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fluffy_pylon
United States79 Posts
P.S. one of my favorite Kpop songs and dances performed by one of my favorite youtubers | ||
lichter
1001 YEARS KESPAJAIL22272 Posts
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GoTuNk!
Chile4591 Posts
Wall of Text A paragraph written, usually on an internet forum, that is usually very long, has little or no punctuation and is very stressful on the eyes. On your dilema: It's quite obvious she has the hots for you, and you should act before it wears away. In general woman are attracted to man who lead and don't hesitate, so if you like her your best chance to end up with her is to pursue intimacy. The fact that you two where in the same bed alone in a house and you didn't try to do anything with a girl you like seems incredibly dumb to me aswell. No one loves anyone yet, just be alone with her somewhere, get close, looks her in the eyes, and if she hold your gaze try to kiss here. | ||
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fluffy_pylon
United States79 Posts
On January 27 2015 15:15 GoTuNk! wrote: The fact that you two where in the same bed alone in a house and you didn't try to do anything with a girl you like seems incredibly dumb to me aswell. I am very nervous, scared, and awkward with girls. I still don't know if she was just being nice and wanted company. | ||
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iMrising
United States1099 Posts
On January 27 2015 15:13 lichter wrote: i was waiting for this! | ||
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GoTuNk!
Chile4591 Posts
On January 27 2015 15:18 fluffy_pylon wrote: I am very nervous, scared, and awkward with girls. I still don't know if she was just being nice and wanted company. Stop being scared, nervous and awkward with girls one baby step a time. Step 1 : Do what I said above, just do it. If you are scared, suck it up and try not to show it. | ||
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lichter
1001 YEARS KESPAJAIL22272 Posts
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CosmicSpiral
United States15275 Posts
On January 27 2015 15:18 fluffy_pylon wrote: I am very nervous, scared, and awkward with girls. I still don't know if she was just being nice and wanted company. Your dilemma is very common for adolescents around your age. Fortunately the answer is the same for most of those scenarios. Commit to a path. Either value her friendship to the point where you can forgo your attraction without regret, or follow your attraction and see if the relationship can change to something more sexual (and hopefully, equally intimate). Either way, you must accept that the act comes without a guarantee of a positive result. You are hesitating because there is no clear outline of what will happen; the dread of what could happen is overpowering your other motivations. With the exception of physics, this lack of certainty is true for everything. | ||
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B.I.G.
3251 Posts
On January 27 2015 15:18 fluffy_pylon wrote: I am very nervous, scared, and awkward with girls. I still don't know if she was just being nice and wanted company. My advice: stop being nervous, scared, and awkward with girls. Yes that sounds like shitty advice. Yes just like any other guy I used to get really nervous about this with girls too. I'm 27 now and sometimes my heart still starts pounding when I try to put "the moves" on a girl I really like. The thing with most people asking for advice to friends or sites like TL is that they usually actually have a pretty good idea on how to proceed but are just to insecure about their own "instincts" to do something about it. So to get back to your question. It pretty much comes down to this: do I stay passive and hope for the best while probably not getting what I want, or do I man up and do what I know I should do if I want to get this girl? Trust me man, just man up and go for it. No matter the (completely negligible) risk. In hindsight I have missed on so many opportunities for sex and/or relationships when I was younger just because I was just too passive and insecure like you. | ||
Seeker
Where dat snitch at?36900 Posts
On January 27 2015 15:13 lichter wrote: Sup?  | ||
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LoneYoShi
France1348 Posts
On January 27 2015 15:34 CosmicSpiral wrote: Your dilemma is very common for adolescents around your age. Fortunately the answer is the same for most of those scenarios. Commit to a path. Either value her friendship to the point where you can forgo your attraction without regret, or follow your attraction and see if the relationship can change to something more sexual (and hopefully, equally intimate). Either way, you must accept that the act comes without a guarantee of a positive result. You are hesitating because there is no clear outline of what will happen; the dread of what could happen is overpowering your other motivations. With the exception of physics, this lack of certainty is true for everything. This is what I came here for. CosmicSpiral laying out the truth, once again ! (meaning I agree with what he said and probably couldn't have worded it any better). | ||
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ahswtini
Northern Ireland22203 Posts
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Pandemona
Charlie Sheens House51431 Posts
I think you need to stop analyzing something and go for it, pretty sure she likes you the same amount or if not at least is wanting some more fun sexually! Go for it son, she wants the fluffy_pylon to put it bluntly! | ||
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Clazziquai10
Singapore1949 Posts
 DOOD, the signals she's giving you are pretty obvious already (at least to me). What more do you want from her? Tell you to f** her? | ||
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Torte de Lini
Germany38463 Posts
If someone makes justifications for you NOT TO LEAVE and TO SLEEP IN HER BED and to NOT BE NERVOUS. I'm pretty sure. | ||
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ahswtini
Northern Ireland22203 Posts
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c3rberUs
Japan11285 Posts
SLEEP IN HER BED =/= mixed signals. LOL. You could have at least tried to talk her into saying what she really meant. I mean I'm not that good with girls but WTF, c'mon man! | ||
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IAmWithStupid
Russian Federation1016 Posts
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Scarecrow
Korea (South)9172 Posts
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EndingLife
United States1564 Posts
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