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i have a pouty expression on my face.
that sucks. i would have done it.
im not so great of a person tho.
[Boy Blog] A Difficult Evening - Page 2
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ComaDose
Canada10349 Posts
i have a pouty expression on my face. that sucks. i would have done it. im not so great of a person tho. | ||
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IVFearless
United States165 Posts
Time doesn't heal all wounds, it only deadens the memory of them, dulling the pain as the memory becomes hazy. Coming to a clear understanding of the pain and grieving properly is required if healing is your goal. It sounds like you are well on your way down that path. From what you've described it does suck and being honest about that is the biggest favor you can do to yourself. I recommend taking some time to figure out what it is about him that attracts you. Not the general, "I feel so close to him" but rather, what made you want to get close to him in the first place? You obviously invested a HUGE amount of time in him, why? You might make some interesting discoveries. Then again, maybe not. Anyway, hope you have some other friends you can invest in. Best cure for a broken heart? Good friends  Best wishes. | ||
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Servius_Fulvius
United States947 Posts
----- This decision is a no-brainer, at least from an outside perspective. Move on. The guy is in complete flux and needs a good dose of maturity. He will eventually come to this on his own, but is it fair to wait for him? You don't deserve to be treated the way he's treating you. You can keep going and MAYBE it will work out, or you can do yourself right and not depend on another person to enable your own happiness. It almost seems like you're saying "If only he'd change himself we'd be perfect", but as I learned years ago, "just as you can't change somebody, it's unreasonable to wait for them to change themselves". | ||
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