that if the OP were friends with her boyfriend, this situation would be completely different imo. But since the boyfriend is some stranger in another country, I still can't blame the OP for his actions. Yeah in a perfect world we wouldn't have cheaters. And cheating shouldn't be condoned. But people stay in relationships longer than they truly want to and want that freedom they're being denied. Ideally, she should've just broken up with her boyfriend, gotten together with the OP, then if it wasn't working she could try to get back together with her foreigner bf. Psychologically so many things are going on it's a massive clusterfuck inside that girl's head. Even so, OP did nothing wrong.

On September 16 2010 05:53 News wrote:


A lot of these girls have only been dating one guy, that's why they don't know how to behave in that situation and have so many doubts. If she isn't going to spend the rest of her life with him - you can definitely become the next guy she dates. And if you get that impossible girl it is so much more rewarding. You'd wake up with a "fuck yeah" face on.

And there is no "healthy relationship". Sometimes you will meet someone that is not with you but that would most likely be your dream girl. You can stay away or you can try at it - depends on your mentality, I rather regret something that I've done than regret not doing anything.

Sometimes you have to take responsibility - would you not touch a girl if she was a virgin? Because this is the same premise - you might be ruining something that you don't want to be responsible for in the long run.

On September 16 2010 08:23 Xyik wrote:
lf you wake up with a big "fuck yeah" face on because you stole some guy's girl than you better keep up being an asshole double time because one day a bigger one is going to show up and screw your life up in some way.

On September 16 2010 07:12 News wrote:
Where did you see her planning to fuck OP and only then try to break up with her boyfriend? If she's worried to the extent where she's crying and suffering trying to make a choice between the two - she would most likely break up with her bf first rather than just cheat on him. Because if she wanted to cheat and keep it a secret she could've done it long ago, it only seems logical. If she was a slut she would've done it.

She wouldn't be breaking up because of fucking another guy while drunk, she would be breaking up because she met someone she liked more - isn't that fair? Would you want her to stay with the guy she's probably lost most of her feelings for?

Another thing - who cares whether she is going to cheat on OP in the future or not, they are in this dramatic situation right now where they could be having the time of their lives. They are young people who are going to date other guys/girls, I assume this is one of their first few love experiences.

And Salv, if every sex leads to an actual relationship - you are in for a lot of disappointment. Sex is only a small part of a relationship.

On September 16 2010 08:27 News wrote:


So this is not going to happen to you because.. why?

If you think "stealing someones gf" makes you particularly happy - by all means go with it. I was talking about finally getting with someone you tried hard to get with, not some dick measuring contest. Sorry to disappoint.

On September 16 2010 08:30 FabledIntegral wrote:
She already cheated on her bf with this guy, while it didn't lead to having sex, it's happened multiple times.

On September 16 2010 08:37 News wrote:
People can do more than their senses normally allow them to while being intoxicated.

I am currently observing a similar scenario where a girl from eastern europe is flirting with some dude that gets her high/drunk, they sporadically make out while under the influence. Her girlfriend made a bet with me that she isn't going to have sex with the guy ( she did dodge it thus far). She's on skype with her actual bf almost daily.

So I am going to lose that bet (I knew the guy pretty well and was confident he'd succeed). Might come off as a surprise, but kissing and cuddling alone in some girls minds isn't really cheating.

On September 16 2010 07:12 News wrote:
Where did you see her planning to fuck OP and only then try to break up with her boyfriend? If she's worried to the extent where she's crying and suffering trying to make a choice between the two - she would most likely break up with her bf first rather than just cheat on him. Because if she wanted to cheat and keep it a secret she could've done it long ago, it only seems logical. If she was a slut she would've done it.

She wouldn't be breaking up because of fucking another guy while drunk, she would be breaking up because she met someone she liked more - isn't that fair? Would you want her to stay with the guy she's probably lost most of her feelings for?

Another thing - who cares whether she is going to cheat on OP in the future or not, they are in this dramatic situation right now where they could be having the time of their lives. They are young people who are going to date other guys/girls, I assume this is one of their first few love experiences.

And Salv, if every sex leads to an actual relationship - you are in for a lot of disappointment. Sex is only a small part of a relationship.

On September 16 2010 08:31 Xyik wrote:
So that 'impossible girl' you were talking about was some random that you've had your eye on and not somebody's girlfriend? I'm pretty sure you were the one promoting how happy you would be to be able to get with that girl who's 'impossible' because she already has someone.

Sorry, you did disappoint. And no, that would not happen if people like you did not exist. 'I'd rather try and experience it than not try at all'. That applies to stealing things from people?

On September 16 2010 08:39 FabledIntegral wrote:
1. I assure you for the vast vast majority of males, if your women is making out and feeling another guy up, it's blatant cheating.
2. It's not some mistake when she's intoxicated once, it's a regularly occurring thing that happens because she has feelings for him.

In short, by most men's standards, she's a whore.

On September 16 2010 08:39 Hawk wrote:
Ok. Let me put it like this: What does this say about someone's character if they have a person they've been seeing 'exclusively' for 3-4 years--a person so dedicated that they are coming to a whole new country for their gf--and this girl has been drunkenly kissing and fucking around on several occasions??

Whore would probably be one of the nicer things I'd call her. treat it as a fling or whatever, but the last thing i'd do is worry about her feelings and start actually dating her. rekrul is a beacon of wisdom. He will agree.

On September 16 2010 08:41 News wrote:


"Impossible girl" I was talking about was simply a girl that was hard to get because she was burdened with some "relationship" that she couldn't overcome no matter how hard she wanted to. If you made her do it - be happy.

And you are not "stealing things from people". It's her choice first, she isn't anyone's "thing" either. Fail analogy.



You can't see yourself being drunk making out with another girl because she is your cute roommate? If you can't - that's you, my moral standards must be rotten.

If she's a whore - so be it, she's the whore for OP because she can't resist it. He's the fucking man.