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Necosarius
Sweden4042 Posts
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Happy.fairytail
United States327 Posts
On September 16 2010 01:46 {88}iNcontroL wrote: My advice is get some beer, talk to her and be all "baby, the sun and moon rise and fall on the beauty that is your eyes" and then drink/kiss. After she replies with something (I imagine) like "if only I ... *gasp*" and then you go "what is it? What holds thy tongue so?" but of course she just sits there with her bare back to you sobbing (you can tell because of the rise and fall of her slender shoulders). After drinking the beer you leave to go get more beer but come back to find she has TURNED TOWARDS YOU and you drop the beer which melodramatically falls to the floor smashing into shards and IN THE SHARDS you can see you two making love while drinking beer SHE WENT AND GOT SLIGHTLY FASTER. After making sweet love and pouring beer on each other you guys drink some more and kiss intensely but then she cries because she has dishonored her family. So you break into a martial arts montage in the backyard which ends with kicking a tree over as sweat shoots off your bare chest. Seems pretty obvious what needs to happen. god damn incontrol you are awesome hahah OP, don't do it! Don't be a homewrecker! What're you gonna tell your kids when they ask you how you met mommy? "Well kids, I made her cheat on her boyfriend over a period of several years! And now go forth and be like me!" | ||
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HeadhunteR
Argentina1258 Posts
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Jayme
United States5866 Posts
On September 16 2010 00:27 johanngrunt wrote: I'm not entirely comfortable with the idea of you moving in on someone's gf, no matter how you feel about it now, 10 years down the road, will you be able to look yourself in the mirror? also, if she can leave him for you, what's to stop her leaving you for someone else. could be a potential pitfall later. plenty other fish in the sea, and as a med student your "qualifications" seem pretty good. Are you serious? It's just GF/BF crap, not engaged or married. Give me a break. My advice though is to go far away, she isn't worth the headache, they rarely ever are. She's just using you as emotional baggage anyway. Either tell her to dump the old boyfriend and be with you or tell her to go fuck herself. | ||
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JackMcCoy
165 Posts
On September 16 2010 01:57 Necosarius wrote: Let her go and if she keeps coming back to you then go for it. But remember that she can cheat on you too. This is bad advice. When I was a kid I had a bird, and some old man told me that stupid phrase, "If you love something, you've got to let it go." Well, I opened the cage and let it outside, and it flew across the street and straight into a plate glass window, breaking its neck. I don't think it's coming back. | ||
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Stormich
Croatia336 Posts
 On a more serious note either go all in or leave her alone, being stuck in the middle of things is just an unnecessary burden on both of you. | ||
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dudeman001
United States2412 Posts
On September 16 2010 00:51 Salv wrote: Can you specify what you mean when you say nothing is the OP's fault? What about his role in this girl cheating on her boyfriend? It's not the OP's fault because in the situation, he's just a guy who's attracted to a girl. Yeah she's taken, but if she had the decency to not cheat on her boyfriend there'd be no issues here (unless our OP made a move anyway). If a girl has a boyfriend and is flirting with you anyway, are you going to feel like you're doing something wrong? You shouldn't, since she's the only using guys as she chooses. | ||
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Salv
Canada3083 Posts
On September 16 2010 02:07 dudeman001 wrote: It's not the OP's fault because in the situation, he's just a guy who's attracted to a girl. Yeah she's taken, but if she had the decency to not cheat on her boyfriend there'd be no issues here (unless our OP made a move anyway). If a girl has a boyfriend and is flirting with you anyway, are you going to feel like you're doing something wrong? You shouldn't, since she's the only using guys as she chooses. I still see it as a dick move, it's promoting cheating as long as the other person is willing. Maybe I just have more moral scruples to this situation than most of the people in this thread, but I think if you're moving in on a girl that you know is taken, regardless of whether or not she's into it, you're a dick. | ||
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Rinrun
Canada3509 Posts
To me - all signs lead to leaving. | ||
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gmsts
England61 Posts
On September 15 2010 23:25 gameguard wrote: Now one day we watched a movie and drank some beers at my place and after the movie, she suddenly left. I was like what the hell? Next night she came over and told me that she was so close to just taking off my clothes that she had to leave. it. She obviously wants sex... who cares about the long distance boyfriend you don't even know if she really likes or not. She is obviously thinking about cheating on him so might as well be with you. | ||
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WaZuP
Germany487 Posts
 I hope you are going to find a proper solution... good luck with that! | ||
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Grettin
42416 Posts
On September 16 2010 02:25 Rinrun wrote: She's being selfish. She wants her boyfriend and she wants to keep you close - yet she doesn't take into consideration the impact this situation has on you. Plus a girl who is willing to risk a 3+ year relationship is not someone you want to mingle with - who says she can't do the same to you? To me - all signs lead to leaving. To be honest, i would take this advice, or atleast listen it. I guess, She's not sure does she want you or the guy elsewhere, so hes playing with you and trying to figure out. I would chill the fuck down and move on. If something happens with them, you can see where that goes. | ||
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Herculix
United States946 Posts
she WANTS it. her boyfriend can't satisfy her and that's why she messes with you, so just take it or walk away completely and stop messing around half way because that's only going to mess with your emotions and think something is there when it's not. don't get it confused, this girl is willing to jump from guy to guy like she's doing with you and her bf, you aren't going have a stable relationship with her. you're only going to be able to have fun with her, so have fun while you can. | ||
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ccou
United States681 Posts
On September 15 2010 23:59 gameguard wrote: meh.. just sort of happend. What can i do though I really like her. feelings can be controlled easier than most people think. I used to think that I couldn't get over girls. Nothing dramatic happened, but I just started being able to. I can usually shrug things off after a day or so. You just do it. This girl sounds like a terrible situation to commit yourself to. It'd be ok if you just wanted to sleep with her, but it doesn't sound like the case. Just be friends and if you can't control yourself, don't see her at all. Letting go is only hard if you believe it to be. | ||
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TunaFishyMe
Canada150 Posts
The reason is because she has been attached to this other BF for too long. 3-4 years! For someone who is that young (I am assuming aorund 18-19), 3-4 years is a long time! You can't just cut the the bond like that. In her head, she is far too invested. To her, he is the safe bet. He loves her, she likes him. Its a sure thing. You on the other hand, she met for a few months. Sure, she likes you and you like her back. But is it enough for her to drop the sure thing? This is why she is completely confused. At this point you have to think, is this worth it? Do I want to go out with someone who has to cut a 3-4 year tie for me? Think about all the emotional shit she will have to go through. Guess who has to listen to all of that? YOU! Do you really want that? Personally, I feel you just want to bang her and thats it. You've been craving her for almost a month. You think you really want to be with her but really, you just want her to stop being such a tease and just give it to you. If you really think you love her and you want to be with her forever, well then gl. this is how you win. Make her believe that you can replace him completely. Make her feel secure to dump him and take you. Thats all. Whether it is true or you have to fake it. Thats what you need to do. | ||
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arb
Noobville17922 Posts
On September 16 2010 01:46 {88}iNcontroL wrote: My advice is get some beer, talk to her and be all "baby, the sun and moon rise and fall on the beauty that is your eyes" and then drink/kiss. After she replies with something (I imagine) like "if only I ... *gasp*" and then you go "what is it? What holds thy tongue so?" but of course she just sits there with her bare back to you sobbing (you can tell because of the rise and fall of her slender shoulders). After drinking the beer you leave to go get more beer but come back to find she has TURNED TOWARDS YOU and you drop the beer which melodramatically falls to the floor smashing into shards and IN THE SHARDS you can see you two making love while drinking beer SHE WENT AND GOT SLIGHTLY FASTER. After making sweet love and pouring beer on each other you guys drink some more and kiss intensely but then she cries because she has dishonored her family. So you break into a martial arts montage in the backyard which ends with kicking a tree over as sweat shoots off your bare chest. Seems pretty obvious what needs to happen. This is probably the best advice | ||
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TheNikeYork
United States389 Posts
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Elegance
Canada917 Posts
Agreed. It has every procedure specifically outlined too with details. | ||
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Xyik
Canada728 Posts
Seriously, how would you feel if your girlfriend of 4 years broke up with you for some random dude? Worse yet, your girlfriend of 4 years whom you've met preparations to go overseas and see her, broke up with you for some douchebag she barely knows. Honestly? I hate people like you. The only reason you want her so bad is because you can't get anyone else. These are one of your lucky golden 'opportunities' so you make excuses and justify your actions by hoping she has a bad boyfriend. If you were such a baller, you'd forget her and find an equally attractive girl without a boyfriend. | ||
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Mastermind
Canada7096 Posts
On September 15 2010 23:46 deo.deo wrote: she sounds like a real keeper, go for it you guys will be happy FOREVER! on a more serious note what makes you think when you guys are together she wouldn't just do the same shit to you? Ya, this is the reason I never date a girl her cheated on her bf with me. You just cant trust those types imo. Although as I get older I am finding out way too many girls are willing to cheat on their bfs. | ||
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